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3 Steps on How to be free from offenses

August 15, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

Harboring offenses towards one’s parent(s), friend(s), ex-husband, boyfriend, engaged partner, or colleagues, just to name a few, is a negative way of life. Agreeably, they have wronged us either knowingly or unknowingly. Holding their error against them in our hearts is like drinking poison and expecting other people to die.

The definition of offenses is annoyance or resentment brought about by a perceived insult to or disregard for oneself or one’s standards or principles. This describes the behavior of millions of people these days.

It is not abnormal to say, people who remain offended are people who do not know their identity as forgiven children of God.

Jesus never promised us a trouble-free life, absent from hurt or insults. Instead, He encouraged a non-revengeful attitude towards the person who hurt us and guaranteed peace in Him.

John 16:33 says, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

How to live free from offenses

The following steps are practical actions to guarantee an offense-free life.

A. Pray and trust God to avenge and vindicate you

Acknowledging that offenses are inevitable if we live with people and recognizing that God is aware and knows how to reward/judge everyone who mistreats us is a substantial reason not to remain offended.

Scripture does not mention we will not be offended, but it discourages us from staying offended despite the gravity of the situation. Eph 4:26 “Be angry but do not sin”

For example, in Luke 17:1-3, Jesus said to the disciples, “It is impossible that no offenses should come, but woe to him through whom they do come! It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.

The good news is that; God has promised to avenge and punish the person who offended you, so staying offended is ignoring and disobeying God.

When I was offended at my ex, I was always bitter and could not pray. I grieved the Holy Spirit by continuously rehearsing the painful thoughts in my mind. I could not concentrate whenever I studied the Bible. Therefore, I realized it is impossible to serve God wholeheartedly with a heart full of offenses.

B. Choose not to offend others, too.

You will cut someone else who didn’t wound you until you heal. “My breath is offensive to my wife, And I am loathsome to my own brothers.” Job 19:17. Start by admitting you are offended and pray to God for a new heart is the first step.

Staying offended for a long time makes you bitter towards others and unappreciative of life. With time, it becomes a barrier to one’s relationship with God and him/herself.

I became bitter toward my ex, family, and friends when I was offended. Sadly, I blamed my ex and decided to isolate myself. As a result, I became contentious, argumentative, and defensive unnecessarily. However, when I discovered my relationship with God was broken, I quickly repented, prayed, apologized, and made conscious efforts to rebuild my relationships.

Since I removed the offenses from my heart, God has granted me unspeakable joy, peace, and mercy with other people. I haven’t forgotten the pain, but I have chosen not to allow it to control my emotions and life or cause me to mistreat others.

You can choose not to be angry and decide to ignore an offense committed against you. Prov 19:11 stipulates, “A man’s discretion makes him slow to anger, And it is his glory to overlook a transgression.”

Deliberately decide like Paul not to be offended despite your life’s hardships. “Giving no cause for offense in anything, so that the ministry will not be discredited. Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonments and riots…” 2 Corin 6: 3-10.

C. Accept Jesus as the sacrifice for your offenses

It is purposeless to remain offended when God predestined Jesus to die and bear all our offenses.

Rom 9:33. Just as it is written, “Behold, I lay in Zion a stone of stumbling and a rock of offense, and he who believes in him will not be disappointed.

The only duty we have when offended is to believe in Jesus.

In other words, keeping offenses is being disobedient to the word of God according to 1Pet 2:8. And “a stone of stumbling and a rock of offense.”They stumble, being disobedient to the word, to which they also were appointed.

Going through life, it is impossible to predict all circumstances, but like Jesus, we need to purpose in our hearts not to remain offended consciously.

Therefore, decide daily to pray and act according to Rom 12:17-19 “Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord.

If your heart is hurting, love is the only solution. Proverbs 10:12 “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses.”

Also, institute self barriers not to offend others based on your pain, and lastly, believe in the work of the cross that Jesus became our sin and died for every situation we will ever experience.

Click here to read a list of Bible verses regarding bearing offenses.

To read more on other spiritual topics like joy, forgiveness, smiling, and patience, just to name a few, click here.

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3 Reasons to go on Mission Trips- My Tuguegarao lessons

August 13, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

Hopping the plane in the summer of 2019 to go on missions to the Philippines was the best of my travel experiences thus far. Though I had watched several Filipino series before that flight, I was convinced I would meet happy people.

