• Travel

    Best things to do in Limbe, Cameroon

    Limbe is one of Cameroon’s Atlantic coast cities. It’s famous for its black sand beaches due to the volcanic soil from West Africa’s tallest volcanic mountain-mount Cameroon.

    Besides the large shoreline which served as port for some of the earliest colonizers to enter the country, Limbe is a herbarium and houses diverse plant species.

    For animal lovers, the best place to go is the Limbe Wildlife Centre. They rescue and rehabilitate primates, such as lowland gorillas.

    Historically, Limbe was called “Victoria” under the British administration. Strangely, it wasn’t considered a part of the previous German colony, Kamerun.

    In an agreement, on May 7, 1886 Great Britain and Germany agreed to exchange Victoria and its vicinity for German rights at the Forcados River in Nigeria and St. Lucia, KwaZulu-Natal in South Africa.

    However, on March 28, 1887 Victoria and its vicinity became a part of the German administration.

    According to church history, it was also at this time that the Swiss Presbyterian missionaries bought the land from the Baptist Missionary Society in 1887.

    By 1915, Victoria became a British territory again.

    After independence in 1982, the first President – Ahmadou Ahidjo renamed the city as “Limbe”.

    Sadly, records have this city as the home for the devastating transatlantic slave trade. The neighbourhood called Bimbia still contains ancient proof of slavery. It has been restored for tourists, as a way to aid understanding about the hostile past.

    My father’s village, now a big neighbourhood – Botaland is located in this city. I have been there countless times. However, will list just a few things to do below.

    Eat BBQ fish at the Limbe main public beach

    Unlike many countries where people go to the beach to swim, Cameroonians go to eat. Presumably, many Cameroonians cannot swim. Except for those who live at the edge of the ocean like in my village, I know many people go to the beachside just to relax on the cemented benches, and discuss with friends and family. You can even watch footballers playing beside the beach.

    Though people go to eat, they typically only eat BBQ fish, commonly referred to as“roasted fish”. It has a way of quenching our raging taste buds. This fish is sold as a whole with all the bones, and served with spicy chilly sauce. That means, we enjoy chewing the bones and sucking the juice of the head part.

    As compliments, some people eat the fish with BBQ or fried plantain -a fruit that looks like bananas. Others prefer bobolo or meondo, – local ground fermented cassava.

    The taste for is smoky, succulent and delicious. As extras, some people will sprinkle chopped onions, carrots or mayonnaise.

    Known in French as Poisson Braisé, this common delicacy is widely loved in Cameroon. It’s guaranteed to eat freshly harvested fish from the ocean. But you can buy refrigerated BBQ fish at every street corner around the country.

    If you like other seafood, crabs and shrimps are all BBQed too, though I like to buy it fresh and boil it at home.

    Please go to Precious (a Cameroonian food blogger) if you want to see the recipe of how to BBQ fish, using Cameroonian ingredients.

    Eat BBQ seafood at Limbe beach
    Sarah eating BBQ seafood at Limbe beach in 2017

    Relax with fresh air at the Limbe Botanic Garden

    Limbe Botanic Garden or Limbe Botanical Gardens (LBG) is one of Cameroon’s finest green places.

    Historically, it was created in 1892, during the German colonial dispensation. Though it was done with an agronomic intent, it has now become one of the main recreational and tourist attractions of the southwest region.

    In 1892, Paul Rudolph Preuss, and his German team, started growing this garden. Records say it was a trial garden. The main motive was to make it a centre for experimentation and acclimatisation of useful tropical species. They include; rubbercoffeecocoaoil palmbananateak, and sugar cane, destined for Kamerun and other German colonies.

    According to Wikipedia, in its heyday, it was considered one of the most important tropical botanical gardens in the world.

    To show its importance, in 1920 the British administration took over the garden. This was done in unison with the Royal Botanic Gardens, Kew, which provided advice and training.

    What is the history of this garden?

    From 1932 and until 1958, the Cameroon government sent staff to administer the garden. Since 1961, the government still manages the place, though I think they can do.

    In 1988 a partnership concluded with the United Kingdom allowed its renovation and development. Currently, the botanical garden is a conservation, education, science, tourism and leisure hotspot.

    Today the garden, covers 250 hectares (620 acres), has no more than 48 hectares (120 acres) stretching a few kilometres from the Atlantic Ocean.

    Historians say this is the second oldest in Africa. They add, it is home to unique spices and fruits; cinnamon, nutmeg, mango, ancient cycads and an unnamed tree that locals describe as ‘African Viagra’.

