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    Best Activities in Seoul

    October 2, 2023 - By 

    You might have heard about South Korea through Samsung or Posco conglomerates. Yes, the tiny peninsula country is thriving in technology, arguably one of the best in the world in recent times.

    If you are daring like me and want to explore a new place, l guarantee life in Korea will be a favourable one for you. It was the highlight of my staying abroad life, and l cannot help but make helpful recommendations of what you can do should you choose to live there. 

    Activities in Seoul-Korea’s powerhouse city, are numerous. Here’s what you can plan on in advance.

    The first best activities in Seoul are to watch a blockbuster movie at a cinema and eat at a local market

    Who doesn’t live movies? That will be a general question. Many people do. One way to enjoy high class comfort when watching a film is to go to a cinema in Seoul. The design of the inner hall is unique, and the chairs are stuffed with soft fabric to provide relaxation.

    I need to comment about the video quality from the gigantic screens. It is bright, making the images almost realistic. As for the audio, it’s almost as if the person is sitting next to you. I could hear every sound with clarity. 

    I am not a movie fanatic, but it was an awesome experience watching movies at the cinemas around Korea. If you are wondering about the language, as l guessed, worry no more. There are English movies with Korean subtitles and vice versa. But as you guessed, more movies are in Korean. 

    How can to get tickets?

    There are many ways to purchase your ticket. Most are affordable below 10USD.

    To facilitate your time, you can download the cinema app, choose and buy your ticket online. There are also sales counters in front of the movie theatres, so don’t be shy to walk in and find out if you can watch a movie or reserve for another day.

    Koreans love movies. It takes a short time before all tickets are sold out, especially if famous actors/actresses are part of the movie. That means, you will need to book early, but be sure to enjoy the time with a big cup of popcorn and plenty soda types to choose from.

    I cannot overemphasize the fun you will have, but can assure you, you will have fun.

    Go to this link if you want to have a guide on movie theatres in Korea.

    activities in seoul
    Activities in seoul

    Touring a market is a common thing for anyone who wants to enjoy the cultural vibe of a country. After a long street walk, l ended my evening eating at the Dongdaemun market food court.

    It was time to dine on some delicious Korean food and feast on the side dishes too. The stores open even late at night, so shopping is not limited to the day alone

    The second-best activities in Seoul are to attend network dinners and streets

    Korea is a fast-growing country and there are a lot of activities to do in Seoul. This might come in as an unlikely tourist activity, but it’s a recommendation l couldn’t hide.

    South Korea is a world giant when it comes to businesses, and they are open to encourage startups. Regardless of the area of interest, there are several startup events held weekly around Seoul. Most of them are held at the weekend to allow for more participants, but l am sure you can find some during the week. 

    I was elated to be a participant for one event aimed at encouraging youths. The event which was a dinner at 7pm began with an introduction from the organizers and a short time for interactions. My first surprise was that there were no seats. The small hall was well light with small tables and free coffee.

    It was a networking event geared towards people meeting others and discussing further projects if they want to start a business. 

    What to expect at such events?

    There are always rewards for participating in activities in Korea. I still don’t know if it’s a tradition. Koreans treasure their time, maybe that’s why they appreciate people who choose to spend theirs with them, especially for fruitful reasons.

    Another surprise was a game. We answered questions, and those who gave the correct ones received gifts. I won one of the games and received an expensive set of body lotions from a famous brand. It was an evening well spent, and l was glad to speak to several people from different countries. 

    If you just want to make new friends, this is a perfect way to meet international students and foreign workers. One thing is sure, there will be smiles and a lot of conversation. Some people who had plans to stay longer in Korea were willing to exchange contacts and start up a business.

    I didn’t continue communication with the many lovely people l met there, but l was glad l spent that evening productively.

    activities in seoul

    Visit Gangnam Square

    If you are a K-pop music fanatic, you might have heard of the popular Gangnam Style song. It’s one of Korea’s hits, loved by many people. The dancing energy in the song is contagious.

    I was surprised to hear Gangnam was the name of one of Korea’s main, bustling streets.

    Whether through the subway or the bus, l recommend stopping by the large monument at Gangnam Square. The lights in the night can be blinding, but the daytime view is remarkable. Shops are littered all around this area, so prepare a budget for a Korean souvenir. Your activities in Seoul will only be complete if you do this.

    The third-best activities in Seoul are to shop at an underground shopping centre and relax at parks

    Visiting shopping malls and shopping is one thing many people like to do. In Korea, there are several underground shopping centres. I have never been there at the early morning hours but l know from mornings (8amish) to late evenings, there are countless shoppers at underground markets buying clothes, shoes, cosmetics and anything simple to carry.

    These places are located at subway stations. I used to say they were temptations calling my name to buy something. I cannot explain how surprised l was to see a whole new life outside the natural air. Every shop is well ventilated, large and has the same items as shops on the street.

    You haven’t seen Korean life until you go under the ground. That’s hilarious to say, but l can guarantee you it is a little wonder. Coming from a country without subways, it left me in awe. I still wonder how long it took them to dig and build, but l can say l enjoyed my tours there.

    Whether it’s just window shopping or actual shopping, there’s something for everyone. 

    What to expect?

    Most times l just touched and appreciated things. Some items were cheaper there than outside shops. I still can’t forget the warm smiles and thankful comments from some Korean vendors. Be ready to engage in a small discussion. I think Koreans have built a strong customer service culture.

    Many are very welcoming when you come to their places, and some will inquire about your nationality. Though English is not a common language, a few will dare to keep a conversation with you. For black skin people like me, don’t be surprised if someone asks for a picture. They just like your smile if you give one freely like I do.

    If you are hungry, be sure you can stop by at any of the many underground restaurants. There’s something delicious everywhere in Korea.

    seoul street

    Take a nature walk

    Korea is one of the leaders in environmental protection. Growing grass and trees is a serious responsibility, and the government is deliberate about maintaining it. I spent some days touring parks and resting at small artificial-made lakes around the city. Though an unlikely thing to do among the activities in Seoul, if you need to chill, resting at a park is one way to enjoy nature in the heart of this beautiful Asian nation.

    The vegetation in some places offer a picturesque view, l can promise you, your phone will ask you to take a picture. 

    In some places around Seoul, there are open wooden resting house-like buildings, designed with ancient Korean roof materials.

    Inside, there are wooden benches attached to the walls. These places are public and free for anyone to rest. It was one of my best places to relax from the summer heat and just reflect on life.

    The fourth best activities in Seoul are to attend and present at conferences

    Koreans treasure knowledge and will do a lot to get it. I was impressed to hear and see them organize conferences and events, invite foreign guests and invest time to learn. This culture of seeking for knowledge remains one of the most remarkable thing about Koreans. They are determined to know new things and to invest time to teach people about their culture. 

    Despite attending several conferences at the United Nations in Bangkok and other countries, l never considered myself a keynote speaker until l got an invitation to be one. 

    What can you do at a conference?

    My faded memory recalls l was recommended to the organizers of the Seoul Global Family Convention. They sent me a very tempting offer, l couldn’t refuse. Then, l was a Law School Student at the reputed Handong International Law School.

    The organization which l later found was a coalition of several Korean churches was on a mission to condemn homosexuality in Korea. Their vision was designed in a very unique way to admonish the government to not legalise LGBTq as a whole because they said it was a sin against God.

    Firstly, they invited about 30 foreigners from different countries around all continents. These people l soon found out where lawyers or people who were part of the legal societies in their countries. They didn’t get someone from Cameroon so l represented my country.

    Every invitee was asked to make a short presentation and to present it during the conference within specific times. I was the only student among professional lawyers, but l was glad to meet many advocates. It was a great time to hear about the laws in other nations on the topic as well as to know about the judicial situation of Korea regarding the controversial sexual topic. 