It became a reality from the airport. I received welcoming smiles from the Manila to the Tuguegarao city immigration officers at the airports. Even little children in remote communities were glad to talk with me.

I set out with more than two dozen church friends to share the love of Christ at several Presbyterian churches in Tuguegarao, Cagayan province. We flew from Seoul- Manila- Tuguegarao for several hours, but meeting many joyful people in this distant city was refreshing. This post is a description of some of my experiences.

What I observed at the churches in Tuguegarao

Our trip was divided into daily activities wherein we had to visit some churches in different communities. It was no wonder to see the great work of several Korean missionaries. Though most of the churches were now pastored by Filipinos, I was encouraged to travel far into the rural areas.

All worship services were lively and joyful. There was a lot of dancing and singing. Whether it was a long prayer session or a sermon, I was inspired to see how devout Filipinos in these churches were. They were committed without reservations, and it was a blessing fellowshipping with them.

Since many Filipinos spoke English and Tagalog, at least in Tuguegarao, I didn’t struggle to communicate or understand them. Several young students at the church-owned schools were open to discussing with me.

Whether they were asking me about my background or sharing their stories, I felt comfortable relating with them. I noticed they were friendly and more welcoming than in any other Asian country I had been to.

Lessons I learned from this Tuguegarao mission trip

The list of things I learned from this trip is long. Below is a summary of the most relevant.

1. God honors a sacrificial heart

As we traveled to some villages far beyond the city center, I wondered how did the Korean missionaries know about those people. For several trips, we had to take long walks, board a canoe on a river, walk on stones and ride a horse to cross another river. It took us hours before we arrived there, but it was all worth it.

This means the missionaries who went there to establish those churches and preach the gospel practically abandoned every form of comfort in the city. Tuguegarao isn’t as developed as any South Korean city, but these missionaries were willing to let go of everything just so some people in a faraway place could hear the gospel.

I found that most rewarding and challenging. As I reflect on it, I am reminded of the words of Jesus. “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” John 15:13. That experience got me thinking, and questioning myself, what have I sacrificed for others?

Ephesians 5: 2 “And walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” Jesus became the sole sacrifice for us all; the least we can do is to show love and care for others, too, regardless of their nationality, race, religion, or political background.

God has given us everything we ought to share with others. Romans 8:32 “He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?”

On a final note, God doesn’t just expect us to discomfort ourselves for others; he desires us to sacrifice our hearts for him. Psalm 51:17 “My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart you, God, will not despise.”

Reflection question

What are you sacrificing for God?

Can you give up your comfort in your country to serve in a poorer country?

2. Joy is a valuable virtue

I saw firsthand a group of joyful people I had never seen on the planet. Most, if not everyone, we met wasn’t highly wealthy. Many of them had average homes and simple lifestyles. Most houses weren’t sophisticated or modern. However, everyone I met wore a smile. As we walked around some areas, I couldn’t stop admiring some gardens’ creative recycled tires and plastic bottle decorations.

Almost every yard was clean with a flower garden. I felt happy seeing the joy on their faces as they sat outside their homes discussing and laughing in the evenings. Amazingly, I could tell their friendliness wasn’t only towards foreigners, but they had cordial relationships with their neighbors.

On one unforgettable evening, we went out to preach the gospel in a remote village. We met several people on the road who were willing to listen. They happily gave their time and were open to visiting the church. I recall a lady who came to me. She wore the typical smile, but it seemed she wanted to tell me more. I stopped preaching the gospel and listened to her.

She said, “I am glad to see you. I could never believe a black woman would come to visit us. I know you have seen that we are very poor” (paraphrased). For a minute, I was emotional. I didn’t have a scripture to tell her off the top of my head. So, I told her there are poor people in Cameroon and in South Korea too. Poverty isn’t a curse, and lack of money doesn’t mean God doesn’t love her. She looked shocked to hear that. I told her she had given me the best gift-her smile. We both smiled, and she thanked me for listening to her.

At that very moment, I realized she just wanted to feel heard. She knew about God but was shocked I would fly to her country for a reason like that. In summary, we separated with a hug, and I told her that her lack of physical possession doesn’t define her value in God’s eyes.

As short as our discussion went on, I learned to wear a smile regardless of my situation. I noticed this lady because she was smiling. After I heard her story, I asked myself if I had a reason to frown.

Reflection questions

Are you joyful because of your possession(s)?