    With a small entrance fee, both Cameroonians and tourists can explore the gigantic tree species/plants. It is free to take pictures and enjoy a quiet walk in nature. Though, there can be a lot of mosquitoes in the evening hours especially during the rainy season, I recommend wearing long clothes or spraying anti-mosquitoe sprays.

    In 2014, I remember dancing and singing with ecstasy at the theatre area because one of the world’s best Gospel musician – Don Moen was having a concert there. I had been listening to his music since the early 2000s. It was a joyful day to worship God live with him and his amazing, skilled band.

    Limbe botanic garden
    My August 2017 Limbe botanic garden visit

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    Shop at the beach market

    Beach Markets around the world are generally the one-stop shop for fresh seafood, directly from the ocean, lake, river etc

    Limbe is no exception, with fish markets littered on every corner of the extensive ocean. Here, you can discuss directly with the fishermen on their wooden canoes and buy as much as your budget can handle. The prices are very cheap because these men don’t want to take the fish to their homes.

    Some people buy it, go to the vendors who BBQ and watch them grill it in minutes. This could cost only $2-3 for a big fish.

    If you come after midday, when typically the fishermen are done selling, you can buy from retailers on an open area. As expected, the prices will be higher.

    One thing is guaranteed, you will see varieties of sea fish, crabs, shrimps, sea snails, and smoked fish. Cameroonians do not eat other seafood like octopus, squid and a host of famous delicacies in Asia. Many people, if not everyone, doesn’t eat raw fish/ seafood.

    On a different part of this area, there are small souvenirs shops packed with Cameroonian clothes, jewellery, wooden arts items and a host of memorable gifts.

    shop beside the beach
    Beach market

    Take a walk around the historic city

    The disctioanry defines to take a walk as to wander round a town or city, especially when looking for work or having nowhere to stay. 

    Many times, I wander just to exercise my legs. A way to explore the ancient colonial city is to walk. There are tarred streets around the main road where you can stroll to admire the city. On one of my many trips, I saw very old churches. Despite the fact that a lot of modern renovations have been done in recent years, several of them date back to the colonial era.

    As earlier mentioned, Limbe remains one of Cameroon’s colonial cities that is why there are still a few colonial monuments. One of the most celebrated British Missionaries, Alfred Saker has a large monument with a sculpted face. He was the head of the Baptist Missionary Society and was reputed for establishing churches in Southern Cameroons. WIthin his reign in 1844-1876, he succeeded to collaborate with the then natives of the Sawa ethnic group to translate the Bible into the Duala language.

    In honor of him, the Baptist church built a large secondary and high school in Limbe but named it after him. Several years till date, every one in the southwest region knows the famous Saker Baptist College.

    Colonial history of Cameroon
    Colonial history

    Urban development has led to a lot of changes in the city, but it is not uncommon to still see a few colonial buildings. It is a wonder to me how those structures were built to resist the severe weather changes over these many decades.

    Some are government offices. Regardless of the negative effects of colonization, I think we benefited from unique buildings. The architecture and designs are ancient, but the materials used were high quality.

    Go horse riding

    Horse riders can develop better reflexes and a sense of balance. They build on their coordination as they use their entire body to guide and propel the horse forward.

    Reports say riding also offers cardio benefits. For example, liftiing the saddles onto the back of a horse, mucking stalls, moving hay bales, etc., builds muscles and physical strength. These are some of the benefits for a horse owner

    Horse riding is a common beach exercise in Limbe. For less than a dollar, anyone can borrow a horse and enjoy a few minutes of fresh air as the horse runs down the black sandy beach. They are trained to see people daily so its unlikely they can resist strangers.

    Typically, the rider walks or runs alongside while controling it.

    For many its a worthy experience as their friends, parners or family members take pictures of them either scared or laughing.

    go horse riding at beach
    go horse riding at beach

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  • Travel

    Hot Air Balloon Safari in Serengeti: What to Expect

    A hot air balloon safari over the Serengeti is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I highly recommend that adventurous tourists like me to plan to stay at the Serengeti park for at least two days to allow time for this activity.

    Additionally, hot air balloon flights need to be pre-arranged in order to ensure guaranteed availability due to the limited space of only 16 passengers in a balloon. The balloons can accommodate adults and children, with some limitations in exceptional cases.

    Generally, children must be at least four years old and must be accompanied by a parent or guardian.

    Safari companies recommend that adults be in good physical and mental condition. For example, Adults who are over 265 lbs (120 kg) may be required to purchase an additional spot on the balloon (twice the cost) for safety precautions, though this can be waived depending on flight occupancy at the discretion and prior approval from the pilot. 

    My hot air balloon experience in Serengeti

    When we arrived the night before our flight, a staff from Miracle Balloon came to have a talk with us. He gave us general information about how a hot air balloon works and what to expect. We had to sign authorization forms consenting we will abide by the rules of the flight.