    We (guests) stayed at the five star Sheraton Hotel for 3 days for free. All our meals were catered for at the hotel restaurant, but we had to share hotel rooms with a guest. I don’t recall if guests who came from abroad paid for their flights or half of it but l got a reimbursement for my roundtrip train ticket from Pohang city (down south) to Seoul city. 

    I learned so much within those days and will recommend anyone to make an effort to be a part of such if you can. 

    Why was the conference special?

    Amazingly, the organizers didn’t just make us stay in the conference for those days, they took us out to explore Seoul. We were able to visit a cruise on the harbour and have lunch on the ocean.

    Secondly, we spent a few hours to worship at a local Korean church of one of the organizers and all evenings were great times to chat with other guests.

    The most strange activity we had to do was to take a long street walk holding fliers that contradict homosexuality. We weren’t alone. By the time we arrived at the large public street , Gwanghwamun Square, we understood it was a rally, full of Koreans who are urging the government not to legalize homosexuality.

    We had to sit and support for a few hours while the church leaders spoke and Koreans applauded. Except me, no one else in the foreign group could understand Korean but we were told to show support. With the thousands if not millions, it was almost unnoticeable that we were there but we weren’t allowed to speak publicly.

    Surprisingly, the government sent police to protect people and prevent a stampede situation as they always do during rallies. This left me in shock because a similar rally like this to condemn marginalization in Cameroon erupted into a civil war which lasted for over 3 years. 

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    participate in conferences

    What were the benefits of the conference?

    In summary, this conference made me understand the power of unity. Given how serious democracy is considered in Korea, the people’s voice means a lot.

    I was impressed by the extent of the preparation, and the efforts to decry a social issue they felt will convert their culture into something unbiblical. If many countries could be open for people to share their thoughts like this, there would be peace instead of war.

    I would say this conference was successful because since 2018 till now, homosexuality is still illegal in Korea. Though same-sex is legal for civilians, its illegal in the military. The Korean law still doesn’t recognise same-sex marriages or civil unions and couples cannot jointly adopt children.

    In addition, no national document approves of it and it’s still seen as a taboo in the Korean society.

    Whether this changes in the future or not as Korea is under international pressure from the UN and other human rights organizations, l remain proud of the Korean church for stepping out to express their believe publicly.

    They will forever be in the archives for upholding God’s word above societal pressure. In all their discussions, they were determined to admonish Koreans not to emulate western countries. They claimed some Koreans are just copying Americans and forgetting their origins. 

    These might not be common activites to do in Seoul but they will be rewarding. If you are hungry for knowledge, consider these. 

    Please send me an email of what you did. I might attend that conference too.

    To explore more activities in Seoul and other countries, check out this link.

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    What’s God’s opinion about healing?

    September 28, 2023 - By 

    Many people think that, sickness is natural, so they don’t see healing as important. For some, there’s no need to pray when disease comes. Others say, God gave them the sickness so they think it is his will not to heal them.

    Do you know it is God’s will to heal everyone? The whole Bible is full of verses where Jesus himself as God healed many people. The healing of the blind, lame, maimed, mute, deaf and demon-possessed were common place in those days. Everyone who came to him with faith, received a miracle.

    Mathew 8:16,  When evening came, many who were demon-possessed were brought to him, and he drove out the spirits with a word and healed all the sick.

    Out of love and compassion for us, God sent Jesus to show us we have a relationship with him.

    In John 14:9, he said he who has seen Jesus has seen the Father. God and Jesus never gave sicknesses to anyone. On the contrary, when a leper or sick person came to him for healing, Jesus, full of compassion, told the leper, “I am willing; be cleansed.”

     

    Is God willing to give us healing?

    God is willing and ready to give us healing for every aspect of our lives. Every part like All about us. Healing doesn’t only imply health when we are sick in the body. Healing extends to financial, emotional and even mentally. 

    Wasting time to think, your broken situation is the plan of God to make you learn something, is a popular myth. It is funny that some people say God wants me sick, but they go to the Doctors, take medications and rest. God created the plants used to make the medicines. Whether we recognize it or not, that’s still part of his love for us.

    In summary, God wants us to be well and healed. 

    If you still doubt how much God is willing to see us healthy, check out his prophecy of what Jesus will do to us through Prophet Isaiah.

    Isaiah 53:3-11

    He was despised and rejected by mankind,
        a man of suffering, and familiar with pain.
    Like one from whom people hide their faces
        he was despised, and we held him in low esteem.

     Surely he took up our pain
        and bore our suffering,
    yet we considered him punished by God,
        stricken by him, and afflicted.
     But he was pierced for our transgressions,
        he was crushed for our iniquities;
    the punishment that brought us peace was on him,
        and by his wounds we are healed.
     We all, like sheep, have gone astray,
        each of us has turned to our own way;
    and the Lord has laid on him
        the iniquity of us all.

     He was oppressed and afflicted,
        yet he did not open his mouth;
    he was led like a lamb to the slaughter,
        and as a sheep before its shearers is silent,
        so he did not open his mouth.
     By oppression and judgment he was taken away.
        Yet who of his generation protested?
    For he was cut off from the land of the living;
        for the transgression of my people he was punished.
    He was assigned a grave with the wicked,
        and with the rich in his death,
    though he had done no violence,
        nor was any deceit in his mouth.

     Yet it was the Lord’s will to crush him and cause him to suffer,
        and though the Lord makes his life an offering for sin,
    he will see his offspring and prolong his days,
        and the will of the Lord will prosper in his hand.
    After he has suffered,
        he will see the light of life and be satisfied;
    by his knowledge, my righteous servant will justify many,
        and he will bear their iniquities.

    What does God want us to do?

    If you are sick in any area of your life, know that God did not give you the disease or problem. 

    God is all powerful. He could’ve saved us without dying. Yet, he suffered and died to make us see how he relates with our suffering and life. 

    I recommend you search all healing miracles of Jesus and spend time reading. You will see that, Jesus was happy to heal everyone who was sick. 

    Exodus 15:26.  He said, “If you listen carefully to the Lord your God and do what is right in his eyes, if you pay attention to his commands and keep all his decrees, I will not bring on you any of the diseases I brought on the Egyptians, for I am the Lord, who heals you.”

    He wants us well. 

    All we need to do is to believe in him. We have to have that unwaving strong conviction which says God’s with us, and he wants us to be in the healthiest state of mind and body.

    If we call upon his name, he is ready to respond if we will just call upon him. If you didn’t know, healing is our right. Jesus paid it all on the cross. Every stripe on his body was a significance of our peace and health. He paid the price for our healing.

    Healing is our right

    So if the devil says, and he always does that you cannot be healed,”just declare”, Jesus has paid for my healing, disease has no right to be in my body. I am healed in Jesus’ name!”

    Did you know that every curse of sickness that was supposed to fall on you fell on Jesus instead? He bore every one of those painful stripes on his body, so that you and I can walk in divine health all the days of our lives. The price has been paid so that we can rise up and get out of our bed of affliction in celebration.

    Regardless of what you are experiencing today, God has healed that marriage, job situation, relationship and body. In his perfect time, he will make it manifest, so let’s rejoice in hope and Thanksgiving. 

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    2023 Lapu-Lapu city tour guide

    September 16, 2023 - By 

    Lapu-lapu city formerly called Opon is a big city in the Central Visayas region of the Philippines. It is part of the Cebu province and the host to the second-busiest airport in the country – The Mactan-cebu international airport.

    I wasn’t very wowed at the arrival section, but the departure part stole my heart. You can still do last minute shopping of Filipino artefacts at the national departure section.

    Sarah at the Mactan - Cebu International airport

    Coconut sellers are many beside almost every street corner. I noticed the coconuts are whitish and very soft inside. So, these vendors scrape everything, put in a big jar full of ice blocks, add thick condensed milk and sell based on prices. They sold in tiny white plastic bags and would give a straw if you asked. That wasn’t natural to me, therefore I didn’t try.

    It was no suprise fishing are the islanders’ primary activities. I saw countless small and big size boats and sea vessels anchored at almost every edge of the Island’s water.

