Our Almighty God and Father, we come before you with reverence and gratitude on this sacred Sunday.
We lift our voices in praise, recognizing your sovereignty over the heavens, the earth, and our lives.
In this moment, we extend heartfelt appreciation for the countless blessings you have lavished upon us: the precious gift of life, the provisions of sustenance and shelter, the embrace of family, and countless other unmerited blessings.
With contrite hearts, we humbly seek your mercy and the cleansing power of your precious blood to purify us from our transgressions. We acknowledge our shortcomings before you, both in our actions towards you and our interactions with one another. Holy Spirit, guide us in understanding the depth of forgiveness and grace, just as you forgave us through the sacrifice of the cross.
Lord, we extend gratitude for your watchful protection and the deliverance, seen and unseen, that you have lovingly bestowed upon us. With hearts full of joy, we lift a humble request for strength and well-being for those who labor in service: those who maintain the church, prepare nourishing meals, and support our pastors in their duties.
We beseech you for divine wisdom to guide the media and sound teams as they employ their skills to prepare for the worship service.
Lord Jesus, may your boundless joy continue to overflow in the hearts of the ushers as they warmly welcome every individual who enters.
What other aspects can you add to the Sunday prayer?
We extend our heartfelt blessings to you for the unwavering commitment and patience that you have bestowed upon our community group leaders. May your presence grace our times of fellowship, knitting us together in love and mutual support.
Likewise, we offer our gratitude for the mantle of praise that rests upon the Praise team. May the Holy Spirit guide them as they lead us through songs and instruments, infusing each melody with joyful hearts dedicated to worshiping you daily.
Lord, we entrust the deacons, deaconesses, leaders, and elders into your care. We acknowledge and appreciate the wisdom and grace you have endowed them with to serve your people.
In the same breath, we present all our pastors before you. Their sacrifices do not go unnoticed, and we thank you for them. Shower them with continuous anointing, fortitude, and unending peace for both them and their families.
With hearts brimming with gratitude, we lift our congregants to you. May we not just hear your word, but also embody it in our actions. We pray to experience the hope, joy, and prosperity it imparts.
For our great nation, [insert your country], we express our gratitude for your encompassing canopy of peace and protection. We also remember the nations of the world, especially those marred by conflict and plagued by economic hardship. Pour out your mercy upon their citizens, bestowing wisdom upon leaders and presidents.
Above all, for the global body of Christ, may our love continue to burgeon. Enable us to radiate your light in a world shrouded in darkness.
All praise, glory, honor, adoration, and exultation belong to you, in the name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Common misconceptions often depict the Holy Spirit as either a force or a dove.
Yet, He constitutes the third divine persona within the Godhead. Although His manifestations might vary, His significance remains unwavering.
The celestial abode encompasses the Trinity—God the Father, God the Son (Jesus), and God the Spirit (Holy Spirit). Each holds equal power and commands equal reverence.
Throughout the Earth’s existence, the Trinity has assumed diverse roles in different epochs.
In the Old Testament, God the Father revealed Himself to the Israelites, displaying His love for humanity.
Transitioning to the New Testament, God the Son—Jesus Christ—embarked on earthly ministry, exemplifying the Trinity’s affection for everyone.
As His earthly mission concluded, He heralded the Holy Spirit’s impending arrival.
Since then, the Holy Spirit has inhabited the earthly realm, dwelling within those who embrace and believe in God.
This article succinctly delineates the Holy Spirit’s identity and his transformative potential in our lives.
The pathway to His presence is through heartfelt prayer, open to all, including you.
His advent heralds liberation.
Bible verses about the Holy Spirit
“For the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”
Unlike all the other members of the God Head, we who believe, have the rare privilege to host God in our bodies. He comes to live in our hearts – not the physical organ but our innermost being. We have the duty to honor and represent him also in our bodies. That’s the only way the world will know God.
Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.
As earlier mentioned, depending on the people, He has revealed Himself in different ways throughout the Bible. Even in our time, he continues to show the love of God, in inexplicable ways.
To the Apostles, he came as fire, causing them to start speaking in tongues. Do you speak in tongues? It’s not too late to pray and ask Him for it. With an earnest, open heart, He will fill you and cause your mouth to utter words you cannot comprehend.
They saw what seemed to be tongues of fire that separated and came to rest on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit enabled them.
Traveling solo as an African woman poses many challenges, as it is for anyone. In my earlier post on the advantages of traveling solo as an African woman, l promised to discuss the disadvantages. Here, l spill out the beans on the other side.
Before we unveil what l think about this topic from my personal experience, l need to remark that, l couldn’t find anything on this topic for African women. It seems every blog l quickly read had the same points, just with different headings. Somehow, l found that repetitive and almost untrue. I am not here to condemn others but to share my views on the real perspective of traveling.
In my opinion, after traveling alone and with a group to several countries, l can say the disadvantages are mostly the same. However, there are slight differences. So l will use this blog to debunk both aspects instead of secluding it only for solo female travelers. This will give a general overview of traveling.
1. You cannot share the cost of certain activities when traveling solo
The cost of activities during travel can vary, and this applies to both group and solo female travelers. In certain instances, activities may seem expensive for solo travelers when compared to group prices. For example, an amusement park might offer a group rate of $70 but charge $40 for a solo ticket. At first glance, this difference may appear costly.
However, the perception of expenses depends on individual circumstances and financial planning. If you’ve thoroughly researched the activities you wish to partake in and budgeted accordingly before your trip, the cost may not be an issue. Properly estimating your expenses and setting a budget can alleviate concerns about higher individual prices.
Ultimately, financial preparation plays a vital role in managing costs while traveling solo or in a group. By planning ahead and understanding your financial limitations, you can better appreciate and enjoy the experiences without feeling burdened by the expenses.
With prudent financial management, you can make the most of your travel adventures, regardless of whether you’re traveling alone or with a group.
Another reason I used the word “certain” is because there are places or activities without group prices. It is typical but not common. I don’t recall ever seeing a group price to watch a movie at a cinema. Prices here are usually for individuals. Either way, anyone can enjoy any activity, whether alone or with a group.
2. You cannot try different foods when you are traveling solo
You are absolutely correct. The point about trying different meals and experiencing the local cuisine while traveling is not limited to group travelers; it applies equally to solo travelers. In fact, solo travelers may have more flexibility in exploring various dishes since they can choose their dining preferences without the need for group consensus.
By venturing into local eateries, street food stalls, or even buffet restaurants, solo travelers have the freedom to sample multiple dishes from the country they are visiting.
Buffet restaurants, as you mentioned, are an excellent way to taste a wide array of traditional delicacies in one sitting. This allows solo travelers to immerse themselves in the local culinary culture and savor the diverse flavors the country has to offer.
Furthermore, solo travelers often interact more with locals, which can enhance their dining experiences. Conversing with restaurant staff, fellow patrons, or street food vendors may lead to valuable food recommendations or insights into the country’s culinary traditions. This interpersonal aspect of solo travel can add richness to the overall gastronomic adventure.
So, the idea that solo travelers miss out on experiencing different meals or the local cuisine is not accurate. On the contrary, solo travel provides ample opportunities to savor a wide variety of dishes and fully enjoy the culinary delights of the destination. It’s all about embracing the culinary journey with an open mind and a curious palate, regardless of whether you’re traveling alone or in a group.
My experience with food
The only aspect l can remark for this is, in some countries especially in Asia they live in communities. Threfore, they do a lot of things as groups. I remember in South Korea, there were some restaurants you cannot eat alone. The style of the chairs and the quantity of the food served for a high amount cannot be consumed and paid by one person.
Once l entered a restaurant, sat down waiting for the waiter to come with the menu.
When she finally came with her warm, thankful smile, her first question was whether l was alone. I found the question rather weird because l thought anyone should be able to eat alone anywhere. In my mind, l thought maybe she was asking because l was a foreigner. Also, maybe she assumed l was on a short trip.
I smiled back and replied in my broken Korean that l lived in the country. But today, I just wanted to try that famous traditional meal (l don’t remember the name now).
She again shook her head with a broad smile, as Koreans do when you speak their language.
Then, now with more confidence, she repeated her question again in Korean with more detail because she knew l understood. I also replied, l wanted just to see the menu and eat. Finally, after a few seconds, she told me, this restaurant is only for groups. I laughed at my ignorance. She laughed too but told me, why she was asking.
She didn’t want to assume l had friends who were joining me.
The table of meals at a Ghanian buffet restaurant in Accra. I enjoyed going almost 4 rounds as I salvored every bit of some traditional meals.
Why did the waitress ask me that question?
In Korea, it is common for colleagues, families, or friends to reserve or plan to visit a restaurant, but they all arrive at different times.
So she felt maybe l came first and had others who will join me later. Within a second, she was kind to show me the menu and the price.
It is then that she politely told me not to waste my money on food l will not finish. I could take it as takeaway, l thought, but that amount 50,000 Won almost $45 is good money to last me a week’s meal. I gratefully appreciated her and happily left.