    Miracle Balloon consent form
    Miracle Balloon consent form

    We equally had to give our contact detail and affirm we were healthy to go on the flight.

    At 5am the next day in the morning, we had to leave our camp tents and board vans with the Miracle Balloon staff. They took us to a place almost 20 mins away.

    Pre-departure routine

    It was an open air area with a lot of people. We were all offered hot coffee and tea. I am not a fan of hot drinks, but l happily drank because it was very cold.

    Arusha has freezing early morning temperatures. I assumed in September it could be warm, but it was chilly. I recommend taking a jacket or a pullover. Furthermore, I wore a jacket, some thick gloves, socks and I tied my hair to keep my ears warm.

    For about 15 minutes, we had the time to chat with others and make friends from around the world.

    serengeti park

    The pilots were introduced to us, and they made short welcoming speeches and general safety information. 

    While we chatted, we were issued safety belts and taught how to strap them.

    How is the hot air balloon inflated?

    Shortly after, l walked to the launch site, where l saw the balloon deflated and spread on the ground.

    I noticed almost 20-25 staff are required for the launch and recovery. I heard it was referred to as an “envelope,”.

    Firstly, the ground crew opens the envelope by laying it across the ground. A large fan is used to inflate the envelope partially before takeoff. The sound of the fan is deafening. When the envelope is about half-full, the crew attaches the basket and burner. The basket remains fully secured to the ground during inflation. The burner is used to inflate the envelope fully. 

    inflating the hot air balloon
    Inflating the hot air balloon

    Watching the inflation and preparation is an incredible experience, within minutes, l saw the truly massive size of the balloon. Once the balloon is fully inflated, the crew helped all passengers aboard. I was surprised to see the basket of the balloon is sectioned into multiple compartments for both our comfort and safety.

    The ground crew steadies the balloon as our pilot “Mr Bill” gave us and other guests a safety overview. When everyone is set, the burner is turned on once again, and we slowly felt the balloon aloft to the ground. 

    The crew guides the basket until the balloon is safely launched. We quickly learned that no two hot air balloon safaris are the same. The balloons rely on air currents, such as wind direction and speed. The pilot only controls the up and down movement. This is why hot air balloons require a chase team down, following the balloon on the road. 

    Advantages of riding a hot air balloon 

    Generally, hot air balloons fly over areas of the Serengeti park that are restricted to safari vehicles! During our flight, even the altitude of our balloon flight is different – sometimes, we rose high above the plains, so we could see for miles while at other times, it seems we were slightly closer to earth, giving us close-up views of the animals. 

    As we ascended aerially, beautiful features unfold before your eyes – meandering rivers and lush grasslands. From this vantage point, we realized that we could locate wildlife with little guidance – giraffes, elephants, gazelles, hippos and many other grazers and foragers. The Pilot told us, if we were lucky, we may even spot the lordly predators like lions, hyenas, cheetahs and other hunters. 

    serengeti park from the sky
    Serengeti park from the sky

    As we sailed above the park, l was slightly scared, except the Pilot’s one shared the same section with me and encouraged to not be scared. I gained a greater perspective and deeper appreciation for the intricacies of the Serengeti ecosystem, as well as the synergistic relationship between flora, fauna and human. We were able to see how animals feed upon vegetation, moving when a new supply is needed. 

    We watched herds move toward the water to drink and bathe.

     How long is the hot air balloon experience?

    Generally, the hot air balloon ride lasts about one hour, but it’s an experience that will last for a lifetime and very much worth its high price.

    After landing, the ground crew helped us out and made a small table for a customary champagne toast to celebrate not only our experience, but also the incredible beauty what we discovered during our superb dream holiday in Tanzania.

    Guests having champagne after the landing of the hot air balloon
    Guests having champagne after the landing of the hot air balloon

    There was juice too for those who didn’t want to drink alcohol or who wanted to mix it.

    Within almost 20-30mins, the Pilot told us the history of this tradition. It was an action done by the first French hot air balloon pilots.

    Bush breakfast

    After of chitchatting and sharing the sky stories, we boarded the vans again to another area for the bush breakfast, as we soon found out. Located still inside the Serengeti national park, there was a simple section designed with tables and chairs like an outdoor dinning room with a large canopy.

    Upon arrival, guests are welcomed with enchanting Swahili songs and loud clapping. The smiles and dancing was delightful to watch.

    After we sat, we received the variety of breakfast items to eat like bread, butter, jam, eggs, bacons and host of others.

    Guests eating breakfast
    Guests eating breakfast

    When we were almost about to finish eating, we got a strange announcement. The cooks had baked a delicious cake. Though in September, all August borns and wedding anniversaries/newly-weds were invited to cut the cakes and celebrate in a special way.