    There is a 2,822-foot (860-metre) bridge that was completed in 1973 which connects Mactan and Cebu islands. 

    The island doesn’t have much to see except swimming at different beaches. I didn’t go because they were far away and most had relatively high entrance fees, at least in my opinion. Cannoneering is common water sports for many tourists and Filipinos in Cebu. I didn’t dare because I am not courageous to dive from heights.

    Here are a few things to do for free in Lapu-Lapu city.

    Enjoy the sunset and a drink at 10,000 roses and café

    This is a small café at the edge of the Coldova beach. You are wondering what is different in this place compared to others. I wondered too until l went and saw. The two storey has a deck with chairs and excess sea breeze. There are protective bars at the edge for people like me who preferred standing. 

    Inside, the smell of coffee could almost suffocate me.  I was impatient to stand on a long queue, but the number of people indicated it was tasty.

    What makes this place special is the garden of thousands of roses. These artificial roses are organized in a line, separated into 5000 each and a small alley.

    During the day, the bright white colour blinks corresponding to the sun rays whilst in the night, the tiny electric bulbs inside the roses creates a whole different vibe. It is the perfect picture zone for lovers and families. All you will see are smiles and hear cheeses.

    I even saw a couple taking wedding prep photos there. Amazingly, If you get a spot to take your picture, you have to be fast before someone else unintentionally photo bumps.

    Sarah at 10000 roses cafe Cordovo

    When to go there

    It’s one of the touristic attractions and a local relaxation hotspot for Cebuans. As such, it can be very crowded, especially towards evening hours.

    I went there at 4pm and cannot lie, it was the perfect time. I really enjoyed watching the sunset transforming the white-blue skies into thick orange-yellow. It remains one of my favourite sunset views. 

    I recommend going there earlier in the day or morning, that way maybe there will not be a lot of people. 

    Weekends too are not the best times because there wil be many people. 

    The small place has a lot of picture zones beside the roses, where smiles and laughter is all you will hear as people pose.

    This little hidden gem is far from the main city, so expect to spend at least an hour on the way. You can board a jepney and then a tryclce or hire a Grab taxi. Either way, the photos were worthy. 

    How much is the entrance fee

    Since there are some people who want to just relax beside the sea and not buy from the café, the place instituted an entrance fee. I paid 20 pesos after standing on a long queue in front of the main gate.

    To my surprise, I noticed residents from Cordova were exempted from the fee upon showing their national identity cards. 

    Everyone gets a small receipt and a stamp on their wrist.

    I spent two hours just relaxing and admiring nature. It was too crowded to join the line for a drink. 

    Checkout their Facebook page for more details.

    Take a historic walk to the lapu-lapu city, Mactan Shrine

    The famous Shrine can be misconstrued for a holy avenue, at least that’s what l thought when l heard it was a tourist area.

    Before l cancelled it on my list, l decided to read more. Reading in detail, l learned this place is a historic-treasured site. Filipinos honor one of their fighters Lapu Lapu who succeeded to fight the Spanish invaders. On the 27 of April in 1521, Chief Lapu-Lapu fatally wounded Ferdinand Magellan. 

    In remembrance and memorial, there is a huge stone plint at the open area bearing the date that Magellan died. This Spaniard’s defeat resulted in the victory of the Philippines, reasons why the whole city is named after Lapu Lapu.

    Also, there is a gigantic steel sculpture made of him holding a large sword and a shield.  Its golden paint is appealing meters away.

    Those national monuments are constructed in commemoration of the 500 anniversary of the Mactan Battle. Just so you don’t over expect, this is simple an open area beside the beach with a large cemented ground area. No one can resist not taking pictures with Lapu Lapu after hearing about his bravery. 

    Lapu lapu city mactan shrine

    Another section beside the monuments has bathrooms and an open gallery. There are paintings simulating the war on a large wall.

    Besides hearing about Lapu Lapu and the history of Cebu from a commercial boat rider and some friendly Filipinos, l was happy to go shopping at the back part of the gate area.

    There’s a line of small shops almost 10 in number selling unique Filipinos arts spanning from designed bags, slippers, clothes and a lot of jewellery. In my confusion, l settled for a medium size bag and a comfortable pair of slippers.

    Go shopping at the Lapu-Lapu city Opon market

    If you are a picky eater like me, you might have to go to this market. I went there almost every two days. It isn’t very big, but it has all the necessities you will need to cook a simple pot of food. I typically bought fresh fish, pork, beef, vegetables and spices. The eggs were relatively cheaper there than at the neighborhood shops. 

     If you love fruits, you will see a variety here too. I bought a lot of fresh fruits there. For example, I was so surprised to see some of the biggest guavas l have ever seen in my life. Given they are my favourite, l hastily bought a few. Unfortunately, they didn’t taste as sweet as l expected, but my hunger urge was satisfied.

    The red and green seedless grapes weren’t very sweet either, but l liked the watermelon. You will probably like the mangoes or the tapioca (mango juice) sold around the streets.

     

    People and food items at Lapu lapu city Opon market

    There were a few sections for clothes, shoes and household basics. UNITOP is a large nationwide supermarket where electronics and household things are sold. Beside the main road, a large area was dedicated for BBQ. I saw chicken most of the time l passed there, but l guess there were other things like intestines also grilled. 

    Try a Filipino food at a local restuarant

    My attempt to try local Filipino food left me with many thoughts. During one of my random walks, I stopped by at Von’s Grill. The tiny restaurant had only three tables and seemed to offer a variety. Sadly, the chief cook wasn’t available. The attendant suggested Filipinos pasta and beef with vegetables. I was too hungry to deny.

    First, the food portion was reasonable, but the taste was an issue. It was too salty. I cannot confirm if that’s how it’s typically done, or it’s the mistake of the interim chef. Either way, I filled my belly as much as I could handle, sipping water along the bites.

    Maybe because I don’t like unfamiliar food, but I recommend trying any Filipino meal or street snack.

    Do you like fast food?

    On another lazy day, I did a random search of McDonalds. With a 20-25mins walk, I was at their small branch. I cannot elaborate the menu on this post, but I think it’s the same as those in other countries.

    I am not a fast food fanatic, but I enjoyed the spices used in the chicken. The portions too were reasonable. I felt satisfied for all the three different times I popped there.

    Jollibee will be a new name to a non-fast food eater, at least it was for me. I saw many of their branches littered on almost every street corner.

    After stopping by a few times to satisfy my grumbling intestinal worms, I noticed it was a fast-growing international food chain that had been for 25 years. Their signature ice tea seems to be what separates them from other fast foods. At least that was my observation. They sold ice creams instead of soft juices. Their burgers were smaller in sizes, but the meat filling was delicious.

    I dared their spaghetti and sausage tomato sauce and could say, it was average. I must remark that, their prices were relatively cheap, no wonder their shops were crowded too.

    Places to eat in Lapu lapu city

    The tiny Mom’s Pizza shop beside Saekyoung condominium has delicious pizzas too. On the day I arrived, tired and hungry, I felt calm after swallowing several bites of cheese pizza made within a couple of minutes. Their memory flashcards were a unique form of decoration. I recommend grabbing a bite here.

    Since I cooked most of the time, my list is short for food. Once, I was too lazy and tired after work to even go outside. I ordered via the Grab app and had McDonald deliver with 20 mins. The taste was awesome, but I had to pay extra for the biker.

    Where to stay in Lapu-lapu city

    Many well furnished flats in the Philippines were pricey.

    I used Airbnb for my search and could affirm l wasn’t disappointed. The studio room at Saekyung Condominum has a fridge, microwave, electric cooker and all basic kitchen utensils. There’s a big queen size bed with a comfortable mattress. If you choose to relax on the comfy sofa and watch Netflix, you will still be satisfied. Whether with the air conditioner or enjoying the fresh sea breeze from the balcony in the mornings and evenings, there seemed to be enough air coming into the house. 