3. Gratitude is a lifestyle

Finally, I concluded they were appreciative people. Among all the Filipinos I met, many said “thank you,” translated as “salamat po” in Tagalog. They were highly respectful when they spoke, and they were cautious even with their words. Several of them asked my age and didn’t hesitate to address me with a respectful title.

They referred to me as “Ate Sarah” or “Mam Sarah.” I have never felt so honored both by people younger and older than me. Despite how many things I told them to address me as Sarah, they felt uncomfortable calling me directly by my name.

They were quick to say thank you for almost everything. I really loved that about them. Though many villagers were farmers, they were very content with their lives. I rarely heard anyone complaining about their well-being. Whether they were using their vans or tuk-tuks, they seemed always to have something to laugh and talk about to each other.

It felt great walking around the market and seeing how much effort they invest in maintaining a simple lifestyle. Seeing the colorful paintings on their public transport vans on the streets was slightly funny but lively. However, I learned to be more grateful for everything I have.

Reflection question

What are you grateful to God for?

How often do you say thank you?

In conclusion, if I had the opportunity to go again to Tuguegarao, I would accept in a split second. Even though I went to preach the gospel, instead, I received the gospel in another way.

Find more stories about my different trips to other countries here.

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Camp Dumpy: Teacher Koki’s Chore lesson

August 4, 2022 - By Sarah Luma
Day 1 in Camp Dumpy

“Hello, everyone! Welcome to Camp Dumpy,” teacher Koki greeted.

“We’re really glad you’re here. We’ll be having breakfast soon, but first, I want to teach you about chores.”

“Doing chores at home helps you learn important things:
- Feeling good about yourself.
- Wanting to be part of family activities.
- Showing your parents that you respect them.
- Learning how to plan things.
- Working well with others as a team.”
“Teacher Koki, how do we learn these things?” asked Amelia.

“That’s a great question, Amelia,” Teacher Koki replied. “You can learn these skills by doing some tasks like:
1. Folding and putting away your clothes.
2. Helping with the dishes after they’re washed.
3. Taking out the trash and putting recyclables in the right bins.
4. Cleaning the bathroom sometimes, maybe on weekends.
5. Making your own snacks or cooking lunch with your mom.
6. Getting ready for school by packing up your books and picking out your clothes.”
“So, my friends, I encourage you to talk to your parents about how you can help at home. And if you’re already doing some of these things, great job! We all need to help out around the house every day.”

“Now, let’s go for a hike in the camp. We’ll talk more tomorrow morning.”

This story is a guide for teenagers.

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Getting children into the habit of pitching in around the home can begin as young as age two, by having them put away their toys when they’re done playing with them. By age twelve, there are few household tasks a teenager shouldn’t be expected to master. And once they earn their driver’s license, it is appropriate to assign them errands such as going to the grocery store or picking up the dry cleaning. Go to this link for more chores.

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Forgiveness: A Four-Step Path After a Relationship Ends

July 29, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

Darkness cannot dispel darkness; only light has that power. Unforgiving corrodes the heart of its holder. While it’s unpredictable whether someone may inflict pain upon you, your response after being hurt can be your choice. The most constructive response is forgiveness.

Persisting in an emotionally unforgiving state following a separation from a husband, fiancé, or family members is akin to leading a dual existence. It entails fixating on past wounds while inhabiting the current moment, and this endeavor holds no value. Each day arrives with its own divine grace; fretting over the past or the future yields no genuine healing.

Amazingly, our forgiveness from God is tangled in the forgiveness we generously give to others who have hurt us. Matthew 6:14-15, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins”.

All of us have encountered hurtful relationships at some point, yet forgiveness is a conscious decision to halt the inner strife that nurtures bitterness. Imperfection is universal, extending to both you and me. Pardoning a former partner is a mature Christian attribute that can be achieved through the following actions.

1. Choose forgiveness every day

Each day, and often multiple times a day, individuals may intentionally or unintentionally cause us pain. However, Jesus advises us to embrace a forgiving mindset towards everyone.

It is our duty to have a constant merciful and forgiving heart towards people who have hurt us, just like God does for us every time we disobey Him. (Daniel 9:9)

It is ungodly to hold unforgiveness in our hearts towards others. Micah 7:18 “who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy.”

So watch yourselves. “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.” Luke 17:3-4

Strangely, forgiveness is supposed to be given unmeasurably. Matthew 18: 21-22 “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times? “Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

We have the debt to forgive everyone

There are cases where the person doesn’t repent, at least not to your knowledge; forgive them.