    Who would imagine I will eat a birthday cake in the middle of a wildlife park? I never thought about it, but I was happy.

    As we cut the cakes, the amazing Miracle Baloon team continues singing other joyful Swahili songs. I was full of smiles.

    That gesture remains one of my highlights in 2022.

    What was the most surprising thing?

    Shortly after we finished eating, the Pilots of the two balloons walked around and issued everyone a certificate.

    On a designed cardboard paper, our names were handwritten by the Pilot, and he mentioned the kinds of animals we saw from the sky. To crown the seemingly “graduation”ceremony, we all had a big family photo shot with the beautiful wildlife grass decorating our background.

    The smiles and shock were uncontrollable, at least for me.

    Restroom in the wildlife
    Restroom in the wildlife

    How to end the tour

    My last surprise was to use the unique restroom called “The Loo with a View”. I was unsure what to expect when we were told that name. I recall everyone laughing when the pilot said it and invited us to use it.

    It sounded weird for us to be encouraged to use the toilet. However, out of curiosity, I went there before we departed. A big wow and laughter were my only reactions. Though a simple hard plastic tent, the back part had a net which allows you to see the park, presumably to give you enough time to wipe up and run in case a wild animal is coming to attack.

    I really liked the stone design for the sink. Somehow, I still wonder how they connected water to make everything modern.

    The pictures below will give you the best explanation.

    It really was a loo with a difference.

    The last way to cement this experience is to shop at the Miracle Baloon tent. It is just a table with a lot o books, mostly children about animals in that live in the Serengeti National park. I gladly bought a book for my baby nieces. There were other souvenirs too.

    I recommend using Miracle Balloon for safaris in the sky. This was the best experience I had for my holiday.

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  • Godly Living Posts / Quotes

    God doesn’t condemn you

    Neither do l condemn you, go and sin no more”. John 8:11

    When Jesus was on earth, a woman caught in adultery was brought before Him by the scribes and Pharisees, the religious mafia of His day.  They tried to trap Him by posing a question that was difficult to answer, “Now Moses, in the law, commanded us that such should be stones. But what do You say? (John 8:5).

    Jesus answered, “He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.” (John 8:7). The scribes and Pharisees began to leave one by one till none of them were left. 

    The people in the crowd who wanted to condemn the woman could not. But Jesus, the only one in the crowd who truly had the power to condemn her, would not. He then asked her, “Woman….Has no one condemned you?” (John 8:10)

    Why did Jesus not condemn her?

    He spoke such words of grace to her because He loved her. Also, by asking her the question, He was giving her a chance to speak words of no condemnation to herself– “No one (condemns me), Lord.”(John 8:11)

    Jesus not only spoke words of grace to her, he also gave her the gift of no condemnation—”Neither do l condemn you; go and sin no more”. It was when she received the gift of no condemnation that she had the power to “go and sin no more”.

    Today, you have the gift of no condemnation because the Son of God was condemned for all your sins. (Romans 8:1). Today, God cannot condemn you when you sin because He is faithful and just to what His Son has done. 

    So if the devil tries to convince you that God is angry with you when you blow it, just say, “God does not condemn me today because He has already condemned Jesus at the cross 2,000 years ago!”

    Unfortunately, we still hear people saying, “Go and sin no more first, then l won’t condemn you.” Maybe you have been saying this to yourself too. But God says, “I don’t condemn you. Go and sin no more.” Be gives you the gift of no condemnation, so that you have the strength to go and sin no more!

    Devotional by Pastor Joseph Prince of New Creation Church, Singapore. 

    Condemnation bible verses

    John 3:18

    Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.

    1 Corinthians 11:32

    Nevertheless, when we are judged in this way by the Lord, we are being disciplined so that we will not be finally condemned with the world.

    Titus 3:11

    You may be sure that such people are warped and sinful; they are self-condemned.

    Mark 16:16

    Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.

    Here’s a link to other biblical articles.

  • Godly Living Posts / Quotes

    What is God’s opinion about Divorce?

    In ancient times, arranged marriages had a very low rate of divorce, and this may be true, in part, because of the great amount of shame that comes with divorce in those cultures. This is interesting to consider since there is very little to no shame for divorce in many other cultures, especially in the west. It has almost become popular.

    Divorce has become almost expected, which is why so many people are choosing not to marry and to instead just live together. And if they do marry, they realize that they have a “get out of jail” card, which they keep close to the chest. 

    This attitude is obviously very different from the way God views divorce. Consider God’s anger over divorce in Malachi 2:16. It says:

    ‘l hate divorce’, says the LORD God of Israel, ‘and l hate a man’s covering himself with violence as well as with his garment,’ says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith. 