    The spice of my trip was the big pool in the yard. It was great to unwind and remove the sweat from the scorching sun in the warm pool water.

    However, I contracted pool sinuses after my third swim, but l think it was because of the chlorine. Maybe my skin was sensitive, but l assure you it was fun swimming there.  People are always there except on Mondays to balance the heat of the sunny weather. 

    Saekyung condominium

    Why should you stay at Saekyung Condominium

    The advantage of this place is that  it’s barely 20 mins away from the main Cebu province airport. 

    This place is located in Lapu- Lapu city, some 30–45  mins away from the famous Cebu City.

    In my ignorance, l thought Cebu City was the only city on the island. Very shortly after my arrival, l learned that Cebu is a province full of many islands. With simple prior geography search and reading, l should’ve known. It was too late to change the island. There aren’t a lot of touristy things to do in Lapu Lapu, so plan accordingly.

    Cebu City on the other hand has a lot of attractions and l would’ve loved to stay there.

     After regretting, I later figured how to go there. ?first, l walked almost 20 mins to the bus terminal where l boarded a bus to Cebu island. It took 45 mins sometimes due to traffic. Other times, l walked some 15 mins to the ferry terminal and took a ferry which lasted 20 mins. The ferry was faster, but you need to take a taxi or jeepney from the port to move around the city because it’s slightly far away from the heart of the city.

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    What is fornication?

    September 14, 2023 - By 

    The famous Merriam-Webster dictionary defines fornication as sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other.

    This is a common phenomenon these days. People are comfortable staying with their boy/girlfriends without a marriage vow. Though it is rampant these days, it has its roots in centuries before now.

    Jude 1:7

    Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.

    Contrary to popular belief, fornicating is a choice, not a mistake. Everyone is tempted and will be tempted, but we choose not to yield to the temptation if we fear God.

    In the Old and New Testaments of the Bible, sexual sin was condemned without an exception.

    Jesus spoke strongly against sexual sin, calling it an “unclean thing” Matthew 15:19. 19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, fornication, theft, false witness, slander. 20 These are what defile a person. But to eat with unwashed hands does not defile anyone.”

    What should I do if I have committed fornication?

    Q. Does it mean If I had been a fornicator, I cannot be forgiven?

    A: Absolutely not. You can be forgiven if you wholeheartedly repent.

    God loves us all unconditionally and is willing to accept us anytime we run to him in need of help.

    The first is to acknowledge it and second believe God for healing and turn a new page.

    1 John 1:9

    If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

    Here are some scriptures about it.

    Consequences of fornication

    It is easy for people to tell others to stop some habits. However, many people like to know why they should avoid it.

    The Bible is littered with verses specifying God’s reason for us not to fornicate. Its a sin against him.

    Surprisingly, the Apostle Paul categorically recommended believers to stay away from fornicators in his whole chapter of 1 Corinthians 6.

    Let’s allude to 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Paul says, “Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.”

    From that verse among others, we see that Paul through the Holy Spirit didn’t approve fornication. Committing this sin is sufficient to prevent someone from inheriting the kingdom of God.

    This means it is a very serious matter.

    Sexual sin is not just a physical act, but also a sin against our bodies. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit.

    What does the Bible say about fornication?

    Everything mentioned in the Bible is for our spiritual wellbeing. Abstaining from fornication doesn’t change God, but it affects our relationship with him.

    Galatians 5:19

    The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery.

    Acts 15:20

    But that we write unto them, that they abstain from pollutions of idols, and from fornication, and from things strangled, and from blood.

    Timothy 2:22

    Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

    Ephesians 5:3

    But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints

    Is idolatry different from fornication?

    Some verses in the both Testaments, define fornication as idolatry.

    Numbers 25:1

    And Israel abode in Shittim; and the people began to commit fornication with the daughters of Moab.(Numbers 25:1)

    Colossians 3:5

    Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry

    Isaiah 23:17

    And it shall come to pass after the end of seventy years, that the Lord will visit Tyre, and she shall turn to her hire, and shall commit fornication with all the kingdoms of the world upon the face of the earth.

    Ezekiel 16:26

    Thou hast also committed fornication with the Egyptians thy neighbours, great of flesh; and hast increased thy whoredoms, to provoke me to anger.

    A man holding a woman after fornication

    Where does fornication begin?

    Mark 7:21

    For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders”.

    It is easy to think if you haven’t done the physical sexual action then you are not guilty. Fornication starts from our thoughts. What we tolerate and entertain.

    If you invest time watching pornography, watching TV shows or movies with naked scenes or looking at pictures of naked people, the thought will naturally creep in.

    Thus, disciplining ourselves to not read erotic books or magazines is a safe way to prevent us from nurturing fornicating thoughts.

    Acceptably, there are situations where we might see a lady or guy indecently dressed on the street and feel tempted to consider sexual sin, but we are expected in such situations to honour God instead of the temporary pleasure.

    Job was called a devout man partly because he decided in his heart to not sexually sin against God.

    Job 31:1

    I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?

    There are several interesting artciles on different spiritual topics here.

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    A day in Santosa, Singapore

    September 11, 2023 - By 

    Santosa is a small island city owned by the big Singapore island. It left me in awe. I knew for my 3 weeks visit around Singapore that they had invested a lot in developing the tiny island but l wasn’t sure how much they had done for Santosa. Sincerely, I can attest, l was impressed beyond words. 

    I was delighted that l went there. Singapore is a rich country and the government has endeavored to make entertainment accessible to everyone, tourists inclusive. Some places require an entrance fee. Given l was on a budget, l visited only free places. Here’s a list of things I did on my whole day touring around the island. 

    How can you go to Santosa?

    I began my trip from the Harbourfront subway station where l bought a 4 dollar ticket to board the monorail. A monorail is a sky train which is small- two cabins. My first surprise was that, the trains were colorful. Infact from the decorations at the ticketing office, even a blind man can feel the colors. I saw hot red, bright green and yellow monorails moving up and down the main island to Santosa island. If you love exercising, you can also take a long walk on the broadwalk on the main road to Santosa.

    Some people rent bikes or skate from mainland there. The most convenient is to drive your car but if you are up for a luxurious ride, you can use the cable cars. The singapore cable car sky network is operational from 8:45-10pm. With $35 for adults and $25 for children anyone can go to Santosa from the Harbourfront subway station. Just like anyplace, a taxi ride is also possible and you can use bus 123 from Bukit Merah station.

    transport means to santosa

    How to have fun 

    The government has been considerate to make special passes which can allow guests to visit many places at a discount rate. They are referred to as “Token”. You can buy it for either 60, 90 or 120 Singapore dollars and enjoy a variety of activities.

    I regret that l planned only a day- the eve of my return to visit Santosa. There were too many activities to do there. This blog will be based solely on the things l did. I will leave a link below for other activities but l think l can better speak of my experience. Also, many activities are paid but l was able to spend the whole doing doing free stuff. I recommend allocating at least 3 days to explore the entire island. If possible, lodge at any of the hotels there to ease your movement around. 

    What can you do in Santosa?

    1.Explore movie life at Universal Studios Singapore

    This is the first stop of the train. This large area is made of gigantic buildings crowded with tourists and Singaporeans. If you want to visit the main studios then you need to buy a ticket. There are ticketing machines in front of the main gate costing 90SD. One man l spoke to told me it was 80SD if I bought online from their website. The area is parked with Disney world characters and scenes of movies. This is a must see for movie lovers. I think the movies will come to live after this experience. I went there at 5:55pm barely minutes  to the closing hour so I couldn’t go inside.

    Universal Studios opens at 9am – 6pm. I didn’t regret the time because l was able to take lots of pictures at the large Lego shop and tha massive signature rolling globe ball symbol of the Universal Studios. Lined up on the same area is a bunnyverse- an area with cute bunny statutes all wearing dark glasses and seating around.