That situation above was rare. There are countless restaurants scattered around the street where anyone can eat the same meal. In fact, l didn’t know there were group restaurants until that day. ln summary, l am saying you can try anything you want to eat as long as you have the finances and time to do so. Somehow, this is not a disadvantage, as many bloggers claimed.
3. You can’t take good photographs when traveling alone
The assertion that travel is synonymous with solely taking selfies is indeed relative and not entirely accurate.
Numerous bloggers propagate this belief, suggesting that travel experiences solely revolve around capturing selfies.
Contrary to this notion, the reality is that travelers can derive immense enjoyment from their journeys while also capturing as many photographs as they desire.
In fact, selfies offer a unique perspective – the chance to capture oneself in close proximity to the captivating backdrop, an element that can add a touch of humor to the experience.
Reflecting on my years of travel, I’ve accumulated a collection of diverse photographs, including selfies and those capturing various moods.
It’s worth acknowledging that there exists no universal decree mandating personal presence in every travel photograph. Such a notion is nonexistent.
In truth, the compulsion to feature in every image can inadvertently detract from the true essence of the activity.
Striving to maintain an omnipresent presence in photos may inadvertently overshadow the joy inherent in the experience itself.
So, the idea that travel necessitates the constant inclusion of oneself in every picture is unfounded. This perspective does not hold sway.
Rather, it is the spontaneous moments and genuine enjoyment of the journey that truly define the travel experience, whether one chooses to be a part of every frame or not.
How do we solve this problem?
To debunk the prevalent notion, I’ve found that the concern of taking photos while traveling solo as a female isn’t as dire as it’s often portrayed.
Personally, I’ve developed a strategy that effectively addresses this issue. Instead of relying solely on selfies, I frequently approach fellow travelers or individuals in the vicinity for assistance in capturing pictures.
The results have been both satisfactory and delightful, with my smiles perfectly captured.
The key lies in prudent discernment of the environment and targeted interactions.
When part of a guided tour, such as in a park, I initiate light conversations with various participants.
My focus tends to gravitate towards fellow solo female travelers, as I establish a friendly rapport. This groundwork enables me to comfortably approach them and request assistance with photography.
Their readiness to oblige, often accompanied by tips on posing, makes the process enjoyable and rewarding.
Who to ask for help
Naturally, I avoid soliciting help from married or single men to prevent any misconceptions.
I’ve also encountered situations where strangers, typically male, extend offers to take my photo as an avenue to initiate conversation.
While I’m cautious, I don’t decline such offers. Instead, I retrieve my phone promptly after the snapshot to avoid further engagement, as I opt not to share my contact details.
However, the scenario shifts when navigating busy streets, where soliciting unfamiliar individuals for photography might be risky due to safety concerns.
Vigilance becomes paramount in such instances, as I rely on my instincts to gauge the appropriateness of seeking a free photographer for my shots.
To encapsulate, my collection of travel memories housed in the Google Photos app encompasses a blend of selfies and portraits taken by others.
The takeaway is that the perceived obstacle of capturing images while traveling solo as a female is surmountable through calculated interactions and astute judgment.
4. Getting sick while traveling solo
The concerns of a solo female traveler are indeed valid, particularly when it comes to health issues, especially while lodged in accommodations.
Depending on where one is staying, various challenges can arise if illness strikes. The choice of accommodation, whether a hotel, Airbnb, or apartment, plays a pivotal role in determining the available support.
For those staying in hotels, the daily housekeeping routine offers an avenue to seek assistance in case of illness. During a routine cleaning visit, guests can reach out for help, particularly if they’re unable to move around.
In some cases, particularly in larger hotels, reception services can be contacted. They are often capable of arranging for medical attention, including the provision of a doctor or nurse who can evaluate the guest’s health directly in their room.
This approach provides a relatively straightforward solution to addressing health challenges in hotel settings.
The scenario shifts when considering accommodations such as Airbnb rentals or apartments. In these instances, communication with the host becomes crucial.
Many hosts, not all but a substantial number, are responsive and accommodating. If illness strikes, engaging in communication via the app or the private contacts provided by the host can yield positive outcomes.
Some hosts may even take the initiative to visit their guests at the accommodation to ensure their well-being during their stay.
In essence, the choice of lodging plays a role in determining the avenues available for seeking medical assistance while traveling solo.
Whether through hotel staff, reception services, or host communication, there are means to address health challenges and garner the necessary support to navigate through illness while enjoying one’s journey.
How to deal with sickness when traveling
How to handle such a situation
During my stay in an Airbnb accommodation in Uganda, I was fortunate to have a host who happened to be my next-door neighbor.
Our proximity allowed for regular interactions, and I found comfort in the fact that I could easily reach out to him through WhatsApp whenever assistance was required. Additionally, the presence of a gateman throughout the day provided an accessible source for answering queries.
While some hosts might have resided at a distance, they often made provisions to have a caretaker on-site, ensuring a sense of security and assistance.
These arrangements ensured that I never felt isolated or alone during my travels.
The willingness of hosts and caretakers to lend a hand with directions, recommendations for local attractions, and even medical assistance provided a reassuring backdrop. The notion that they would be unwilling to extend help if illness struck seemed unfounded. Thus, the sense of community and willingness to offer support effectively addressed health-related concerns.
Moreover, equipped with health insurance and modern conveniences like ride-hailing apps, accessing medical care became hassle-free.
Summoning a taxi through platforms like Uber or similar services facilitated swift transportation to a hospital if needed.
This process mirrored the efficiency one might experience in their home country. Nursing staff were generally amiable and accommodating, more than willing to assist lone travelers who found themselves under the weather.
In summary, my experience illuminated the extent to which thoughtful accommodations, proximity to hosts, and the availability of caretakers contribute to a sense of support and safety for solo travelers.
Couple this with readily accessible transportation options and health insurance, and addressing health concerns becomes a manageable endeavor even when away from home.
5. Safety concerns when traveling solo
This point was consistently featured in every blog I came across, and I can’t deny its significance.
Some bloggers advised women to fabricate having travel companions if questioned.
Personally, I’ve refrained from such falsehoods because I believe that the truth can be easily uncovered, potentially putting me at greater risk due to potential monitoring or stalking. Honesty, in my opinion, tends to evoke sympathy rather than harm.
In my experience, every time I honestly mentioned traveling alone and asked for help, people readily extended assistance.
I’ve never encountered any direct threats or attacks solely because I was a solo African woman.
How to handle security worries
Certainly, I’m meticulous about not venturing out too late at night. I don’t engage in clubbing or extend my outings past 8 pm, particularly in unfamiliar areas where returning to my lodging might pose challenges.
To be candid, my primary concern centers around drivers, be they taxi or motorcycle, who are rumored to exploit passengers by leading them to remote locations, subjecting them to theft or even assault.
To thwart this potential threat, I adopt a proactive approach before even purchasing a flight ticket.
This involves extensive research, delving into vlogs, and scouring countless blogs.
It’s worth noting that every country harbors areas with a reputation for being unruly or hazardous, whether it’s a city or a specific district within one.
Given this reality, being vigilant becomes a paramount principle. My strategy involves leveraging travel apps such as Uber, Bolt, and others, contingent on the specific country. These apps provide a measure of security, knowing that my movements are being tracked.
To further bolster my safety, I input my destination into Google Maps, allowing me to monitor routes and detect any deviations.
There have been instances where I’ve encountered less-than-honest drivers who took unnecessarily lengthy routes to inflate the time and fare. In response, I’ve made it a practice to provide candid customer reviews, highlighting any grievances.
Fortunately, the majority of drivers have upheld their professionalism and integrity.
For added convenience and security, I’ve connected my credit card to these apps, facilitating seamless payments upon booking.
This prudent approach not only streamlines the process but also contributes to an overall safer travel experience.
What is the solution?
In certain countries, I rely on local buses or taxis for transportation, but I take the initiative to discuss the transportation fares with my host before leaving my lodging.
This strategy eliminates the need for bargaining and ensures that I’m well-informed.
Interestingly, in the black African countries I’ve visited, my presence as a foreigner often goes unnoticed. Occasionally, my identity becomes apparent when I mispronounce a destination in the local language, but this hasn’t led to fare discrepancies. The rates remain consistent because I’m knowledgeable about the usual prices.
In situations like these, I engage in light conversation, express appreciation for their country, and even inject some humor by sharing my culture shock experiences.
This approach tends to foster a positive and friendly atmosphere, resulting in enjoyable rides that conclude on a cheerful note.
How can you prevent being robbed?
Lastly, the issue of pickpockets demands vigilant consideration, as they pose a risk in various locations and are particularly opportunistic with foreigners.
To counter this threat, I’ve adopted the practice of carrying a compact handbag that I can wear across my chest, allowing it to rest securely on my shoulder.
I steer clear of carrying it solely on one shoulder, as this vulnerable position might expose me to the potential dangers of theft. There’s a possibility of thieves slicing the strap or snatching the bag from behind in a swift maneuver.