Forgiveness doesn’t always mean the relationship will be repaired, but it means you free yourself from the bondage of that hurt and can still relate kindly with that person.

When I was hurt by a broken marriage relationship, I disconnected the person from all social media and contacts. I even relocated to another city and avoided him altogether. For a few months, I wept profusely daily, but I healed only after I started praying for him. I organized a face-to-face meeting years later. After this talk, I noticed all the hatred and bitterness had left my heart. We did not reunite, but I am glad I told him outrightly that I forgave him, and he was open to telling me why he acted that way.

2. Give forgiveness by praying for the person who hurt you

As Christians, praying is a vital part of our relationship with God, but when we are harbouring unforgiveness, God cannot hear our prayers.

And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.” Mark 11:25

You can never hate someone whom you pray for. Matthew 5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you”.

True forgiveness implies refusing to curse or hate that person who hurt you but deciding to bless and help and be kind to them when and if you can.

“Get rid of all bitterness, passion, and anger. No more shouting or insults, no more hateful feelings of any sort. Instead, be kind and tender-hearted to one another, and forgive one another, as God has forgiven you through Christ”. Ephesians 4:31-32

How does healing come?

Lasting healing from the pain of the past can only come through prayers. Whether your ex admits his wrongs or not, pray for yourself and for him. “So then, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you will be healed. The prayer of a good person has a powerful effect”. James 5:16

As surprising as it may seem, we ought to, like Jesus, pray for forgiveness and wish the best for the person who hurt us. This sometimes means assuming they are ignorant even though you know they might have deliberately hurt you. Jesus said, “Forgive them, Father! They don’t know what they are doing.” Luke 23:34

The hurtful situation will not change whether we forgive the person or not. On the contrary, like Stephen, forgiveness is a generous prayer we are obliged to make as true Christians despite the circumstances. Acts 7:59-60 “While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” Then he fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” When he had said this, he fell asleep.”

3. Choose forgiveness without condemnation.

It is easy to despise the person who hurt you, but it is ungodly to judge and condemn them.

Luke 6:37 “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven”.

I recall rejecting any hateful and bitter thoughts about my ex every time they popped up in my mind. Firstly, I read forgiveness scriptures and invested hours reading the Bible and gospel books and watching gospel messages on how to deal with unforgiveness from a Godly perspective. Later on, I wrote sticky notes on forgiveness and pasted them on places I could often see, like on my laptop and bathroom wall. Finally, I prayed for him every time I felt that anger to curse him.

4. Decide to be mature

Forgiveness is only for mature Christians.

As much as your ex’s actions could have been hurtful, it takes two to tangle. There is a possibility being humans as we all are, you contributed in a tiny way, both knowingly and unknowingly. Therefore, forgiveness is taking responsibility for your own actions and refusing to blame the person entirely for the breakup of the relationship.

I affirmed I had fully healed and forgiven him when I narrated my experience to others and did not weep profusely. Also, when I spoke to him and did not feel any animosity or resentment. I noticed all the revengeful and hateful emotions were gone whenever I chatted with him as a friend. Keeping friendly communication with boundaries properly defined is what I did for a few years until I noticed he considered me a mistress. I had to break the communication on all my social media platforms not because we were enemies, but because I knew it was right for him to focus on his new wife. Truthfully, I can never refuse to greet him if we meet again physically someday, but I clearly told him the reason for my distance.

Forgiving them doesn’t mean they will reciprocate, but do it for your freedom to maintain a peaceful relationship with God.

We need to be generous in forgiving those who mistreated us on a consistent basis, even as we pray for them. The best way is to decide not to be vengeful or harbor negative emotions towards them.

The Bible has a list of forgiveness verses, which I recommend you invest time meditating on.

Finally, because our Christian journey is an endless process, you can find more faith-building encouragements here.

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Harper’s Home Tasks

July 24, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

In Harper’s house, there are daily tasks for everyone to do. When she turned six years old, Daddy gave her some new tasks to do. He helps her learn how to do them by reminding her and showing her how it’s done. He says it’s important for everyone in the family to be responsible and learn to work hard.

Now that she’s seven years old, Harper has a routine. Every morning, she cleans her room by making her bed, vacuuming the floor, and putting her clothes away neatly in the closet. In the kitchen, she helps Mom prepare breakfast and sets the table. When they’re done eating, she helps clear the table and after Mom washes the dishes, Harper dries them.