    Universal studios in Santosa

    I was equally intrigued to see a whole wall decorated with the famous paintings of Vincent Van Gogh in large sizes. The entire area is littered with several cafes- Starbucks, food trucks and ice cream places. Words will fail me to describe the grandeur and beauty of this area.

    To experience this, you need to alight at the first stop of the monorail in Sentosa called “Resort World Station”. I guess there are some hotels around too. 

    2. Take an Santosa island bus tour

    The small island has tarred roads leading to all the edges. The big streets still covered with vegetation in some places are clean and organized with bus stops. My greatest shock was to hear, l could board a bus for free, sit down and just enjoy the entire island. When l heard that, l happily boarded with my new Japanese tourist friend, Chiba. We spent almost 20 mins admiring the beauty of the place as the bus made stops at various stations.

    Whether it was the large Santosa golf club or the W hotel, l was surprised at the high standard buildings and quality of life there. You can choose to board either Bus A, B or C. They all came to the bus station after every 15 mins and they went to different directions. My friend and l used only Bus B and it’s because we were unaware there were others. 

    Santosa bus tour

    Similarly, at the beach, you can take a walk on the brownish sand or hop in on the beach shuttle for free. It also comes every 15 minutes and could be crowded especially on weekends.

    3. Shop for perfumes at Scentopia shop

    If you love fragrant smells like me, this small shop should be on your list when you go to Santosa. I was initially interested in just seeing how it was inside the shop but after l smelled several paper pallets of different sprays hanging on a tree outside, I spontaneously decided to buy.  As soon as the door opened, my nose was hit with a myriad of fragrances, l couldn’t resist a smile. The shop workers do a good job at confusing you by giving you tasters on papers. I inhaled some many perfumes and decided to buy one. 

    I was surprised to hear there was a take-home perfume making kit. Equally, if you are interested, you can sit in one section inside the shop and make your own perfume. That is, they provide you with the items and you can mix to form your own unique scent. Chiba and l didn’t plan to spend much time there so we admired it from a distance for a few minutes. 

    Sarah at scentopiashop

    I guarantee you will be tempted to take pictures sitting on the beach in front of  the shop pretending to be the body of a big beautiful butterfly. I did that with a smile. 

    5. Swim at Siloso beach

    Every edge of the island is a beach, and the famous Siloso was in my list. Though l didn’t come with swim suit for a dive, l was okay dipping my legs into the warm sea water as l walked through the sand.

    Given how hot Santosa can be in the afternoons, l suggest you move with an umbrella and grab ice cream from any shop to stabilize the body heat.  Chiba and l had so much fun taking pictures on the beach signs and feeling jealous to see others enjoying water games. 

    Siloso beach

    6. Stroll at the Santosa Palawan Green  beach

    This section of the island was really my favorite. I wasn’t just envious of people swimming and jumping on water tubes in the ocean but l was smiling as I heard the loud screams of children enjoying at the pools on the adventure waterparks all beside the beach. There was a lot to do. As l thronged my way on the sun scorched brown sand, l was surprised to see large adult swings open for anyone to relax. As you may guess, Chiba and I quickly took a break swinging up and down while l sang and made jokes. 

    I must remark that, the island has tarred walk paths with roofs. There were hidden speakers  in the herbs around street lights playing  constant light hearted music. I didn’t know the songs but l was smiling and dancing as l walked through causing Chiba to laugh in surprise. At several corners beside the main road, there are statutes of sea animals like a turtle, snail, octopus, just to name a few. Equally, there were wooden statutes offering a perfect spot for pictures. 

    Sarah and friend at Santosa Palawan beach

    I was most surprised to see a sunscreen dispensing kiosk. There was no one standing standing beside or a payment option which means, it was free for anyone. I have never seen this before. Apparently, you don’t have to worry if you forgot yours or didn’t have.

    On one area also, l saw a huge canopy pitched for everyone to take a rest after enjoying the water. This is uncommon in many beaches l have been to. 

    7. Visit the southernmost point of Asia

    This area is located on a very small island beside Santosa. You will have to walk across the ocean on a tiny canopy shaky bridge. The threads are secured and safe but l was scared when l took my first few steps. Geographers have confirmed this island is the most southern point of the continent of Asia.

    Therefore, Singapore is making it a place worth visiting. Unfortunately, some parts are still under construction. They are building 2 wooden open house like structures there. For now, it was only possible to walk the stairs to the top and take beautiful pictured of the ocean and the front beach area. I really liked the sea breeze from that top part. 

    Your tour here will be incomplete if you don’t take a picture at the large stone Santosa monument. The government has done a great job of piling a lot of concrete and stones at the edges of the ocean to protect marine life. I liked the fact that there were still trees littered around the place. It was a perfect stop for Chiba and l to sit, sip some water, check the free paper map and plan our next move. 

    Sarah and friend at the southern most point of Asia

    Finally, if you still have time, you can stop at the Central  beach bazaar for a bite or many of the restaurants littered around the island. Food shops were fired everywhere. I think hotels also have restaurants. We didn’t have time to eat as we needed to go back to the main island but we left satisfied. I will visit more places if l ever go to Santosa again. 

    Check out this link to see more detail things to do in the island.

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    Winners Chapel: Cameroon Church review

    September 4, 2023 - By 

    The Living Faith Church Worldwide, often referred to as Winners Chapel, has experienced significant and rapid growth since its establishment in 1981.

    The rapidly expanding ministry, known as Winners Chapel, was founded by Bishop David Oyedepo, who also serves as its President. Inspired by a divine vision and a deep love for all, he established Winners Chapel as a means to share the message of God’s love.

    With a presence in over 21,000 churches across Nigeria and thousands more worldwide, Bishop Oyedepo has remained dedicated to spreading the teachings of Christ.

    While the ministry’s headquarters are located in Nigeria, often referred to as Canaan land, Bishop Oyedepo organizes annual events like Shiloh, where congregants come together both physically and online for a week-long retreat.

    In addition to being a prolific author of numerous books, Bishop Oyedepo is passionate about reshaping education. Consequently, he has overseen the establishment and management of several primary and secondary schools, along with two prominent universities, namely Landmark and Covenant University.

    My experience at Winners Chapel

    For many years prior to my journey abroad, Winners Chapel was my spiritual home. Words can hardly convey the immense joy I felt worshipping with fellow believers during the Wednesday evening or Sunday morning services.

    Winners Chapel stands out with its unique and well-organized structure of services.

    Each gathering had a strict two-hour time frame, with all activities meticulously scheduled. I particularly appreciated this predictability, as it allowed me to gauge the flow of the service, even on the rare occasions when I was running late (which was infrequent).

    Typically, the service commences with a concise prayer session, followed by an exuberant 15-minute praise and worship session. It is customary for congregants to leave their seats, dancing in the open spaces with wide smiles and hearts full of gratitude.

    Why did I like the testimony segment?

    Shortly after, there is a brief testimony segment where, depending on the number of participants, 6–10 individuals would succinctly share their testimonies with the entire congregation.

    These testimonies are not only welcomed but encouraged, and people eagerly share their stories almost every service day. I was consistently captivated by the miraculous experiences shared, and it served as a powerful reminder to trust God even more.

    These sessions significantly contributed to the growth of my faith, and it was incredibly meaningful to witness someone narrating their journey as a testament to God’s glory.

    Following the church announcements, the Resident Pastors of each branch would deliver sermons lasting between 45 minutes to an hour. Their teachings are aligned with the mandate from Bishop Oyedepo.

    Except during special programs that featured live streams from the main church in Nigeria, the individual branches were expected to function independently.

    Winners Chapel exhibits remarkable structural organization, and I deeply appreciated the sense of order. The ministry has designated elders responsible for marriage counselling to support couples, and the children’s ministry is considered a vital component of the congregation.

    Although I couldn’t attend the early morning 1-hour prayer sessions at the church, I was always impressed that there was an opportunity for believers to commence their day in fellowship and communal prayer.