My approach includes keeping my phone nestled inside the bag unless I need it to swiftly capture a captivating scene.
This measure not only safeguards my belongings but also ensures that I’m prepared to respond effectively in case of any unexpected encounters with pickpockets.
Be cautious of what you wear when you travel solo
Another measure I take to avoid drawing attention is by dressing modestly and not wearing ostentatious or valuable clothing or jewelry. I opt for simplicity and ensure that my demeanor includes a friendly smile for everyone I encounter.
This affable disposition has often contributed to a sense of peace during my travels.
Maintaining awareness of my surroundings is a constant priority when I’m traveling alone. In terms of financial security, I’ve developed a strategy where I divide my money and primarily use my bank card only when it’s absolutely necessary.
Carrying two wallets is part of this approach—one for daily use and the other to safeguard larger sums.
Depending on the circumstances, I may carry both wallets or intentionally leave the one with significant cash behind to resist impulsive spending.
The underlying principle is that even if one wallet were to be stolen, I’d still have a backup.
Another valuable tip is to avoid exchanging all your currency. Instead, I carry a limited amount of cash and rely on ATMs to withdraw more if needed.
Counting a substantial sum of money in public can inadvertently attract unwanted attention and pose a potential risk of theft.
Adhering to the adage “Do not tempt the devil to tempt you” serves as a sound reminder to be cautious and not unknowingly invite trouble.
safety concerns
How to solve accommodation theft
To ensure the security of my belongings, I always travel with padlocks when staying at hotels or Airbnbs.
This precautionary measure allows me to safeguard my valuables by locking them in a bag and placing the keys in a small wallet.
Having encountered a situation where my belongings appeared to have been moved, I’ve learned to leave only non-essential items outside, granting me peace of mind while I’m away on tours.
Moreover, to create a secure environment, I coordinate with my hosts to arrange room cleaning when I’m present. I specify a time frame—such as 1-3 pm—during which I’ll be in the room.
This approach might seem stringent, but I believe that most individuals would think twice about theft in the presence of the occupant. Hosts have been accommodating and understanding of my request, enabling the cleaning staff to perform their duties while I’m there.
This practice not only fosters a worry-free environment but also encourages positive interactions.
I make it a point to assure my hosts that they needn’t concern themselves with cleaning, as I take responsibility for maintaining the space.
I treat the accommodation as if it were my own and uphold hygiene and sanitation standards.
While I occasionally request cleaning assistance on days when I seek respite from my tourism activities, I generally prioritize keeping the space tidy and well-kept, just as I found it.
What to do to avoid sexual abuse
To sum up, I believe there aren’t any inherent disadvantages to traveling solo, regardless of gender.
While concerns about safety, especially regarding sexual crimes, are valid, responsible choices and cautious behavior play a pivotal role in mitigating such risks.
It’s important to acknowledge that unfortunate incidents, including sexual crimes, can occur in various settings.
However, it’s equally crucial to note that certain behaviors and choices can increase vulnerability.
Engaging in excessive drinking with strangers at clubs, losing awareness of one’s surroundings, or venturing into unfamiliar places can elevate the chances of being exposed to risky situations.
Moreover, it’s essential to recognize that anyone, regardless of gender, can face potential threats while traveling.
In the context of rising awareness about LGBTQ+ issues, it’s worth mentioning that men can also become targets of sexual assault.
Ultimately, safety hinges on personal responsibility and awareness.
Being cautious, avoiding risky behaviors, and being aware of emergency contact information, including local police departments, can contribute to a safer travel experience.
While no approach can provide an absolute guarantee of immediate response, prioritizing caution and responsible decisions significantly minimizes the likelihood of encountering dangerous situations.
What else can you do to ensure your security while traveling solo?
In preparation for my solo travels, I consistently conduct online research to gather insights from fellow travelers about specific cities.
Prior to booking my flight, one crucial step is to tap into the wealth of knowledge shared through others’ traveling solo experiences.
Ensuring my safety is paramount, so I often engage in conversations with friends who reside in the countries I plan to visit.
These discussions prove invaluable as they provide firsthand perspectives and local insights.
Among my initial inquiries, I prioritize understanding the most suitable areas for accommodation. While online searches can provide a plethora of options, I’m aware that certain neighborhoods might be less secure.
To navigate this, I leverage my network of friends and ask them to compile a list of safe locales and recommendations for secure lodging.
This approach not only enhances my safety but also offers a level of comfort knowing I’m choosing accommodations endorsed by those with local knowledge.
In certain instances, I’ve been fortunate to stay with these friends, which has enriched my travel experience.
Additionally, their connections often extend to acquaintances in other cities, enabling me to tap into a broader network for insights and advice.
This collaborative approach to gathering information equips me with a comprehensive understanding of potential destinations and empowers me to make informed decisions that prioritize my security.
Where to lodge?
Another essential aspect I thoroughly consider when booking accommodation on Airbnb is the presence of CCTV cameras on the premises.
During my selection process, I meticulously examine the listing’s photos, paying close attention to any images showcasing the existence of security cameras.
I also make it a point to thoroughly read through reviews from previous guests, as these insights can provide valuable information about the safety measures in place.
One reassuring feature that puts my mind at ease is the presence of a gate and the mention of a gateman responsible for controlling access to the lodge.
Knowing that there are physical security measures and personnel monitoring entry adds a layer of security to my stay.
Keeping my family well-informed while traveling solo is a practice I prioritize. I understand the importance of regular communication for their peace of mind.
To achieve this, I take the initiative to purchase a local SIM card upon arrival in a new country.
This enables me to have reliable access to mobile data beyond just relying on hotel Wi-Fi. With my phone connected, I consistently send updates to my sister via WhatsApp, detailing my whereabouts and how I’m faring.
This regular communication not only alleviates any concerns she may have but also serves as a safety measure.
I go the extra mile by sharing screenshots of my Airbnb booking or providing her with the name of the hotel I’m staying at. This information can serve as evidence of my location should any unexpected circumstances arise.
By maintaining open communication and sharing key details, I ensure that my family is informed and can provide assistance if needed.
My secret 2 cents on traveling solo
I hold the perspective that embarking on solo travel carries an inherent element of risk, one that is embraced by those who possess an adventurous spirit and a willingness to venture into the unfamiliar.
To mitigate these uncertainties, I adopt a practice of starting my day with prayer, seeking guidance and protection from God as I navigate through my travels.
Just as I would do when I’m in my home country, I dedicate each day to Him, acknowledging that my life is a precious gift bestowed by Him, and only He has the power to safeguard it for as long as He deems fit.
Final thoughts about traveling solo
While I dismiss the fear of untimely death, I maintain a sense of caution and avoid placing myself in unnecessarily dangerous situations.
Above all, I’m driven by a profound belief that my life holds a purpose. In my encounters with intimidating scenarios, I’ve steadfastly relied on my faith, trusting that the Creator of my life has orchestrated a meaningful path for me.
This conviction empowers me to face any challenge with unwavering assurance.
In essence, entrusting my journey to God and wholeheartedly embracing His sovereignty has freed me from the fear of travel.
I firmly believe that adverse circumstances can befall anyone, anywhere, but my unshakable faith in Christ’s love and protection reassures me that I am a child of God.
Consequently, only what aligns with His divine plan can unfold in my life. Even in the face of adversity, His goodness remains constant, and I find solace in the knowledge that His presence can bring healing, restoration, and an opportunity for spiritual growth.
Armed with the assurance of Psalm 91, I embark on my travels with a heart at peace and a mind unburdened by fear, finding joy and fulfillment in the journey.
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In the midst of what we see as the final days, trials are unavoidable. These difficulties play a role in refining us and nurturing our spiritual growth.
Despite their frequency and severity, God reminds us to hold onto our faith and happiness in Him.
The Bible offers guidance on handling trials, showing that God understands our hardships and aims to empower us.
Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
Another relieving fact about trials is that it is never forever. It is meant to be only for a temporary short time.
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.
In the words of Jesus, we should expect trials. They are supposed to come, but we have to be peaceful when they do. The main reason is that Jesus died on the cross for us. He took away all our past, present and future sins.
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
One thing that can sustain us in this hard time is to absolutely trust in God. The error we all make is to try to resolve everything with our physical methods and mental analysis. We cannot resolve anything with our human knowledge.
Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.13 But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.
Why should we go through trials?
This question is on the lips of everyone. This is mainly because no one wants to face challenges. Did you know trials are blessings?
There is a special crown of glory for our work on earth in heaven. The only way we will receive it, is based on how we respond to trials now.
Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.
God has prepared a greater future in eternity, far beyond what we see here now. What a privilege!
I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.
A trial is a test to confirm how we trust God. If we really know and love him, we will understand that our hard times don’t change Him. He has been good and will always be good to us, regardless of how the devil tries to tempt us to deny our sonship.
Also, if we know with a strong conviction that God has a plan for our lives, we will not be worried about any situation.
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
One major reason we shouldn’t be upset when trials come is, God is the mighty restorer. He knows how to transform every situation in our lives and make us enter his glory if we believe in him.