On weekdays, before going to school, she also mops the floors in the kitchen and dining area. During the weekends, she dusts and wipes surfaces in her room and the living room. Every two weeks, she cleans her sink, bathtub, toilet, shower, and the bathroom floor.

At the end of each month, something special happens. Daddy buys Harper a special gift and in the evenings, he tells her how proud he is of her for all her hard work.

Source of tasks

Doing chores is a tradition in many families. Chores help kids (6-7) learn responsibility, and sharing chores gives you help around the house.

Not sure your kids will go for it? Take heart! There are ways to make chores a little bit, well, less of a chore for everyone.

Parenting expert Jim Fay, co-founder of the Love and Logic website, says we all need to feel needed and to know that we’re making a contribution — even kids. “But they can’t feel that way if they don’t have chores and make contributions to the family,” Fay says

To find out what tasks you can give your 4-5-year-olds, click this link.

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Exploring 4 Uncommon Facets of the Virtue of Patience

July 17, 2022 - By Sarah Luma
Do you consider patience a virtue from God? Some people say, “I am naturally a patient person.” Others say, “I have had to learn to be patient over the years.” How is this for you?

Is patience a virtue that can be developed based on time? Or does it come based on our experiences, or is it an innate personality trait?

Whichever way you define it, nobody can claim that they have not had more than one situation in their lives where they had to be patient. For some, it has been a promotion at their job, or others are waiting for a future business partner.

God demonstrated patience throughout scripture, and He still does now. We deserve punishment for our daily mistakes, but he is patient not to punish us. What a patient God! Romans 2:4 Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, forbearance, and patience, not realizing that God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance?

Examples of patience

We see in Gen 29:20 as Jacob’s patience made him serve seven years to get Rachel. Those years seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her.

A typical example is when farmers plant their seeds, they automatically expect the harvest. They don’t go back to the ground daily to dig and see if the seed is growing. They water it frequently and anticipate that God will make the seeds grow.

All trees require years to grow. Once a mango seed is planted, it sprouts in a week or two. But, it takes an additional year to reach 3 to 4 feet tall. Farmers will transplant the trees out to a growing field at this stage. After this process, it takes mango trees 2-4years to start bearing fruits.

Those years will sound long for a generation that desires instant results. People hunger to satisfy themselves these days as fast as possible. Fast food is preferred over cooked nutritious food. Microwaved food and instant hot water meals are choices over home-cooked meals, just to name a few.

According to Bible teacher Joyce Meyer “Patience is not just waiting, but how you behave while you are waiting.”

What is God’s patience?

Patience is a fruit of the spirit that grows only under trial. This is a virtue that grows with time and requires self-discipline. It applies to every aspect of our lives. Rom 12:12,” Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.”

“For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God, you may receive what is promised.” Heb 10:36. Everybody needs to learn how to be patient or endurant. This is because life has stages; we must scale through each level with caution and diligence.

No matter what you do, if you do it with patience, your reward is obvious. This is the promise in Gal 6:9, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

How can you be patient?

We can choose to be patient by abiding by the word of God. Below are some points to identify and evaluate yourself to know if you are a patient.
- When you are utterly patient, it will be easy to forgive people who hurt you, and it will prevent you from bearing grudges and hate. As Paul puts it in Eph 4:2, “ Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Having a patient heart makes you more tolerant and shows how deeply you love others.
God is patient
- God’s patience is displayed in several verses throughout the Bible. In it, Prophet Nahum said in Nahum 1:3, “The LORD is slow to anger but great in power;…” Patience is a fruit of love. It is not hypocritical to say, the more loving you are with people, the easier it will be to become patient with them. True love births patience, as seen in 1Corin 13:4, “Love is patient, love is kind…”.
- God’s love is what restrains him from punishing us. Nehemiah 9:17 They refused to listen and failed to remember the miracles you performed among them. They became stiff-necked and, in their rebellion appointed a leader in order to return to their slavery. But you are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love. Therefore you did not desert them.
- When we fully grow the virtue of patience, resolving our inevitable conflicts with people becomes straightforward. Prov 15:18 explains the consequences impatience can have on a disagreement as opposed to being patient. “A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel.”
- Patience is also evident in how hopeful we are. The aspiration you have while waiting for God to do something in your life is patience. Based on Roms 8: 24-25, “For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what they already have? But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.”
Where can we get patience?

That intense expectancy in our hearts that God will do what His word says He will do demonstrates our patient character and how we trust Him. (Ps 5:3).