    People walking

    Winners Chapel cell groups

    Another remarkable facet of being a member of this church was the emphasis on communal living. Congregants are encouraged to join small groups comprised of fellow church members residing in the same neighbourhood.

    These groups met regularly to share the word of God and engage in prayer. It also served as an avenue to invite neighbours into the fold, introducing them to the message of Christ and eventually bringing them to church.

    Another consistent and impactful activity organized by Winners Chapel was the Saturday “all-out” evangelism effort. Members would assemble at the church premises in the morning, where they received fliers detailing the church’s activities.

    Armed with these materials, they ventured out into the community, approaching strangers, engaging them in conversations, and extending invitations through the fliers.

    This grassroots approach of reaching out to people in their homes is a sign of love. Talking to people at their places of business proved to be an effective strategy for church growth. Many individuals have been introduced to the gospel through these interactions, resulting in numerous conversions and an expanded congregation.

    How was l involved in Winners Chapel?

    I had a strong belief in serving at the church, so I joyfully dedicated my time to the choir. Every Tuesday and Saturday, I would eagerly make my way to the church for choir rehearsals. During these sessions, we typically had to learn three or more songs, following short voice training exercises.

    On Wednesdays, Sundays, and special Thursday and Friday events, the choir was responsible for leading the praise. At these worship sessions, the choir performs a special song. I cherished every moment of these sessions, especially the dance performances.

    Our repertoire was diverse, encompassing songs in various languages, including French, English, and Pidgin. Sometimes, we delved into traditional music, singing songs from Cameroonian groups and donning cultural attire.

    Winners chapel choir

    On other occasions, we explored gospel songs from Nigeria, South Africa, Congo (in Lingala), and various African regions. American music was also in the mix. Our weekly performances were marked by this rich diversity, which I thoroughly appreciated.

    Why should you visit the church?

    1. Inspirational Worship Services: Winners Chapel offers vibrant and spiritually enriching worship services. With dynamic praise and worship sessions, heartfelt testimonies, and impactful sermons you will be blessed. Equally, attending services here can be a source of inspiration and spiritual growth.
    2. Strong Sense of Community: The church places a strong emphasis on building a sense of community among its members. Through small groups, fellowship events, and outreach activities, you can forge meaningful connections with fellow Christians.
    3. Biblical Teaching: Winners Chapel is known for its commitment to teaching the Word of God. The sermons are based on biblical principles and are geared towards helping you deepen your understanding of the Scriptures.
    4. Opportunities for Service: If you’re looking for ways to get involved and serve, this church provides numerous opportunities. Whether it’s through the choir, outreach programs, or volunteering in various ministries, you can actively contribute to the church’s mission.
    5. Evangelism and Outreach: Winners Chapel has a strong focus on evangelism and outreach. If you’re passionate about sharing your faith and reaching out to the community, the church’s evangelism initiatives is great. Also, the outreach activities provide a platform for you to make a difference.

    Visiting Winners Chapel can offer a spiritually enriching experience, a sense of belonging, and opportunities for personal and communal growth.

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    How to show gratitude

    September 2, 2023 - By 

    Gratitude is not merely a fleeting emotion; it is a deliberate and intentional expression of thankfulness for receiving blessings we may not necessarily deserve.

    In our journey through life, we are never truly alone. God has divinely appointed individuals to walk beside us during different stages, offering encouragement and support as we fulfill His purpose on Earth. Therefore, it is our solemn duty to cultivate a spirit of gratitude towards them.

    Conversely, we are also called to be instruments of support in the lives of others. It is an expectation that those around us hold, and it is our heavenly obligation to fulfill. While not everyone may express gratitude for our assistance, this should not deter us from extending a helping hand whenever we have the means to do so.

    Apostle Paul, guided by the Holy Spirit, serves as an exemplary model of recognizing and expressing gratitude to those who played pivotal roles in his ministry. This demonstrates that we, too, should follow suit.

    Our expressions of gratitude can encompass various forms, including acknowledging the time people invest in our lives, appreciating their financial or material contributions, and recognizing their care and concern during both challenging and prosperous times.

    In the scriptures below, we find Apostle Paul publicly expressing his heartfelt gratitude to numerous individuals who have made significant contributions to his mission.

    How did Apostle Paul show gratitude?

    Romans 16 I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a deacon of the church in Cenchreae. 2 I ask you to receive her in the Lord in a way worthy of his people and to give her any help she may need from you, for she has been the benefactor of many people, including me.

    3 Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my co-workers in Christ Jesus. 4 They risked their lives for me. Not only I but all the churches of the Gentiles are grateful to them.

    5 Greet also the church that meets at their house.

    Greet my dear friend Epenetus, who was the first convert to Christ in the province of Asia.

    6 Greet Mary, who worked very hard for you.

    7 Greet Andronicus and Junia, my fellow Jews who have been in prison with me. They are outstanding among the apostles, and they were in Christ before I was.

    8 Greet Ampliatus, my dear friend in the Lord.

    9 Greet Urbanus, our co-worker in Christ, and my dear friend Stachys.

    10 Greet Apelles, whose fidelity to Christ has stood the test.

    Greet those who belong to the household of Aristobulus.

    11 Greet Herodion, my fellow Jew.

    Greet those in the household of Narcissus who are in the Lord.

    12 Greet Tryphena and Tryphosa, those women who work hard in the Lord.

    Greet my dear friend Persis, another woman who has worked very hard in the Lord.

    13 Greet Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother, who has been a mother to me, too.

    14 Greet Asyncritus, Phlegon, Hermes, Patrobas, Hermas and the other brothers and sisters with them.

    15 Greet Philologus, Julia, Nereus and his sister, and Olympas and all the Lord’s people who are with them.

    16 Greet one another with a holy kiss.

    All the churches of Christ send greetings.”

    A note about gratefulness

    Why should we be grateful?


    The closing of this chapter highlights a multitude of individuals whom Paul held in deep gratitude. It serves as a poignant reminder that both giving and receiving appreciation bring profound joy to the human heart.

    This sentiment isn’t exclusive to humans alone; it extends to God. Expressing gratitude is not just a request but a requirement from God. It’s not optional; it’s mandatory, yet it’s never coerced.

    In fact, the more we cultivate an attitude of gratitude towards God, the more abundantly He showers us with His blessings. While God’s love and generosity are not contingent on our acknowledgment, our gratitude signifies our awareness of the countless gifts bestowed upon us.

    While human love may not always mirror God’s unconditional love, there’s an inherent inclination to give more to those who express thankfulness.

    What can we do to show gratitude?

    Expressing gratitude is a deeply personal and diverse experience, as everyone responds uniquely to acts of appreciation.

    One of the simplest and most economical ways to convey gratitude is through spoken words.

    Clearly articulating our thankfulness when someone extends a kindness toward us is fundamental. Moreover, sharing how their actions have positively impacted our lives adds depth to our expressions of gratitude.

    However, a thoughtful approach is to tailor our gestures of thanksgiving to the individual’s personality. For instance, if you’re aware that a person cherishes receiving gifts, a small, meaningful token can hold immense value, regardless of its price.

    Conversely, for those who find joy in spending time with others, surprising them with a visit can be a powerful expression of gratitude.

    In summary, whether it’s gratitude towards God or fellow humans, there’s always a way to convey appreciation. The key is to find ways to do so regularly, embracing diverse means of expressing our thankfulness.

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    Christian Life Assembly: Rwanda Church Review

    August 20, 2023 - By 

    Nestled along one of Rwanda’s many steep hills, you’ll discover a modest-sized church building. The Christian Life Assembly, though discreetly positioned, accommodates hundreds of devoted congregants every Sunday.

    My memories of a visit in 2022 remain vivid; I witnessed a bustling throng of individuals hastening to engage in the services.

    Opting for the midday session till 1-30 pm, I was struck by the sense of fervor that permeated the atmosphere.

    If you are an early riser then the first service at 8am – 9.30am or the second service at 10am – 11.30am will be the perfect match.