    Here in this passage, God rebukes the Israelites because of how common divorce was in their culture. God said he hated the violence divorce created in the family, and he taught the Israelites to guard themselves and not to break faith with their wives. 

    What did Jesus say about divorce?

    In the New Testament, Jesus responded to questions about divorce. For exmple in Mathew 19:9, Christ says, “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

    In that chapter, Jesus gave one of two exceptions that can break the marriage convenant. 

    1. Adultery is the first exception for divorce

    Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.

    In  a marriage where there is unfaithfulness, if the innocent spouse leaves the union, he or she is free to remarry.

    However, Christ said that if anyone married a divorced person, not under the exception of adultery, they would be living in a continual state of adultery.

    Why would they be in a continual state of adultery?

    This is because God still sees the divorced person as married to his or her first spouse. The first exception that can break the marriage covenant is adultery. 

    With that said, we must still remember God’s ideal. Even though adultery breaks the marital covenant and allows the innocent spouse to seek divorce and remarriage, that still is not God’s ideal.

    As seen in the book of Hosea, Israel was adulterous in their liestyle to God many times, but he still continually took them back. As the prophet Hosea imitated God’s committed love, he took his own adulterous wife back.

    Even under the exception, God’s ideal is for the couple to restore the relationship, and by doing this, they demonstrate his committed love. Look at what Paul said about divorce in 1 Corinthians 7:10-11. He said:

    To the married l give this command(not l, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.

    Adultery is a reason for divorce

    What about those who divorced without adultery?

    Those who get divorced, for any reason other than adultery, must remain unmarried or reconcile with their mate. This includes situations where there is abuse, irreconcilable differences, etc. Marriage is supposed to be a life-long relationship, and when a person divorces, Scripture says he or she should remain single.

    In the case of divorce because of infidelity, the cheating spouse should be encouraged to seek reconciliation. If that is impossible, they must recognize that cheating is not an unforgivable sin. Jesus Christ died on the cross for all of our sins and there is forgiveness available. (1 John 1:9).

    However, forgiveness does not always remove the consequences. If reconciliation is impossible, the cheating spouse must accept God’s forgiveness and give himself to a life of serving the Lord as a single person. God will give him grace to fulfil that call and will make him fruitful, if he is faithful.

    As for the innocent spouse, God’s ideal is for her to seek to restore the marriage. If that is not possible, she is free to marry another.

    Why is marriage relevant?

    It is because those who want to follow God’s design must understand how important the marriage covenant is to God. For God, marriage is to be a committed relationship that is essentially unbreakable between a male and emale. Those who break it, except under adultery, are to stay single and continue to pursue the Lord.

    These regulations for marriage are strict and were given by God to discourage divorce.

    In a society with no regulations and no shame with regards to divorce, it has become rampant and a viable option in a difficult marriage.

    Scripture teaches marriage is a covenant which should reflect God’s covenant with us. Even when we fail him and turn our backs on him, he remains faithful because of his covenant which he sealed with the blood of his son. 

    2. Death is the second exception for divorce

    In Romans 7:1-3, Paul said this:

    Do you not know, brothers- for l am speaking to men who know the law-that the law has authority over a man only as long as he lives? For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is  released from that law and is not an adulteress, even though she married another man. 

    Here, Paul taught that the second exception, which would allow for remarriage, is death.

    Death breaks the marriage covenant. Marriage is a physical covenant that makes a couple one flesh(Gen 2:24). They become one in body, soul, and spirit. Only a physical thing can break this covenant and that would be adultery or death. 

    In fact, in the Old Testament a cheating spouse was put to death, and the faithful spouse was allowed to remarry (Lev 20:10).

    In the New Testament, this is no longer true, but the cheating spouse is called to remain single.

    death is a reason for divorce

    How should we treat divorced people?

    Again, it should be heard that divorce is not an unforgivable sin. God’s love and grace are experienced in an even greater way in our failure. Where sin increases, grace increases all the more (Romans5:20). God certainly wants to give grace to restore divorced couples to one another and more importantly to himself.

    As the church, Christ’s body, we must love and comfort those who suffered through a divorce. With the advent of sin, marriage has been severely damaged. Sadly brokenness is common, so, as God’s church, we must seek to be conduits of God’s abundant grace so there can be healing and restoration for all who suffered.

    Doesn’t the amount of commitment required for marriage, especially a bad marriage, sound scary? It almost sounds impossible. The marriage Union is supposed to be a lifetime commitment, without a “get out of jail” card. It is meant to be something that can only be done through God’s power.