It is God’s nature to be patient, as we see in Ps 103:8. The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love”. Every time you treat someone with patience, you display one of the attributes of God.

Every Christian has God’s kind of patience in their spirit. However, we have to desire and develop it deliberately. And, by extension, show us just as God has shown us.

Patience is not a feeling but a virtue.

Why should we be patient?

We all need Christ-like patience. It always makes us merciful to people, especially those who have hurt us.

“But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life.” 1 Tim 1:16.

In everything we do, we have to be patient. Sometimes, God responds to patience in prayer. “I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry.” Ps 40:1.

In conclusion, I encourage you to build a life full of perseverance and endurance.

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Ho Chi Minh City: 3 Compelling Reasons to Visit Vietnam’s Vibrant Metropolis

July 15, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

Venturing into vibrant Vietnam, a prominent tourist destination in Southeast Asia, led me to the bustling metropolis of Ho Chi Minh City. Despite my inability to witness ancient ruins, stunning beaches, and captivating landscapes, this city teems with attractions. From traces of French colonial influence to locals who still speak French, the blend of history and modernity is fascinating.

Navigating the city’s lively streets, whether by motorbike, car, or foot, introduced me to its welcoming spirit. Amidst the traffic hustle, the former Saigon resonated with warmth. Friendly faces greeted me, eager for conversation despite language barriers. English not being prevalent posed a challenge, yet the positive energy prevailed. And let’s not forget the sunny weather, a delightful bonus.

Although my stay was brief, Ho Chi Minh City left me content. Its unique charm, combined with the warm interactions, ensured a memorable experience. With the intention of returning, I departed, enriched by the moments shared in this remarkable urban expanse.

Museum visit

With a deep-rooted curiosity about the history of every land I explore, my journey led me to the doors of the Ho Chi Minh Museum in Ho Chi Minh City. Nestled within an old edifice, this museum serves as a repository of the past, particularly the echoes of colonial dominion, notably the era of French colonial rule.

As I wandered through its halls, each section unveiled a tale of the country’s colonialist past. Ancient artifacts bearing French inscriptions stood juxtaposed with Vietnamese descriptions, a testament to the bygone era’s intricate fusion. The museum, established in 1987, resides within a venerable structure that once belonged to a wealthy Chinese man, Hua Bon Hoa, acclaimed as Saigon’s wealthiest citizen in the early 20th century.

What truly caught my eye were the well-preserved vintage aircraft on display, harking back to a time long past. Their meticulous maintenance and vibrant paintwork added to the museum’s immersive atmosphere. The enchanting courtyard, adorned with fragrant herbs, blossoming flowers, and lush trees, provided a serene juxtaposition to the historical narrative being recounted.

Situated along 97A Pho Duc Chinh in District 1, this museum holds a treasure trove of approximately 21,000 artifacts. A haven for enthusiasts of art and history alike, it promises an immersive experience for individuals of all ages. The museum presents a miniature glimpse into the past, inviting both adults and children to traverse through time.

For those sharing my inquisitiveness about the history of former Saigon, I wholeheartedly advocate for a visit to this museum. It stands as a captivating window into an era bygone, beckoning the curious-minded to uncover the rich tapestry of the city’s past.

Ho Chi Minh Arts

Navigating the bustling market, my eyes danced over a myriad of decorative trinkets, each vying for my attention. The vibrant hues and intricate designs held me captive, as I pondered over the perfect souvenir to capture the essence of my visit.

Friendly Vietnamese vendors, a mix of helpful and persuasive, guided my shopping journey. Some locked eyes with curiosity, leaving me immersed in choices. After a mental tussle, I settled on a wallet. Its exquisite design and thread stitches caught my eye, and the foam interior made it both light and fluffy. A picture of a hardworking Vietnamese farmer adorned it, speaking volumes to me. While I tried on the traditional hat, I knew it was a memory to cherish, not an everyday accessory.

The market echoed with a symphony of creativity, boasting shoes, clothes, jewelry, and more. The allure of Vietnamese culture beckoned, with prices more inviting than those in South Korea. The temptation to embrace Vietnamese artistry was irresistible. Did I succumb? One can guess the answer.

Sarah and friends at a Ho Chi Minh City restaurant

Artistry wasn’t confined to the market; it flourished throughout the city. Quaint decorations adorned restaurants, each piece a burst of color and brightness. Mesmerized, I felt compelled to touch and understand their intricate craftsmanship, discovering that some were ingeniously crafted from recycled materials.