    What is the mission of Christian Life Assembly

    Christian Life Assembly (CLA) is more than just a church; it’s a dynamic and transformative community centered around the unshakable foundation of the Bible and the life-changing potential of a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

    Rooted in the belief that faith is a living force that can empower and reshape lives, CLA invites you to be a part of this extraordinary journey.

    At the heart of CLA’s spiritual philosophy is its cell-based structure, designed to foster genuine connections and meaningful relationships.

    These smaller groups, or cells, provide a nurturing environment where individuals can engage in open discussions, share their spiritual insights, and support one another on their faith journey.

    Through these interactions, faith comes alive, and transformation becomes a shared experience.

    Small group fellowships (Cells) happen every Wednesday in designated homes across the city. See the Cell section for a cell near you.

    How did I know about Christian Life Assembly?

    An invitation from a Rwandese friend led me to this place of worship, a proposition I embraced wholeheartedly.

    Accompanied by her, I was glad to meet fellow believers.

    Upon entering, ushers greeted us with warmth, allowing us to select our seats toward the back.

    The wooden benches followed a gentle curve, ensuring everyone had a clear view of the pulpit.

    While adorned with subtle embellishments, the auditorium stood distinguished by its three main, sizable doors through which a stream of worshipers entered.

    Sarah and Rwandese friends in Christian Life Assembly premises
    Sarah and Rwandese friends at Christian Life Assembly premises

    How are the services organized?

    Similar to many spiritual gatherings, the service initiated with a brief prayer and a spirited session of praise. The resonant melodies of renowned songs by Hillsong United and other contemporary gospel pieces enveloped me in a profound sense of reverence.

    After the harmony of four songs, we settled into our seats, the room buzzing with anticipation.

    Amid the announcements, an invigorating sermon from the Pastor took center stage.

    I vividly recall his adept weaving of various Bible verses, deftly intertwining the text with personal anecdotes.

    One Sunday, marked as June 19, 2022, held a distinctive place in my heart as it was a celebration of Father’s Day.

    Through relatable examples, the Pastor expounded on the significance of paternal roles, skillfully connecting them to God.

    “God created to be is rooted in familial relationships. By faith and acceptance of our adoption into God’s family through the redemptive sacrifice of Jesus, we become an inseparable part of Him”, the Pastor added.

    What happened after the first visit?

    As the service concluded, my curiosity led me to join other newcomers in the church’s rear office as announced earlier.

    They warmly welcomed by fellow church members. After basic introductions, they told us about the church’s cell group structure.

    While I, unfortunately, couldn’t partake due to my tourist status, I found solace in knowing such a supportive community existed.

    Departing the brief meeting with a smile, I sipped on a complimentary small bottle of Fanta.

    If you’re seeking a spiritual community that embraces the transformative potential of faith, Christian Life Assembly welcomes you with open arms.

    Whether you’re looking to deepen your understanding of the Bible, or foster genuine connections. You can embark on a journey of personal growth. CLA invites you to join this vibrant community where faith comes to life, and lives are forever changed.

    Whether you’re a visitor to Kigali or a newcomer to Rwanda, I wholeheartedly endorse Christian Life Assembly as a haven for fellowship. My experience there was enriching, and should I ever return to the city, I wouldn’t hesitate to grace its doors once again.

    You can read about the church from their website.

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  • Sarah at a stadium ready to watch a football match
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    Football in Cameroon: A Passionate Journey of Talent and Triumph

    August 13, 2023 - By 

    Football, often referred to as “the beautiful game,” holds a special place in the hearts of Cameroonians. From the grassroots level to the professional leagues, football in Cameroon is more than just a sport—it’s a way of life, a source of unity, and a symbol of national pride.

    This Central African nation is renowned for its rich football history, producing remarkable talents that have made a significant impact on the global stage.

    If you are ever in Cameroon, ask around to watch a match. Almost every neighbourhood has several fields where people gather every evening, especially weekends, to watch and play matches.

    How is football in Cameroon?

    I would call myself a football lover, though I might not watch all local matches around the city. I enjoy dressing for every match if I have the opportunity to go to the stadium.

    Cameroon attire
    Me wearing the typical Cameroon football fan attire

    Football fan attire varies widely based on the team, the culture of the fanbase, the location, and the specific event or match being attended. However, there are some common elements and trends that are often associated with football fan attire. Here’s a description of typical football fan attire in Cameroon:

    Team Jerseys: One of the most iconic pieces of football fan attire is the team jersey. Cameroonian fans proudly wear the official jerseys, featuring national flag’s colors, national animal (Lion), and sometimes the names and numbers of popular players. These jerseys come in various styles, from the traditional home kits to away and alternate designs.

    Hats and Caps: Cameroonian fans typically wear hats or caps adorned with the national logo or colors. These headwear items offer both sun protection and a way to show team loyalty.

    How do fanatics dress to go watch a match?

    Face Paint and Body Art: For the most enthusiastic fans, face paint, temporary tattoos, and body art are a fun way to display team spirit. Many fanatics paint their faces in team colors, create designs, or even replicate the national emblem. Some ladies go to extreme sometimes to braid their hair with three different extensions (green, red and yellow)as in the national flag. Football fanaticism is almost like a mini-god in Cameroon for many people.

    Flags and Banners: It is very common for a football fan to carry flags or banners with team emblems, slogans, or messages of support. These items are often waved in the stands during matches, adding to the vibrant atmosphere.

    In other cases, some people who don’t want to look excessive wear accessories like wristbands, lanyards, and keychains also feature team logos and colors. This is a whole business during regional or global competitions.

    The easiest way to know there is a match on any day is if you see many people around the streets wearing either the jersey or all of the mentioned items.

    Many Cameroonians claim wearing the above listed items adds luck to the team’s victory.

    Historical perspective of football in Cameroon

    Football was introduced to Cameroon during the colonial era, and it quickly captured the imagination of the local population. Over the years, the sport has grown exponentially, with young Cameroonians showcasing their skills in streets, schools, and local clubs.

    The Cameroon Football Federation (FECAFOOT) has played a crucial role in fostering the development of football across the country, providing infrastructure, training, and support to aspiring players. Currently headed by Cameroon’s best and one of the most famous African player, Samuel Eto’o Fils, the future of the country’s football status is brighter than ever.

    What are the national achievements?

    Cameroon’s national football team, affectionately known as the “Indomitable Lions,” has achieved remarkable success on the international stage.

    The pinnacle of their achievements came in 1990 when they reached the quarter-finals of the FIFA World Cup, leaving an indelible mark on the tournament’s history.

    The team’s combination of talent, determination, and unique playing style earned them respect and admiration worldwide.

    Additionally, Cameroon has won the Africa Cup of Nations (AFCON) multiple times, solidifying its reputation as a football powerhouse on the continent. The victories in 1984, 1988, 2000, and 2017 showcased the nation’s commitment to excellence, and the players who contributed to these triumphs have become legends in their own right.

    Local Leagues and Development

    Cameroon boasts a robust domestic football league system, with the Elite One and Elite Two leagues being the top tiers of competition. These leagues provide a platform for talented young players to showcase their skills, with clubs like Coton Sport, Union Douala, and Canon Yaoundé maintaining a strong presence.

    Grassroots development is a fundamental aspect of football in Cameroon. Youth academies and programs run by both clubs and non-profit organizations focus on nurturing young talents, providing them with quality coaching, and instilling essential life skills.

    The development of these young players ensures a bright future for the sport in the country.

    What is the footbal ambiance before and during a match at the stadium?


    The atmosphere at a Cameroon football stadium during a national team match is truly electric and vibrant, embodying the pride, passion, and intense emotions of the fans. From the sea of colors in the seating arrangement to the enthusiastic chants and witty banter, the experience is a unique and unforgettable celebration of the beautiful game.