And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.
People usually say you are not the first person or the last person to go through that situation. That saying is true. There is someone somewhere experiencing the same situation.
No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
A man facing trials climbing a mountain
How should we react to trials?
The best reaction is to praise God while in the trial. As hard as that can sound, it is only possible after you pray and thank God.
Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.
Many people allow anxiety and stress to get the better of them during trials. That can be hard to control, but it is possible to face those tough days without it. The main secret to do that is prayer.
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.
Is there a purpose for the trials?
Is there a purpose for the trials?
If you know God very well, you will know that nothing just happens. There are no accidents with him. Everything on earth happens for a reason, and he is aware of the detail.
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?
Nothing can and should separate us from God. Regardless of how we feel about our current situations, God’s goodness and love are unconditional and unchanging. Bask in the love of God thankfully and prayerfully at all times-both sad and joyful.
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Finding another black African woman who shares my love for traveling has been a rare occurrence.
Back in Cameroon, the idea of jetting off to explore the world wasn’t a common pursuit. In my city, encountering someone who has intentionally traveled to multiple countries solely for tourism is quite unheard of.
Many who venture abroad tend to settle in one destination for education or work. Some have explored nearby European countries due to the convenience of the Schengen zone. However, extensive leisure travel isn’t a prevalent practice among Cameroonians.
Some might journey to neighboring places like Nigeria for business purposes.
Am I an exception? Absolutely. I possess a deep passion for traveling. My journeys across 14 different countries have been incredibly rewarding, and I eagerly anticipate exploring even more destinations. Each trip has presented unique challenges, often catching me by surprise.”
After reading several articles of solo women or black American female travelers, there weren’t any about black African women.
The undeniable fact is that traveling alone is different based on our nationalities. People all around the world are familiar with Americans, Europeans, etc, visiting their countries, so they get slightly surprised when they see a non-South African.
What is my experience as a black African woman?
As a black African woman traveling alone, I’ve encountered situations that offer unique insights. Sharing these experiences aims to shed light on an important issue, not promote hate.
Some people, knowingly or not, treat those from presumed underdeveloped countries as lesser. Despite education on respect, some harbor prejudiced views unknowingly.
Racism persists subtly, often only realized through personal experiences. While not encountered in all countries, challenges tied to ethnicity have arisen.
Sharing these experiences aims to raise awareness, foster conversations on understanding, acceptance, and compassion, regardless of backgrounds.
My travels span Asia and Africa, including neighboring countries during my 6-year stay in South Korea.
Advantages of solo travel will be explored here, focusing on the positives.
I’ll address navigation for black African women in a future post. Here’s what to expect when embarking on solo adventures.
1. You will feel free
Does this title sound unusual? Embracing familiarity while traveling in Africa.
By “freedom” here, I mean you won’t feel like a complete stranger. This applies particularly if you travel within the African continent to non-white (Northern African) countries.
For instance, during my trip to Nigeria, I blended in effortlessly, almost as if I hadn’t left home.
Common Nigerian pidgin filled the streets, and as I spoke my Cameroonian pidgin, communication flowed seamlessly. Ghana, too, felt stress-free; English was our shared language, and their progress was admirable.
In all the African countries I’ve explored, my skin color proved advantageous. I was treated with the same respect upon sight.
While my Cameroonian English accent sometimes gave me away, it rarely led to lesser treatment.
People often showed curiosity about my African origins, sparking conversations at markets and on streets.
Me, eating plantain and fresh fish in Tanzania. This is a common delicacy in Cameroon.
Navigating Challenges and Embracing Culture While Traveling
Unfortunately, my foreign accent sometimes led to locals assuming I was unfamiliar with their country, resulting in overcharging by taxi drivers, bike riders, and market vendors. However, I’ve devised a solution: before going out, I seek local transport fare information from my Airbnb or hotel host.
This empowers me to confidently negotiate using regular rates locals pay.
This strategy has been successful, as they can’t contest the rates I cite.
This practice of charging higher fares to foreigners is common worldwide, so it wasn’t entirely unexpected.
This sense of freedom extends to food and culture. I fondly remember the thrill of discovering plantains in Uganda.
Cooking and savoring a familiar dish filled me with joy, momentarily easing my longing for home.
Embracing aspects of my own culture while traveling has truly enriched my experiences.
2. You will get support
Traveling to foreign countries often comes with hopes of warm welcomes and support. While such experiences do occur, they can be complex and two-sided.
During my journeys across Asia, I observed a particularly positive reception as a black African woman in some countries.
In the Philippines, for instance, I felt like a celebrity. Their genuinely impressed and curious stares were endearing.
I was welcomed with open arms, and locals enthusiastically engaged with me, asking about my homeland and inviting me to share meals in their homes.
Heartfelt gestures like giving me gifts and writing thoughtful letters made me feel embraced and accepted.
These connections led to lasting friendships that transcended any differences in skin color. In their company, I found a sense of belonging that made my travels feel like finding a home away from home.
Why should you share your culture?
Traveling through various Asian countries, I encountered differing reactions to my presence as a black African woman.
While some Asians were hesitant to engage with strangers, particularly those who looked different, I faced instances where seeking help on the streets yielded no assistance. It seemed that certain locals were more receptive to non-black foreigners than to me, and while I couldn’t fully understand their motivations, I sensed an underlying reluctance.
This experience, though challenging, offered valuable insights into cross-cultural interactions and the impact of stereotypes.
I realized that some of their behavior stemmed from misconceptions about black Africans, shaped by media portrayals of poverty and despair.
This taught me the significance of dispelling stereotypes and forming authentic connections across borders.
I learned that empathy and understanding can bridge gaps created by ignorance, allowing us to connect on a deeper level despite our diverse backgrounds.
3. You will become more self-confident as a black African woman
The impact of travel on self-confidence is a debated topic. Some claim that confidence is inherent in Sanguines and Cholerics, while others argue that Melancholics and Phlegmatics benefit more from such experiences.
Regardless of personality type, I’ve found that my journeys as an African woman have significantly boosted my self-assurance.
You might wonder how this transformation occurs. Every encounter during my travels has nurtured courage within me.
Growing up, helping others was a norm in my community. Yet, while exploring new places, I’ve had to proactively seek assistance.
Despite my preparations, unexpected challenges arose. I realized that solutions depended on my willingness to ask questions and seek help.
These experiences taught me assertiveness and the value of taking initiative, fostering greater self-confidence as I tackled diverse challenges on my journeys.
What are some lessons I have learned?
Emerging from my comfort zone and engaging with strangers was a daunting task initially, yet I compelled myself to do so during my journeys.
This endeavor has resulted in increased confidence and positivity in my interactions.
Astonishingly, in seven out of ten instances when I sought guidance, people readily extended their help.
These informal exchanges have honed my cross-cultural communication skills, proving invaluable.
Furthermore, my travels have instilled in me the art of approaching people with an open mind, not solely when I require assistance.
I’ve grown more affable and empathetic, realizing that a warm smile and a simple conversation often pave the way for meaningful connections.
Being receptive entails being approachable and willing to converse, offering me profound insights into diverse cultures.
By bravely asking questions and displaying genuine curiosity about others, I’ve unlocked a wealth of knowledge about their lives and traditions.
My expeditions have widened my perspectives, deepened my global comprehension, and fostered a more inclusive and understanding outlook, enriching my approach to forging connections.
4. You can share your African identity
Undoubtedly, purchasing that flight ticket can open doors to remarkable opportunities, my fellow traveler.
You might question how this unfolds. Particularly in non-African nations, I’ve often been mistaken for a black American due to geographical misconceptions, a trend notably prevalent in several Asian countries I’ve explored.
Yet, I embrace these instances with delight, using them as platforms to converse about Africa.
While I proudly announce my Cameroonian identity, I also utilize the opportunity to showcase the diversity and uniqueness of the entire African continent.
Through my elegantly adorned African fabric attire, jewelry, and shoes, I narrate the tale of my region without uttering a word.
Frequently, my distinctive attire prompts interactions, sparking captivating dialogues.
With enthusiasm, I leverage these encounters to share insights about Cameroon, my culture, and my people.
Each of us can exude pride in our roots and boldly express our identities.
As an African woman, I am steadfast in seizing every avenue to introduce the world to our story. Come alongside me, and let us jointly celebrate and disseminate the opulence of our African heritage worldwide.
African woman
Why should you travel?
Absolutely, you’ve eloquently captured the essence. Traveling, especially as an African woman, affords a unique chance to serve as an informal cultural ambassador of your homeland. Embracing this role empowers us to illuminate our traditions, heritage, and diversity to a global audience.
People often hold admiration for different cultures, and by narrating our narratives and encounters, we can chip away at the ignorance that fuels stereotypes and racism.
Undoubtedly, racism often springs from a lack of understanding and misconceptions.
A potent method to educate and shape respectful interactions is to confidently and proudly articulate our origins and background.
Through this, we challenge any misconceived notions about black African women.