    In fact, when the disciples heard of these rigid stipulations, they responded with a similar awe. They said, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry” (Mathew19:10). That’s how strict the stipulations seemed to the disciples, and it should also challenge us as we consider this lifetime covenant.

     Why did God make the marriage covenant so stringent?

    Simply put, our God hates divorce, and he intended for people to marry and stay together for their lives on earth.

    Our legal system provides strenuous consequences to discourage people from stealing, killing, raping, etc . Heinous crimes can incite a potential lifetime sentence in prison or the death penalty. Extreme consequences deter sin in society. This is the same thing God has done with marriage.

    He wants people to know that marriage is a life-long calling. It is a covenant commitment and the only way out is to, essentially, remain single. Because people in the church have not been taught this or truly considered it, they have adopted the culture of the world, which looks at divorce as a viable option or as a necessary consequence of seeking self-fulfillment and happiness. 

    If divorce is necessary to find happiness they say, then so be it. And, therefore it has become increasingly common even among Christians. Statistics reflect no difference in the number of divorces occurring in the church compared to those outside the church. 

    However, since marriage is meant to reflect God and his love for his people, it is meant to be a Union based on commitment. It is a Union in which both say ,”l will love you even when you are unlovable. Also, they say I want to be with each other even when they don’t feel like loving them. I will love you like God loves me for his glory and his name which is my purpose in life.”

    Conclusion 

    God covenants with his people through good, the bad, and the ugly. So we must consider marriage as a lifelong covenant.

    It is a covenant based on commitment and not feelings, for feelings come and go. We need to approach this covenant realizing the potential consequences of not fulfilling it.

    It should be just as people did in establishing an ancient covenant. We must come into this covenant seeking to resemble and reflect God’s covenant love for us. 

    The bottom line question before marriage should be, “Am l truly willing to love like God loves and commit like he commits for his glory and joy?”

    Source of Article from The Bible Teacher’s Guide. Building Foundations for a Godly Marriage book by Pastor Gregory Brown.

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  • Godly Living Posts / Quotes

    The power of your words

    In recent times, most people, when they desperately want something, will say words like, “I am dying for the piece of cake!”. Few will say, “I am living for that piece of cake!”

    Sadly, many people are quick to mention death when things go wrong. Yet, the truth is that every word you speak has power- to build or destroy hopes and dreams, to restore or cause loss, to bring fright or despair, to bless or curse-for God’s Word says that death and life are in the power of the tongue.

    The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit. Proverbs 18:21

    So stop lining your words up with the negative circumstances. Instead, start lining your words up with God’s Word and release the power of His Word to work for you.

    How can you use your words positively?

    For example, instead of speaking of lack and poverty, say, “God’s Word tells me that the good things are already here. I therefore pronounce my life blessed. I pronounce my life successful. I declare my life great. Darkness, gloom, poverty and sickness, defeat and depression, will not be in my life!”

    Instead of saying sickness and death, say, l will live long. I will not die young. Jesus died young for me so that I can live long for Him. I am the righteousness of God in Christ, and God’s Word declares that no evil will come on me now and in the future!”

    Instead of speaking fear over your children, say, “God’s Word declares that the seed of the righteous shall be delivered. Therefore, my children are delivered from every curse, every power of darkness and every evil. In the name of Jesus, l call forth a great, bright and blessed future for my children!”

    God wants you to have a life filled with good days and an abundance of every good thing. So say, “In the name of Jesus, l command blessings, favor, health, provision, protection, dominion and power to fill my life!”

    Here is a link to other faith-building articles.

  • Travel

    Best Activities in Seoul

    You might have heard about South Korea through Samsung or Posco conglomerates. Yes, the tiny peninsula country is thriving in technology, arguably one of the best in the world in recent times.

    If you are daring like me and want to explore a new place, l guarantee life in Korea will be a favourable one for you. It was the highlight of my staying abroad life, and l cannot help but make helpful recommendations of what you can do should you choose to live there. 

    Activities in Seoul-Korea’s powerhouse city, are numerous. Here’s what you can plan on in advance.

    The first best activities in Seoul are to watch a blockbuster movie at a cinema and eat at a local market

    Who doesn’t live movies? That will be a general question. Many people do. One way to enjoy high class comfort when watching a film is to go to a cinema in Seoul. The design of the inner hall is unique, and the chairs are stuffed with soft fabric to provide relaxation.

    I need to comment about the video quality from the gigantic screens. It is bright, making the images almost realistic. As for the audio, it’s almost as if the person is sitting next to you. I could hear every sound with clarity. 

    I am not a movie fanatic, but it was an awesome experience watching movies at the cinemas around Korea. If you are wondering about the language, as l guessed, worry no more. There are English movies with Korean subtitles and vice versa. But as you guessed, more movies are in Korean. 