Among the city’s charms, the concept of dining under trees enchanted me. A natural respite from the sun’s warmth, it was a delightful way to savor a meal. Ho Chi Minh City had so much more to offer, leaving me yearning to explore further. My wish to uncover its hidden gems lingered, a testament to the captivating allure of this vibrant destination.

Eat delicious Vietnamese food

Due to my selective tastes, I encountered a culinary challenge in embracing Vietnamese cuisine. While not particularly spicy, the noodle soups didn’t resonate with me. Amidst the array of traditional dishes at restaurants, I sampled a few, like Phở Cuốn and Bột Chiên. However, my preference leaned toward simpler options like beef and rice. Cautious of the unfamiliar, I refrained from dishes I couldn’t identify, even though I observed the presence of raw vegetables and herbs in some Vietnamese meals.

A surprising culinary delight awaited me during dinner at a restaurant – a plain fish soup and rice. This unexpected gem was served to me at the university cafeteria, where I had the honor of attending a law conference at the University of Economics and Law.

Curiosity piqued my interest in comparing legal systems, prompting engaging conversations with Vietnamese law graduate students. Their warm reception and inquisitive nature led to a barrage of questions exchanged in our short but insightful interactions. While time constraints limited the depth of our chats, the campus tour provided a glimpse into Vietnam’s educational landscape.

Though my time was fleeting, I left with a sense of anticipation to explore Hanoi in the future. I invite you to share your experiences in either Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh City. For the adventure-minded, the journey is a perpetual voyage of discovery.

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Children Stories

Juli and her friends talk about the seasons of the world

July 11, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

Hello, hello! I’m Juli, and I’m so excited to welcome you to my awesome Study Club! Guess what? In today’s meeting, we’re diving into the incredible world of seasons.

Let me introduce you to my fantastic friends who are joining us: Farid, Lee, Mohammed, Isabella, Fredi, Taya, and James. We’re all here to explore and learn together!

We all come from different continents and countries.

Africa seasons

I will begin, I am from Africa.

We have two main seasons: the dry and the rainy season.

During the dry season, it is very sunny and hot.

It is mostly windy and refreshing.

These seasons last for 6 – 5 months each.

We always play many games outside the house.

Many of my friends enjoy playing football.

I will give time to Farid now.

Hello Friends, I am also from Africa.

I will tell you about the rainy season.

During this season, it is mostly raining every day.

In some places, when it rains, it is still hot but in other places it is cold.

The rains can be stormy sometimes.

But the rain also drizzles and falls normally.

This season lasts for 6 months.

We always play board games and watch TV inside the house.

I wear a raincoat or use an umbrella before I go to school.

I will let Lee speak to us.

Asia seasons

Hi friends, I am from Central Asia.

We have 4 seasons in my area.

They are; summer, winter, spring, and fall.

In summer, we go to the beach and swim.

For winter, we take a winter hike.

In spring, we take long walks in the park.

During the fall, we go on picnics.

Now is Mohammed’s turn.

Hi Friends, I am from Middle East Asia.

We have mostly hot and dry seasons.

Because we are beside the desert, it gets cold too.

Most of the time, the sun shines.

We have to use the air conditioner every day.

Sometimes it rains, but it is not often.

I become sweaty when I play outside.

So I usually play inside my house.

I will let Isabella talk now.

South America seasons

Hola friends, I am from South America.

We generally have winter, summer, spring, and fall in southern countries.

But in the northern countries, we have dry and rainy seasons.

When it is summer, we sing, dance, and play beach ball at the beaches.

The rain during summer makes everywhere wet and warm.

In winters, we cook a meal, with each family member in charge of a different course.

We sing indoors and eat together in the fall.

The seasons are different per country.

I will let James share with us now.

Europe seasons

Hello my new friends, I am from Europe.

We have 4 main seasons: summer, spring, winter, and fall.

Many people enjoy traveling during summer to other countries.

We always go skiing or skateboarding in winter.

My family likes going to the movies and shopping in spring.

During the fall, we bake and ride our bikes in the park.

I will allow Taya time to tell us about her area.

Oceania seasons

Hi friends, I am from Oceania.

We have four seasons too.

They are; summer, winter, spring, and autumn.

Our springtime is warm, so we plant a garden.

In autumn, we usually take long walks picking leaves and pine cones.