Additionally, a notable edge of being a lone African woman traveler lies in dispelling the misguided belief that we are uneducated, marginalized, or subject to early marriages.
While it’s true that certain areas in Africa may still hold onto traditional customs limiting girls’ education or advocating early unions, the majority of Africans highly value education and equality.
Our independent and self-assured travels serve as a counter to these stereotypes, highlighting the diversity and determination of African women.
Our actions resonate louder than words, and as solo travelers, we shatter barriers, exemplifying that black African women are accomplished, educated, and empowered individuals, dispelling archaic preconceptions.
How do some people consider African women?
It’s astonishing that even in the 21st century, questions like whether all African women are illiterate still arise. I encountered a similar situation when a school friend in Korea asked me this question.
The surprise on my face mirrored his astonishment. It’s almost comical, isn’t it? I simply replied, “Who am I?” leaving him speechless.
He quickly realized that his question was baseless and irrelevant. Overwhelmed with embarrassment, he genuinely apologized for his misguided assumption about the African continent.
Instead of showcasing my multiple Master’s degrees or delving into elaborate explanations, I used the moment to enlighten him about Africa and Cameroon. I encouraged him to do a quick online search whenever possible.
This encounter prompted me to ponder the lack of awareness about Africa and its people, given its limited inclusion in many educational curricula.
Consequently, many individuals remain uninformed about the region, relying on hearsay and preconceptions.
However, some are truly curious and willing to learn. This is where being a solo African woman traveler becomes an ideal way to share our narratives and educate others about our reality and the depth of our continent.
Through these meaningful interactions, we can dismantle stereotypes and foster deeper understanding and appreciation for Africa and its people.
Did you know people don’t think you are poor when you travel as an African woman?
This is a crucial point to consider. Traveling does require financial resources, and this often leads people to respect those who can afford it.
During my trips abroad, I noticed that the notion of poverty seemed to dissipate when people saw me.
While I can’t be certain of how they perceived my financial status, it was clear they didn’t view me as economically disadvantaged.
Undoubtedly, financial constraints hinder many Africans from traveling, with low purchasing power being a significant obstacle in some areas. This reality limits travel opportunities for some of my friends. Yet, it’s worth acknowledging that life abroad can also be costly.
Nevertheless, as a single black African woman traveling solo, I’ve observed that I’m often treated with more respect.
People recognize my ability to finance my journey, eradicating assumptions of dependency, exploitation, or criminal intent. Instead, they see an empowered woman exploring the world on her own terms.
Being a solo African woman traveler highlights our resilience, determination, and capacity to seize control of our lives. It challenges stereotypes and showcases that we aren’t defined by poverty or constraints.
Rather, we’re empowered individuals enriching our lives through travel, while simultaneously dismantling barriers and reshaping perceptions about black African women.
5. You will broaden your horizon for what’s possible as an African woman
This is a crucial point to consider. Traveling does require financial resources, and this often leads people to respect those who can afford it.
During my trips abroad, I noticed that the notion of poverty seemed to dissipate when people saw me.While I can’t be certain of how they perceived my financial status, it was clear they didn’t view me as economically disadvantaged.
Undoubtedly, financial constraints hinder many Africans from traveling, with low purchasing power being a significant obstacle in some areas.
This reality limits travel opportunities for some of my friends. Yet, it’s worth acknowledging that life abroad can also be costly.
Nevertheless, as a single black African woman traveling solo, I’ve observed that I’m often treated with more respect. People recognize my ability to finance my journey, eradicating assumptions of dependency, exploitation, or criminal intent.
Instead, they see an empowered woman exploring the world on her own terms.
Being a solo African woman traveler highlights our resilience, determination, and capacity to seize control of our lives. It challenges stereotypes and showcases that we aren’t defined by poverty or constraints.
Rather, we’re empowered individuals enriching our lives through travel, while simultaneously dismantling barriers and reshaping perceptions about black African women.
Having lunch with some Korean church friends in Pohang city
How black Tanzanian women inspired me
The astonishment on my face was unforgettable as I observed women in Dar es Salaam, Tanzania, breaking stones for construction.
It was a role I had never envisioned women partaking in. In my homeland of Cameroon, stone cracking was traditionally considered a male task, reserved for those with physical strength.
Contemplating the impressive houses in the city and the expenses of my accommodations, I recognized that these women were likely earning a substantial livelihood from their labor. Enduring physical demands and harsh weather, they provided for their families without hesitation.
This eye-opening encounter shattered my preconceptions and expanded my horizons, teaching me that our potential is boundless with determination.
While I might not pursue stone cracking as a profession, observing these women’s triumphs motivated me to be open to new endeavors and self-challenges.
If black African women like them could achieve such feats, then I too can strive for greatness with the right mindset and resolve.
Throughout my travels, I’ve encountered numerous inspiring instances of women transcending stereotypes and pursuing varied careers and passions.
Each encounter has bestowed valuable insights and broadened my perception of my own capabilities.
Hence, I share this to inspire you, a fellow black African woman, that your journey abroad will undoubtedly be enriching.
Travel will unveil a realm of potential and empower you to embrace your full capabilities.
Beyond local comparisons, a world of knowledge and experiences awaits you. So, take that leap, explore, and uncover the incredible woman you are destined to become.
Go to this link to read more blogs about what you can do in 14 countries.
Venturing beyond Kigali, the capital of Rwanda, offers a glimpse into the country’s unique culture and history. Embark on a scenic 4–5 hour bus journey that unveils the Rwandan culture surprises hidden within this compact African nation.
For me, it was a solo expedition, opting to travel the tarred road into the lesser-known regions of Rwanda.
Nyanza, historically the nation’s heart, reveals a tale of battles and power struggles. Despite its size, the road leading to its core presents an unparalleled scenic view, with neatly aligned steep slopes covered in lush green grass.
The breathtaking scenery kept me engaged throughout the morning, despite the chilly winds that left my skin a bit drier.
The invigorating freshness of the breeze compensates for the coolness, offering a refreshing experience for all. Here’s what you can enjoy while exploring Nyanza.
King’s palace museum courtyard
What is special about the Rwandan culture?
Rwanda’s government has demonstrated a remarkable commitment to educating the next generation about their heritage.
A shining example of this effort is the “King’s Palace Museum,” a reconstructed traditional royal residence of the former king.
This museum showcases the nation’s history through its intricately designed thatched hut, resembling a beehive, and a concrete house depicting the impact of colonial powers and local Rwandan life.
Reflecting the historical instability of monarchies in Africa, Nyanza once served as a kingdom, accommodating a population of more than 2,000.
The distinctive architecture of their huts, as depicted in the accompanying image, tells a fascinating story of Rwanda’s past.
Rwandan huts
The thickness of the walls of these huts is indescribable. It required a lot of time to build. I can attest, traditional architecture remains the standard. Those old people were creative and smart.
Unforgettable Encounters: Inyambo Cattle at the King’s Palace Museum
“Unforgettable Encounters: Inyambo Cattle at the King’s Palace Museum”
In the rear of the expansive hut, an intriguing sight awaits: the long-horned Inyambo cattle, believed to be descendants of the king’s own herd.
These cattle are meticulously cared for, with their dedicated grazing field and cozy wooden barns for relaxation, all while basking in the warm sun.
However, the pinnacle of my visit was the enchanting experience of encountering these cattle. It might sound unbelievable, but these cows not only listen but also dance.
Yes, you read that right – they danced for me. With dedicated caretakers, these animals are treated with utmost attention and affection, even serenaded by their keepers.
Upon the arrival of a guest like me, the keeper offers a melodic Kinyarwanda song.
What ensued was truly extraordinary – the cows rose from their resting positions, swaying and moving as if they were in dance.
Witnessing this unique tradition come alive in such a mesmerizing way was a sight to behold and a memory I will forever cherish.
Rwandan culture
All the cows are big and elegant. They are said to hail from the wider Ankole breed. In those days, they played a fundamental role during ceremonies in honor of the king.
Exceptionally, they were decorated with rich jewelry. An uncommon thing to see.
And they were taught to listen to a trainer’s songs and follow his movements in a stately parade.
Preserving Tradition: Inyambo Cattle and Rwanda’s Monarchic Legacy
Though the monarchy era concluded in 1962 after Rwanda gained independence, the legacy of the monarchs and their lives endures as a captivating history lesson for both young Rwandans and curious tourists.
It’s truly commendable that the Rwanda Agriculture Board continues to breed and nurture the Inyambo cows, ensuring that the experience of their ancestors lives on for future generations.
With encouragement from our guide, I mustered the courage to touch one of the calves in the barn.
Its fur felt remarkably soft, an unexpected connection to Rwanda’s cultural heritage.
An intriguing revelation I encountered is that the distinctive horns of these cows symbolize Rwanda’s traditional dance style.
This detail had escaped my notice until now.
Following my visit, I observed several Rwandese cultural dance performances and recognized that the dancers elevate their hands gracefully in the air, harmonizing the movement with their rhythmic footsteps – a dance reminiscent of the magnificent horns of the Inyambo cows.