    How can to get tickets?

    There are many ways to purchase your ticket. Most are affordable below 10USD.

    To facilitate your time, you can download the cinema app, choose and buy your ticket online. There are also sales counters in front of the movie theatres, so don’t be shy to walk in and find out if you can watch a movie or reserve for another day.

    Koreans love movies. It takes a short time before all tickets are sold out, especially if famous actors/actresses are part of the movie. That means, you will need to book early, but be sure to enjoy the time with a big cup of popcorn and plenty soda types to choose from.

    I cannot overemphasize the fun you will have, but can assure you, you will have fun.

    Go to this link if you want to have a guide on movie theatres in Korea.

    activities in seoul
    Activities in seoul

    Touring a market is a common thing for anyone who wants to enjoy the cultural vibe of a country. After a long street walk, l ended my evening eating at the Dongdaemun market food court.

    It was time to dine on some delicious Korean food and feast on the side dishes too. The stores open even late at night, so shopping is not limited to the day alone

    The second-best activities in Seoul are to attend network dinners and streets

    Korea is a fast-growing country and there are a lot of activities to do in Seoul. This might come in as an unlikely tourist activity, but it’s a recommendation l couldn’t hide.

    South Korea is a world giant when it comes to businesses, and they are open to encourage startups. Regardless of the area of interest, there are several startup events held weekly around Seoul. Most of them are held at the weekend to allow for more participants, but l am sure you can find some during the week. 

    I was elated to be a participant for one event aimed at encouraging youths. The event which was a dinner at 7pm began with an introduction from the organizers and a short time for interactions. My first surprise was that there were no seats. The small hall was well light with small tables and free coffee.

    It was a networking event geared towards people meeting others and discussing further projects if they want to start a business. 

    What to expect at such events?

    There are always rewards for participating in activities in Korea. I still don’t know if it’s a tradition. Koreans treasure their time, maybe that’s why they appreciate people who choose to spend theirs with them, especially for fruitful reasons.

    Another surprise was a game. We answered questions, and those who gave the correct ones received gifts. I won one of the games and received an expensive set of body lotions from a famous brand. It was an evening well spent, and l was glad to speak to several people from different countries. 

    If you just want to make new friends, this is a perfect way to meet international students and foreign workers. One thing is sure, there will be smiles and a lot of conversation. Some people who had plans to stay longer in Korea were willing to exchange contacts and start up a business.

    I didn’t continue communication with the many lovely people l met there, but l was glad l spent that evening productively.

    activities in seoul

    Visit Gangnam Square

    If you are a K-pop music fanatic, you might have heard of the popular Gangnam Style song. It’s one of Korea’s hits, loved by many people. The dancing energy in the song is contagious.

    I was surprised to hear Gangnam was the name of one of Korea’s main, bustling streets.

    Whether through the subway or the bus, l recommend stopping by the large monument at Gangnam Square. The lights in the night can be blinding, but the daytime view is remarkable. Shops are littered all around this area, so prepare a budget for a Korean souvenir. Your activities in Seoul will only be complete if you do this.

    The third-best activities in Seoul are to shop at an underground shopping centre and relax at parks

    Visiting shopping malls and shopping is one thing many people like to do. In Korea, there are several underground shopping centres. I have never been there at the early morning hours but l know from mornings (8amish) to late evenings, there are countless shoppers at underground markets buying clothes, shoes, cosmetics and anything simple to carry.

    These places are located at subway stations. I used to say they were temptations calling my name to buy something. I cannot explain how surprised l was to see a whole new life outside the natural air. Every shop is well ventilated, large and has the same items as shops on the street.

    You haven’t seen Korean life until you go under the ground. That’s hilarious to say, but l can guarantee you it is a little wonder. Coming from a country without subways, it left me in awe. I still wonder how long it took them to dig and build, but l can say l enjoyed my tours there.

    Whether it’s just window shopping or actual shopping, there’s something for everyone. 

    What to expect?

    Most times l just touched and appreciated things. Some items were cheaper there than outside shops. I still can’t forget the warm smiles and thankful comments from some Korean vendors. Be ready to engage in a small discussion. I think Koreans have built a strong customer service culture.

    Many are very welcoming when you come to their places, and some will inquire about your nationality. Though English is not a common language, a few will dare to keep a conversation with you. For black skin people like me, don’t be surprised if someone asks for a picture. They just like your smile if you give one freely like I do.