    National Pride and Unity: The fact that the stadium’s seating arrangement reflects the national flag is a powerful symbol of unity and national pride. It’s a visual representation of the collective identity shared by Cameroonians, and it highlights the importance of the national team as a unifying force for the country.

    Maximum Capacity: The dedication of Cameroonians to their national team is evident in the way they fill the stadium to its maximum capacity. This unwavering support showcases the deep connection between the team and its fans, creating an atmosphere that is both thrilling and inspiring. I always love to be one of those people at the stadium when I can.

    Mixed Emotions: The passionate fan reactions during the football match, from laughter to tension-filled insults, create a dynamic and colorful backdrop. The rollercoaster of emotions experienced by the fans demonstrates their investment in the game and their desire to see their team succeed.

    What to expect at a stadium

    Positive Vibes: Despite the tension and competitive spirit, it’s heartening to see that the majority of fans maintain a positive outlook throughout the match. Their unwavering support and the continuous stream of jokes and slangs, both positive and negative, contribute to an energetic and lively environment, making the experience enjoyable for everyone involved.

    Exuberant Atmosphere: The sounds of whistles, trumpets, and loud screams are all part of the passionate soundtrack that accompanies every pass of the ball. While the noise can be deafening, it adds to the exuberant ambiance of the stadium, creating an intense atmosphere that resonates with the players on the field.

    Shared Experience: The camaraderie among fans, the shared moments of excitement and disappointment, and the unity forged in supporting the national team make the stadium a place where people come together as one, transcending differences and celebrating their shared love for the sport.

    Sarah in the Yaoundé football stadium
    Me watching a match live at the Yaoundé’ Amadou Ahidjo football stadium in 2021

    How is the women’s football in Cameroon?

    Women’s football in Cameroon has also experienced significant growth and recognition.

    The national women’s team, known as the “Indomitable Lionesses,” has made waves in international competitions, with a strong presence in the Africa Women Cup of Nations (AWCON) and the FIFA Women’s World Cup.

    The success of the Lionesses has inspired young girls across the nation to pursue football, leading to a surge in women’s participation in the sport at various levels.

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    Tour visit at the Limbe Omnisport football stadium in 2017

    What are the challenges and the path forward

    While football in Cameroon has achieved remarkable milestones, it also faces challenges that need to be addressed.

    These challenges include improving infrastructure, promoting grassroots development, enhancing coaching standards, and ensuring the sustainable growth of the sport.

    By investing in these areas and fostering collaboration between government institutions, football authorities, and private organizations, Cameroon can continue to nurture its footballing talent and maintain its status as a football powerhouse.

    Conclusion

    Football is more than just a game in Cameroon; it’s a reflection of the nation’s spirit, diversity, and determination.

    From the passionate fans cheering in the stadiums to the aspiring young talents dreaming of representing their country, football has woven itself into the fabric of Cameroonian society.

    With a history filled with triumphs and a future brimming with potential, football in Cameroon remains a vibrant and essential part of the country’s identity.

    Click here to see what else you can do in Cameroon and other countries.

  • Sarah in Thailand
    Travel

    List Of Things To Do In Thailand

    August 9, 2023 - By 

    Thailand holds the distinction of being Southeast Asia’s top tourist destination, a title well-deserved. With its captivating blend of natural wonders, rich cultural heritage, top-notch tourism infrastructure, and seamless travel options, it’s a unanimous choice for travelers. My personal visit to Bangkok and Pattaya only affirmed this remarkable reputation.

    In this captivating Asian gem, the array of attractions to discover in a week is abundant. The captivating cultural adornments along the roads left me utterly amazed. The majority of streets are well-paved, ensuring comfortable and seamless exploration.

    With joy, I embraced the use of motorbikes, feeling secure as the rider provided a helmet. Opting for motorbikes proved cost-effective compared to taxis. Metered taxis and Uber offered on-demand transportation, while trains were readily accessible throughout Bangkok, with easy-to-purchase train cards at stations.

    Yet, my preferred mode was evening strolls, savoring the city’s streets and adjacent parks. The pleasant weather added to my delight.

    Visit the Thailand Aquarium

    With its abundant water surroundings, encountering an artificial aquarium in Thailand felt natural. The SEA LIFE Bangkok Ocean World emerged as a delightful oasis to marvel at the wonders of the sea. A space where both youngsters and grown-ups could indulge in the joy of observing aquatic beauty.

    A world of wonders unfolded before my eyes. I encountered the Seahorse Kingdom, vibrant coral reefs, thrilling shark walks, the enigmatic rocky hideout, and the captivating Shark Shipwreck. Jellies danced in ethereal beauty, while an ocean tunnel immersed me in a different realm.

    Every detail was remarkably lifelike. The expansive aquarium showcased a myriad of marine species, accompanied by 4-D films and immersive underwater experiences. At the exit, a sea life shop showcased enchanting displays and souvenirs. Wallets resembled dolphins, shark pencils abounded, and creative mementos beckoned.

    Market Tour

    Nestled on Kamphaeng Phet 2 Road in Bangkok, the Chatuchak Weekend Market reigns as Thailand’s largest. Despite a short train journey, the experience was richly rewarding. Markets encapsulate the authentic local life, and as I wandered through, a vivid tapestry of Thai culture unfolded before me. Insights into their cuisine, clothing, and way of life became tangible.

    Joy radiated from every corner, unsurprisingly. Conversations flowed, locals mingled, and foreigners like me were embraced with warmth. Language barriers proved a challenge, yet some attempted discussions, bridging the gap.

    Though I couldn’t explore the entire expanse, touching upon the market was a treat. A pair of exquisite pants became my souvenir, a testament to the vibrant and affordable array of clothing—brimming with colors and priced more reasonably than in South Korea.

    Tucked at the market’s edge, a leather crafts enclave beckoned. Here, desires transformed into tangible creations before your eyes. Unsure of a suitable keepsake, they presented a catalog brimming with possibilities. My choice? A passport cover.

    In about half an hour, I witnessed the magic unfold. My name elegantly etched on a supple leather piece, an emblem meticulously added, and sections carved out for cards. The surprise? My role was choosing the leather hue—everything else was handled expertly.

    Nearly five years on, that cover remains untouched by time. Skepticism about leather quality lingered, but their promise of authenticity rang true. Amid the myriad temptations to splurge, I resisted the allure, holding onto my cherished creation.

    Shop at shopping Malls

    Evening shopping in Bangkok is a soothing experience, a tranquil delight. While not compelled to shop for clothes or shoes, my curiosity piqued about mall offerings. The colossal Siam Paragon mall beckoned, and I was thrilled to explore its grandeur.

    At every turn, shops adorned each floor, showcasing a plethora of items. The range was astonishing, from household essentials to budget-friendly delights. Each floor held a distinct identity, be it babies, electronics, or books.

    Scaling the escalators, the sheer scale left me unsurprised that Siam Paragon ranks among Thailand’s largest and busiest malls. A realm of endless possibilities awaited with every step.

    Linked to the BTS Skytrain station line, Siam Center emerges as a bustling hub for shoppers seeking various wares.

    Within its vibrant array, traditional Thai costumes caught my eye, adorned with deity narratives. This revelation didn’t shock me, given Thailand’s deep-rooted religiosity. Their devotion to gods and reverence for ancestral legacy stood unparalleled. Kings held an exalted place in their hearts, intertwining history and esteem seamlessly.

    Pattaya city

    Concluding my journey, I adhered to my tradition of exploring other cities. A swift 2-hour bus ride transported me to Pattaya, another gem awaiting discovery. This coastal haven teemed with tourists, famed for its vibrant nightclubs, captivating cabarets, and expansive beachfront bars. Foreign faces dotted the streets and shoreline, a testament to Pattaya’s global allure.

    First-class restaurants and lush gardens graced the landscape, and dusk brought a serene shoreline stroll, accompanied by the soothing sea breeze.

    Thailand’s offerings extend far beyond, leaving you spoilt for choice. My two-week venture barely scratched the surface.

    For more travel insights, explore here.