Traditional Rwandan items
My visit to Nyanza allowed me to not only witness but also interact with ancient traditional artifacts.
As an African, much of what I saw wasn’t entirely surprising; however, the joy came from realizing that similar items exist in cultures around the world.
One particular experience that stood out was when I knelt down to grind on a large grinding stone.
For a moment, I felt a pang of hunger. While this might sound peculiar to those unfamiliar with the practice of using stones to grind food, the taste is distinctly different when we do.
Many Africans share the belief that the stone imparts an unexplainable flavor to the food, and I can’t help but acknowledge that notion.
Although it might seem rooted in superstition, I stand by this experience.
To this day, I use a stone to grind specific traditional Cameroonian spices before preparing certain meals.
While grinding mills with modern machines are commonplace, and home blenders are readily available, there are certain ingredients that retain their authenticity and essence when ground using the traditional method.
traditional items
I was impressed by the wooden milk containers and their lids. The guide told me, those jugs could preserve the milk from the cows for days at a time. As for the ancient clay pots all displayed on the ground, I was glad they also use those. Some of their shapes were really different.
Rwandan culture experience: inside the palace hut
Stepping inside the hut, I was immediately struck by the darkness that enveloped the interior.
In contrast, the modern-day government has installed lighting for tourism purposes. It made me ponder how the older generations must have relied on local lighting methods.
During the guided tour, I had the chance to explore the various sections of the hut, each with its distinct purpose.
One area that particularly intrigued me was the King’s bedroom, a section elevated and adorned with a semi-gate-like structure resembling a blind-covered door.
The Guide explained that this sacred part of the palace was strictly off-limits to outsiders, and entry was only permitted upon a special request.
Even today, these traditional rules remain in place, preserving the sanctity of the space and offering a glimpse into the past.
King’s palace nyanza
To gain deeper insight into Rwandan culture, the Guide directed me to another section within the heart of the hut.
This area was regarded as the living room. It was a place where the King would host guests and engage in discussions with his family.
Adjacent to this space, there was a distinct area designated for the King’s wives. Interestingly, women were only allowed to be in the King’s presence if he specifically summoned them.
As I entered this space, I noticed the floor was adorned with mats, creating a cozy ambiance.
Seating myself on the mats, I embraced the opportunity to immerse myself in the experience.
Before entering, we had respectfully removed our shoes at the entrance. Its a sign of reverence for the palace and its traditions.
The palace museum
Just when I thought my journey was concluding as we left the hut, the Guide surprised me by mentioning another destination on the extensive premises.
Perched at the edge of the area was a modern concrete house, constructed by the Belgians in 1919 during Rwanda’s period as a League of Nations mandate territory.
While Belgium’s influence on Rwanda’s history is often associated with the negative impact of the genocide, it remains a significant part of the narrative.
This substantial white building, in stark contrast to the traditional hut, once served as the residence for the Belgians.
Inside, I discovered an array of modern furnishings like armchairs and carpets, reflecting a different era.
Today, it functions as a small museum, adorned with pictures on its walls that depict the historical relationship between the former Rwandan King and the Belgian administration.
Interestingly, visitors are restricted from taking photographs within the museum.
Hence, we walked through its various rooms while the Guide explained each space, including the bedroom, office, living room, and even the garage before we exited.
This site stands as a testament to the preservation of Rwandan culture.
It’s a place of learning, with schoolchildren frequently embarking on field trips to explore their nation’s history. On the day of my visit, I encountered a group of enthusiastic students eager to delve into their past.
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1 He who wells in the secret place of the Most High shall remain stable and fixed under the shadow of the Almighty [Whose power no foe can withstand].
2 I will say of the Lord, He is my Refuge and my Fortress, my God; on Him I lean and rely, and in Him I [confidently] trust!
3 For [then] He will deliver you from the snare of the fowler and from the deadly pestilence.
4 [Then] He will cover you with His pinions, and under His wings shall you trust and find refuge; His truth and His faithfulness are a shield and a buckler.
5 You shall not be afraid of the terror of the night, nor of the arrow (the evil plots and slanders of the wicked) that flies by day,
6 Nor of the pestilence that stalks in darkness, nor of the destruction and sudden death that surprise and lay waste at noonday.
7 A thousand may fall at your side, and ten thousand at your right hand, but it shall not come near you.
8 Only a spectator shall you be [yourself inaccessible in the secret place of the Most High] as you witness the reward of the wicked.
9 Because you have made the Lord your refuge, and the Most High your dwelling place,
10 There shall no evil befall you, nor any plague or calamity come near your tent.
11 For He will give His angels [especial] charge over you to accompany and defend and preserve you in all your ways [of obedience and service].
12 They shall bear you up on their hands, lest you dash your foot against a stone.
13 You shall tread upon the lion and adder; the young lion and the serpent shall you trample underfoot.
14 Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore will I deliver him; I will set him on high, because he knows and understands My name [has a personal knowledge of My mercy, love, and kindness—trusts and relies on Me, knowing I will never forsake him, no, never].
15 He shall call upon Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him.
16 With long life will I satisfy him and show him My salvation.
What is the meaning of Psalm 91?
God’s desire is to shield us from harm, requiring our conscious seeking of His presence. Just as David boldly declared his connection with God, who is He to you? Is He your personal deity or inherited from your parents?
Amid challenges, God aims to deliver us, aware of the devil’s schemes and even modern afflictions like COVID-19. Surviving amid numerous deaths underscores His protective hand, a reason to express gratitude.
God’s plan is our safeguard, but we must actively approach Him. Trust in His unwavering Word, the Bible, and have faith in His faithfulness beyond human limits, countering Satan’s assaults.
While fear is a natural part of life, believing in God’s protection dispels it. He assures us that, despite fears, His shield prevails.
God guards us day and night, repelling the enemy’s constant threats. Amid global crises, God’s promise stands firm, and in His presence, we find our refuge.
Why will God protect us?
God’s protection stems from unwavering trust in Him, transcending what our eyes perceive.
While challenges like COVID-19, droughts, famines, and natural disasters may shake our reliance on God, His Word affirms His ability to shield our families.
Your existence today reflects His safeguarding. Keep steadfast in your dependency on Him.
Our Lord Jesus, is the only one who will completely understand us in every aspect. Isn’t that a bold sentence to make, yes it is.
God could have saved the world without physically coming down to it. He (God the Father, Jesus Christ the Son and the Holy Spirit) created the whole world with just words. He could do it and we will all be spiritually free from sin and the consequences of death.
However, he decided to come and be a man.
This decision to be a human was just to make us know that he can relate to us as a person.
The Trinity didn’t want us to have a distant relationship with him where He is in heaven, and we are here alone on earth. He wants us to experience him by physically touching him and connecting with him in ways beyond handwriting on a tablet, like he did to the people in the Old Testament.
For because He Himself [in His humanity] has suffered in being tempted (tested and tried), He is able [immediately] to run to the cry of (assist, relieve) those who are being tempted and tested and tried [and who therefore are being exposed to suffering].
The New Testament is a reflection of God’s unconditional love for us. His coming on earth made him experience everything we now experience. Whether it is hatred, rejection or disrespect. Jesus suffered to bear our sins, though sinless. He took the weight of all our mistakes and carried the heavy wooden cross on our behaves so that we will not be indebted by Satan and his useless lies.
From the devil himself to other people, Jesus was tempted in several ways to dishonor God. He didn’t heed to the temptations, and he counted them with the word of God. This goes to say, we cannot prevent temptations. If God was tempted for the 33 and a half years he lived here on earth, we will always be drawn. Temptation is a medium to allow us to show our devotion to God. If we have invested ourselves in knowing the word of God, no type of temptation will make us heed to sin. We will be obedient to God regardless.
I have heard people say, if God is good, why does he allow us to be tempted? That is a vaque question. God doesn’t tempt us. We have the Bible as guide and the Holy Spirit to help us overcome anything contrary to the plan of God.
Why did Jesus become a man?
His profound love stands as the primary impetus for His earthly arrival.
Yet, the verse above also signifies His purpose to stand by us during our most arduous trials. Trials, unceasing and diverse, provide the sole arena in which we can demonstrate our true identity as His children.
For instance, consider the times He encountered rejection in His hometown.
Even the Pharisees, who should have embraced Him, withheld their support. Just as He faced challenges from unexpected quarters, we too shall encounter our share of tribulations in manifold forms.
How should we react?
The optimal and exclusive approach is to find solace in rest. This involves unwinding and acknowledging our companionship.
Even Jesus experienced such moments, and countless individuals worldwide are undergoing similar situations.
Amidst our trials, it’s all too common to believe that no one truly comprehends our feelings. It’s valid that unless someone has encountered precisely the same circumstances (with identical facts), full understanding might elude them.
Yet, in an extraordinary revelation, God, the all-knowing, affirms His understanding in this verse.
What a comforting affirmation!
Implicitly, this signifies that if we place our faith in God, anxiety can dissipate.
Every temptation or trial faced by Jesus was transient.