    If you are hungry, be sure you can stop by at any of the many underground restaurants. There’s something delicious everywhere in Korea.

    seoul street

    Take a nature walk

    Korea is one of the leaders in environmental protection. Growing grass and trees is a serious responsibility, and the government is deliberate about maintaining it. I spent some days touring parks and resting at small artificial-made lakes around the city. Though an unlikely thing to do among the activities in Seoul, if you need to chill, resting at a park is one way to enjoy nature in the heart of this beautiful Asian nation.

    The vegetation in some places offer a picturesque view, l can promise you, your phone will ask you to take a picture. 

    In some places around Seoul, there are open wooden resting house-like buildings, designed with ancient Korean roof materials.

    Inside, there are wooden benches attached to the walls. These places are public and free for anyone to rest. It was one of my best places to relax from the summer heat and just reflect on life.

    The fourth best activities in Seoul are to attend and present at conferences

    Koreans treasure knowledge and will do a lot to get it. I was impressed to hear and see them organize conferences and events, invite foreign guests and invest time to learn. This culture of seeking for knowledge remains one of the most remarkable thing about Koreans. They are determined to know new things and to invest time to teach people about their culture. 

    Despite attending several conferences at the United Nations in Bangkok and other countries, l never considered myself a keynote speaker until l got an invitation to be one. 

    What can you do at a conference?

    My faded memory recalls l was recommended to the organizers of the Seoul Global Family Convention. They sent me a very tempting offer, l couldn’t refuse. Then, l was a Law School Student at the reputed Handong International Law School.

    The organization which l later found was a coalition of several Korean churches was on a mission to condemn homosexuality in Korea. Their vision was designed in a very unique way to admonish the government to not legalise LGBTq as a whole because they said it was a sin against God.

    Firstly, they invited about 30 foreigners from different countries around all continents. These people l soon found out where lawyers or people who were part of the legal societies in their countries. They didn’t get someone from Cameroon so l represented my country.

    Every invitee was asked to make a short presentation and to present it during the conference within specific times. I was the only student among professional lawyers, but l was glad to meet many advocates. It was a great time to hear about the laws in other nations on the topic as well as to know about the judicial situation of Korea regarding the controversial sexual topic. 

    We (guests) stayed at the five star Sheraton Hotel for 3 days for free. All our meals were catered for at the hotel restaurant, but we had to share hotel rooms with a guest. I don’t recall if guests who came from abroad paid for their flights or half of it but l got a reimbursement for my roundtrip train ticket from Pohang city (down south) to Seoul city. 

    I learned so much within those days and will recommend anyone to make an effort to be a part of such if you can. 

    Why was the conference special?

    Amazingly, the organizers didn’t just make us stay in the conference for those days, they took us out to explore Seoul. We were able to visit a cruise on the harbour and have lunch on the ocean.

    Secondly, we spent a few hours to worship at a local Korean church of one of the organizers and all evenings were great times to chat with other guests.

    The most strange activity we had to do was to take a long street walk holding fliers that contradict homosexuality. We weren’t alone. By the time we arrived at the large public street , Gwanghwamun Square, we understood it was a rally, full of Koreans who are urging the government not to legalize homosexuality.

    We had to sit and support for a few hours while the church leaders spoke and Koreans applauded. Except me, no one else in the foreign group could understand Korean but we were told to show support. With the thousands if not millions, it was almost unnoticeable that we were there but we weren’t allowed to speak publicly.

    Surprisingly, the government sent police to protect people and prevent a stampede situation as they always do during rallies. This left me in shock because a similar rally like this to condemn marginalization in Cameroon erupted into a civil war which lasted for over 3 years. 

    participate in conferences
    participate in conferences

    What were the benefits of the conference?

    In summary, this conference made me understand the power of unity. Given how serious democracy is considered in Korea, the people’s voice means a lot.

    I was impressed by the extent of the preparation, and the efforts to decry a social issue they felt will convert their culture into something unbiblical. If many countries could be open for people to share their thoughts like this, there would be peace instead of war.

    I would say this conference was successful because since 2018 till now, homosexuality is still illegal in Korea. Though same-sex is legal for civilians, its illegal in the military. The Korean law still doesn’t recognise same-sex marriages or civil unions and couples cannot jointly adopt children.

    In addition, no national document approves of it and it’s still seen as a taboo in the Korean society.

    Whether this changes in the future or not as Korea is under international pressure from the UN and other human rights organizations, l remain proud of the Korean church for stepping out to express their believe publicly.

    They will forever be in the archives for upholding God’s word above societal pressure. In all their discussions, they were determined to admonish Koreans not to emulate western countries. They claimed some Koreans are just copying Americans and forgetting their origins. 

    These might not be common activites to do in Seoul but they will be rewarding. If you are hungry for knowledge, consider these. 

    Please send me an email of what you did. I might attend that conference too.

    To explore more activities in Seoul and other countries, check out this link.