Likewise, all the Apostles and exemplary figures of faith in the Bible encountered their share of challenging times. Irrespective of your current predicament, rest assured that God is cognizant. He stands ready to guide you through it, provided you entrust yourself to Him.
To entrust oneself to Him implies placing absolute confidence in His capabilities.
Trust surpasses mere assumption of reliance; it entails complete surrender, firmly believing in our hearts that God can orchestrate positive outcomes even from seemingly adverse circumstances.
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Malindi, a picturesque town nestled on the shores of Malindi Bay where the Sabaki River meets the Indian Ocean, graces the Kenyan coastline with its presence. With a history dating back to the 13th – 14th century, Malindi exudes an ageless charm that captivates all who visit.
While renowned for its exquisite beaches, Malindi offers a wealth of experiences beyond its sandy shores.
The captivating Swahili-inspired architecture further enhances its appeal, transforming the journey from Mombasa into a thrilling escapade.
For an unforgettable visit, the prime period is from May to October. My own exploration of Malindi in September 2022 etched lasting memories in my travel journal.
Malindi’s historical tapestry is woven with influences from Arab rulers, African residents, and Indian settlers.
The town boasted a diverse population, including approximately 1000 Arabs, 2500 Africans residing in or near Malindi, and an additional 2000 Africans in nearby plantations.
This eclectic amalgamation of races contributed to a vibrant and distinctive community, often characteristic of coastal areas.
Interestingly, I observed that some individuals exhibited facial features distinct from those I encountered in Nairobi, while their fair complexion hinted at their ancestral origins.
1. Tour the ancient Malindi ruins of the Gedi people.
Situated 94 km north of Malindi town, Gedi is a petite yet historically significant town nestled within Kenya’s coastal region.
Dating back to the 15th century, Gedi was once a bustling stone settlement masterfully crafted by the Swahili people.
The exceptional aspect lies in the fact that the entire town was painstakingly constructed using stones and rocks.
Thanks to the meticulous conservation efforts championed by the Kenyan government, a substantial portion of the original foundations remains intact to this day.
In the year 1927, Gedi’s remarkable expanse of 44 hectares was rightfully bestowed with the status of a historic monument.
Extensive excavations were undertaken, unearthing expansive sections of this ancient enclave.
Among the awe-inspiring discoveries were pillar tombs, a grand palace, and a resplendent mosque.
During its heyday, Gedi’s inhabitants were categorized based on their economic and social standings.
The sprawling ruins are encircled by two distinct walls. The inner wall serving as the enclave of the affluent elite.
The outer wall encompassed a sprawling 18-hectare expanse that included farmlands and plantations. It is presumed to be where the middle class erected mud and wattle houses.
Beyond the boundaries of the main walls, the lives of the peasants unfolded. Gedi’s intricate layout offers a vivid glimpse into its storied past and the diverse narratives of those who once thrived within its stone embrace.
Gedi ruins Kenya
What is in the Malindi ruins?
As the excavation work continued in Gedi, fascinating discoveries led to the naming of various areas based on what was found. One such discovery was a coral tomb adorned with exquisite Arabic script engraved with the date 1399. Just a few steps away from this dated tomb stood the majestic Great Mosque.
What amazed me the most was the “Well of the Great Mosque”. It’s an incredibly designed well that reached an impressive depth of 50 meters. It was believed to have been used for ablution, a ceremonial cleansing ritual.
As I explored further with the guide, I came across an intriguing sight on the other side of the mosque – an octagonal tall pillar tomb. The iman or priest probably lived here. priest.
Deeper into the forest, we encountered the presumed 15th-century palace. Here, the king would hold court and address women with marital problems separately from the men.
Along the way, I noticed chambers with no visible windows or doors. Historians speculate that these rooms might have been the secret storage places for the noblemen’s treasured gold and jewels. To access this hidden treasure, we saw a secret door cleverly concealed in the roof.
Walking through Gedi’s historical remnants was like stepping back in time, unraveling the mysteries of this ancient stone town. Every corner had a story to tell about the lives of those who once lived there.
Why is Gedi unique?
Gedi historic town is documented under public records as part of the National Monument since 1927. The National Museums of Kenya currently manages it.
Reports from UNESCO confirm it was the first site to be excavated in East Africa. Surprisingly, it remains the most intact of the preserved Swahili historic towns.
2. Take a history tour of the Gedi Ethnography gallery
Within the expansive premises of the Gedi ruins, there is a small gallery. It houses a treasure trove of ancient artifacts showcasing the life of the Malindi people. What’s truly remarkable is that you don’t have to travel elsewhere to explore this fascinating exhibit. It’s all conveniently located in one place.
Curious to glimpse the attire worn by these ancient people? Look no further, for this gallery has it all. From ancient clothes to displays of an old bed, chair, and baby cot used by the Swahili people. It made me step back in time and witness their way of life.
In transparent glass stands, there are delicate clay pots, intricate jewelry, and sharp swords. They give a glimpse of the skilled craftsmanship of that era. One of the most captivating exhibits is a small, elegantly designed ship. It offers a glimpse into the maritime culture of those days.
But perhaps the most surprising sight was the large whale skeleton occupying a single room. Standing there in awe, I couldn’t help but marvel at the grandeur of this majestic creature. I imagined the stories it might have witnessed over the ages. This tiny gallery truly encapsulates the rich and vibrant culture of the Swahili people. It provides a short yet captivating summary of their fascinating history.
Butterflies, renowned for their vibrant hues and captivating beauty, grace the Earth as some of the most colorful insects. In Kenya, the nation takes immense pride in the rich diversity of butterfly species that call its landscapes home.
Nestled near the Arabuko Sokoke forest along the coastal regions of Kenya, a community-driven enterprise known as “Kipepeo” has taken root.
The name, derived from Swahili, translates to “butterfly.” This remarkable endeavor goes beyond admiration and sustenance by actively supporting the livelihoods of the local populace residing in the vicinity of the forest.
A visit to Kipepeo unveils a modest yet bustling butterfly warehouse. It functions as a hub for the exchange of butterfly and moth pupae, along with an array of other live arthropods.
Intriguingly, this community initiative also involves the production and trade of honey and silk cloth. That further enhances the economic viability of the locals.
While I ventured into the hatching room for pupae, an awe-inspiring revelation awaited me.
These emerging live insects don’t merely bring joy to the local community; they travel afar, making their way to insect parks around the globe, captivating audiences worldwide!
What is the role of Kipepeo?
Playing a pivotal role, Kipepeo undertakes the essential task of orchestrating the production and marketing of these living insects.
Employing a strategy of training and vigilant oversight, they ensure the sustainable breeding. They cultivate insects right on the farms, utilizing wild parent stock.
Nestled adjacent to the historic Gedi ruins, Kipepeo stands as an extraordinary enterprise that seamlessly melds conservation. It’s a source of community empowerment, and a global admiration for the captivating allure of butterflies and other arthropods.
It’s genuinely heartening to witness how this endeavor not only uplifts the local populace. It also magnificently showcases Kenya’s innate natural treasures to an international audience.
kipepeo butterfly house
Whether international or national purchase of Kipepeo products, it contributes directly to the conservation of critical natural heritage for future generations. For as cheap as 1 dollar, every insect sold adds value to the life span.
After exploring the unique displays and seeing some beautiful butterflies moving around, I was impressed by the special photo zone. It transformed me into a butterfly.
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Looking to explore Asia? Look no further than South Korea. This highly developed Asian gem offers a plethora of activities to indulge in.
Touching down in Seoul, a prime choice I must say, opens up a world of possibilities.
Amidst the modern skyscrapers and cutting-edge subways that make up this sprawling metropolis, you’ll find a harmonious blend with pop culture.
But Seoul isn’t just about the contemporary – delve into the serene beauty of Buddhist temples and grand palaces, all while treating your taste buds to the delights of Korean street food at bustling street markets.
The Gocheok Sky Dome located in a small neighborhood of Guro-gu in Seoul is a domed baseball stadium.
Baseball is one of the country’s favorite sports, so matches are a high form of entertainment, as fanatics will crowd the arena. Sky Dome is the home ballpark of KBO club Kiwoom Heroes.
Though the big hall-like stadium is completely covered on the top, it is primarily used for baseball and has a capacity for 16,744 spectators.
This beautifully designed structure was opened on 15 September 2015.
Beyond its role as a sports complex, this venue transforms into a concert epicenter, accommodating approximately 25,000 spectators.
In 2016, I had the privilege of participating in a Christian crusade hosted by Korean churches, featuring the esteemed Prophet T.B. Joshua from Nigeria as the keynote speaker.
As I entered, I couldn’t help but marvel at the advanced technology that had been harnessed to construct this colossal, versatile structure.
In the past, this facility has been used to host major events. For example, the first round of the 2017 World Baseball Classic, featured host nations Taiwan, South Korea, Netherlands, and Israel.
South Korea sky dome
In 2019, the large Gocheok Dome hosted the opening round of Group C at the 2019 WBSC Premier 12. South Korea, Cuba, Australia and Canada competed in Group C.
Check online to go visit the dome if there are any activities.
Gwangmyeongdonggul Cave stands as South Korea’s premier themed cave park, offering an array of cultural and artistic wonders.
Its origins as a former gold mine, where precious metals like gold, silver, and bronze were once extracted, added a layer of astonishment to my visit.
Utilizing state-of-the-art technology, this space has been ingeniously transformed, inviting both local Koreans and international tourists to immerse themselves in its offerings.
Within this expansive underground expanse, the Wine Cave and Cave Aqua World beckon visitors to partake in novel experiences.
From Gold Falls to Gold Road, Gold Palace to Horror Experience, and from Cave Basement World to Underground Lake, the attractions unfold one after another.
Notably, the largest dragon sculpture in the nation stands here as well.
While many caves remain shrouded in darkness, Gwangmyeongdonggul Cave defies the norm.
Bright LED lights adorn its path, guiding visitors from the entrance to the depths of the subterranean realm.
And that’s not all; every weekend, a captivating Black Light Performance unfolds, captivating all in attendance.
It’s said that this distinctive cave isn’t just an attraction but a place of healing.
As you wander through its corridors, you’ll encounter numerous spots thought to hold healing energy, providing solace and rejuvenation for the mind.
Gwangmyeong Cave
Though I visited in 2015 when it was opened, this cave became one of Korea’s 100 top destinations between 2017-2018.
Ensure to plan a trip within the week. This is because from Tuesdays to weekends because it is closed on Mondays.
The tour inside is 30-40mins but could be a satisfying life experience.
Facilities for eating at the cave
The indoor cave Café is at Upcycle Art Center (2F). The menu varies with Korean meals and drinks, but you can only visit between 9 am-6 pm within open days – Inquiries: +82-2-2612-7710
There is also a small outdoor café located near the Cave Ticketing Booth No. 1. Here, there are Western meals like oven-baked pizza, hot dog, snack, drinks, etc. It is equally opened only from 9 am to 6 pm on days when the cave is open. – Inquiries: +82-70-4277-8907
Are you a shopaholic? Or would you want to buy a souvenir? There is a small Gift Shop beside the Cave Ticketing Booth No. 1. It opens and closes at the same time as the other places above. – Inquiries: +82-70-4451-3192
If you didn’t have lunch before going there, then the Maru de Cave Restaurant is open from 11:30-14:30 / 18:00-21:00. Despite its irregular plan, it is certain you can relax here to eat after reserving at least 3 days before visiting via phone. (+82-70-4277-8908)
I was able to watch a concert performance by a violinist. The place was crowded that Saturday, but I recommend visiting during weekdays
How much are the fees?
Facilities and Services:
Parking: Available for a fee.
Suitability: Suitable for all age groups.
Entrance Fees:
Adults: 5,000 won
Teenagers: 2,500 won
Children: 1,500 won
Discounts:
Groups and Gwangmyeong residents eligible for discounts.
Additional fees might apply for specific programs.
Free admission for infants (aged 3 & below) and seniors (ages 65 & over).
Facilities Available:
Convenient Facilities: Walking path, trekking path, nursing room, medical care room, etc.
Who designed and made the famous South Korea statue?
Kim Yeong-won designed the statue. He is a carving and modeling professor at Hongik University. The sitting King Sejong was designed after a chosen competitive bet between a shortlist of artists recommended by the Korean Fine Arts Association and universities.
This grand statue commemorates the 563rd anniversary of the inception of the Korean alphabet by King Sejong.
Specifications and Impression:
In terms of structure and composition, the statue stands as a mighty golden figure, spanning a height ranging from 6.2 to 9.5 meters and boasting a weight of 20 tons.
When I stood beside it, I couldn’t help but feel dwarfed, akin to a tiny ant in its presence.
On sunny days, gazing up at its pinnacle requires quite a neck stretch.
The statue portrays King Sejong with one hand raised and the other gripping a book, a representation that honors his pivotal role in shaping the educational landscape of Koreans.
King Sejong’s Reverence:
Koreans hold King Sejong in profound esteem, a sentiment I came to understand during my studies at the Sunmoon Language Institute. His enduring legacy in the educational realm stands as a testament to this admiration.
Inscription Display:
Dominating the expansive side walls of the statue’s pillar are displays showcasing the entire Hangul alphabet characters, offering a tangible celebration of linguistic innovation.
South Korea King Sejong statue
Still as a memorial of his unique influence in Korea, in front of the statue there are small models of a celestial globe, a rain gauge, and a sundial, some of his traditional inventions.
I was surprised to know he was involved in the promotion of agriculture, literature, science and technology, as well as Confucian philosophy, in Korea
4. Visit a tourist Korean village settlement
Amidst the bustling expanse of Seoul, where towering skyscrapers and meticulously designed apartment complexes dominate the landscape, there exist pockets of neighborhoods that offer a glimpse into the past.
These enclaves boast ancient Korean-designed houses, each meticulously crafted in the distinctive and time-honored traditional style.
The structure of the Korean traditional house called a hanok consists of a wooden framework consisting of columns, crossbeams, purlins, rafters and various types of supports and connectors.
Hanok is also common in North Korea and China. It was first designed and built in the 14th century during the Joseon dynasty.
Generally, Korean architecture considers the positioning of the house in relation to its surroundings.
Speaking of the connection to the land and the rhythm of the seasons, the interior of these houses is thoughtfully designed, featuring wooden flooring where residents would gather, sit, and even sleep on cushions or directly on the floor.
In ancient times, an idyllic Korean dwelling was envisioned to have a mountain as its backdrop and a river flowing in front.
This symbiotic relationship with nature was paramount.
For a genuine immersion into Korean architectural nuances, you’ll observe that the forms and styles differ according to the region.
For instance, in the colder northern areas of Korea, houses took on a square layout with a central courtyard, optimizing heat retention.
Conversely, in the southern regions, a more open and L-shaped design was favored, adapting to the local climate.
South Korea native village house visit
At this tour visit, you can enter the house and walk around the courtyard. No one lives here.
There are just guards wearing traditional Korean outfits who show you around and explain a bit of the history.
It was a great experience for me.
5. Attend a South Korea traditional concert
The reverence Koreans hold for their culture is palpable, driving them to earnestly champion its promotion.
Traditional songs resonate throughout the air, becoming an integral part of the city’s tapestry. Regardless of the season, you’ll find melodies echoing along the streets and within dedicated venues.
Concerts are thoughtfully arranged, offering platforms for people to come together, sing, and revel in dance.
These gatherings are infused with an energy that’s nothing short of vibrant, as they brim with a multitude of performances and cultural spectacles that leave an indelible mark.
The spectrum of offerings ranges from music to mesmerizing art displays.
It’s a tranquil antidote to the rigors of daily life, providing a space to shed the weight of work or academic pressures.
What is arirang?
Among the collection of songs, some hold a unique status, collectively known as Arirang.
These compositions bear profound cultural significance, delving into themes of departure and reunion, as well as the spectrum of human emotions encompassing sorrow, joy, and happiness.
The tapestry of Arirang comprises various categories, distinguished by their distinct lyrics and melodies.
Notably, the thirty-six recognized versions of Arirang have undergone a continuous evolution, each contributing to the rich heritage.
On a fortunate occasion, my friends and I were welcomed into a complimentary tour group that culminated in a captivating concert.
I found myself entranced by the exuberant performances that unfolded before us.
Among the delightful showcases, it was the spirited singing and dancing by the young children that left an indelible impression on me.
However, it was the astonishing drumming presentation by the skilled women that truly took my breath away.
south korean arirang concert
Though the arirang songs are not upbeat like the K-Pop famous brands, they can be very solemn and enjoyable. In some cases, it is great to just listen to the musical pitches of the singers.
At the end of the concert, all the foreigners at the event were invited to sing too.
6. Seoul city tour
Among the myriad delights Seoul offers, consider concluding your journey with these recommended destinations:
Riverside Retreat: Immersing yourself in the city’s charm wouldn’t be complete without a visit to the riverside.
The Han River gracefully divides Seoul into two expansive zones, connected by a lengthy concrete bridge.
While the river itself doesn’t invite swimmers, its beaches beckon for leisurely strolls and serene rendezvous with nature.
My experience was amidst a fog-laden, breezy winter day, curtailing my time by the water.
To truly relish this experience, I encourage a visit during the balmy seasons of summer or spring. The vista is singular, and the air carries an invigorating essence.
War Museum Discovery: A pivotal part of our tour led us to a modest war museum.
This repository housed relics from ages past, showcasing a diverse array of ancient war artifacts, from weaponry to historical currency. It proved fascinating to discern the contrasts between bygone coins and notes and the modern currency in circulation.
The resilience of Korea’s history, and its commendable efforts to rebound from the ravages of the Korean War, garners admiration.
These culminating experiences encapsulate the essence of Seoul, offering a blend of natural beauty and a poignant connection to history.
Seoul city
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