In the cold winter, we go to an indoor water park.

For summers, we make and fly kites at the beach before swimming.

Fredi will add something more.

North America seasons

Hi Friends, I am from North America.

We have summer, winter, spring, and fall seasons.

Many people travel during summer abroad or to other states.

My family likes building a snowman or snow fort in winter.

For spring, we learn new things like baking, painting, and arts.

In the fall, we go to an outdoor flea market and go shopping.

Teacher Sally will tell us about the last continent.

Antarctica

Hello pupils, Antarctica only has two seasons: summer and winter.

Antarctica’s summer is from October to February.

During this time, the sun is almost always in the sky.

Days rapidly get longer there in summer, then the sun disappears.

Winter starts in March and lasts until October.

Antarctic seasons change as Earth moves around the sun.

No one lives there. People just visit for tourism sometimes.

Thank you, everyone, for sharing. Let’s go eat some snacks.

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Children Stories

Penti’s vitamin C Story

July 11, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

Hey there, my pals! I’ve got a cool story to share about how I enjoy eating yummy fruits every day. You know what? Fruits are like little superfoods, and one of my favorites is vitamin C – it’s like magic for our health, just like Penti said.

So, picture this: we’re all chilling in our fun hangout spot after having a delicious lunch. It’s story time, and today it’s my turn to share. Everyone’s waiting with excited faces to hear what I have to say. With a big smile, I start my story!

“I totally love eating fruits because they’re like superheroes giving me lots of vitamins,” I say with a grin. Lino, one of my buddies, is super curious and asks me, “Hey Penti, what’s so special about vitamin C?” And I’m like, “Hold on, I’m getting there!”

I tell them that vitamin C is like a health boost. It can pump up our blood levels by 30%, making us feel super good. Now everyone’s even more curious to learn about the fruits that have this amazing vitamin.

What are Penti’s favorites vitamin C fruits?

I start sharing the scoop on my fruity favorites:

“First up, strawberries! They’re like a hug for your heart, keeping it healthy. Then, I gobble up two little oranges every two days. They’re like superheroes for my immune system, making it strong.”

“And check this out, folks! I sometimes snack on red, white, and pink sour grapefruits. They’re like magical stress-busters and give my bones a power-up.”

“Guess what? Apples are on my list too! They’re like secret weapons for losing weight.”

“Oh, and pineapples! They’re like tropical dreamers. They make my breathing better and my bones super strong.”

“Bananas are my morning buddies. They give me a blast of energy and help my tummy feel awesome.”

“Last but not least, avocados! They’re like the heroes of our eyes and skin – making everything better.”

“Now, there are more vitamins in these fruits than I can count, but I just wanted to share my fruity adventure with you. So go on, enjoy these delicious treats every day and get a bunch of vitamins to make you feel like a superhero too!”

As I finish my story, my friends are clapping and beaming with smiles. I sit down, feeling all happy and satisfied. And you know what? They’re totally ready to become fruit superheroes too! 🍎🍊🍌🍓

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Phnom Penh: A Captivating Tour Through Cambodia’s Heart

July 8, 2022 - By Sarah Luma

Explore the captivating beauty of the Kingdom of Cambodia through this vivid description. Unveil its stunning landscapes, coastal allure, and the warmth of its people. Embark on an exploration of Phnom Penh, the lively capital of Cambodia, known for its riverside charm and delectable seafood offerings. Discover the allure of this vibrant city through this enticing article.

Whether you’re drawn by its landscapes, cuisine, or cultural experiences, Cambodia offers a diverse range of activities. Join a journey that led to unforgettable stopovers, enriched by personal interactions and discovery.

1. Support children at an NGO like the Water of Life Phnom Penh

The Water of Life (WOL) is a registered Non-Governmental organization through the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Cambodia. It provides education, medical assistance, life skills, and weekly Christian discipleship.

Randy Fleming is the Director. He is assisted by Cambodian leaders Rith Sang, TongChou Chiu, and Channa Bo. The ministry centre in Phnom Penh is home to young men between the ages of 14- 25 who need assistance in life and resources to complete their education.

Adjacent to this, a house awaits college-age girls, providing not only education but also essential life skills. As an integral facet of the Water of Life initiative, the Children of Hope Home embraces around 20 children aged 1 to 13.

This nurturing haven orchestrates numerous activities, fostering growth and offering a caring residence. Witnessing their happiness and sharing moments of connection was truly heart-warming.

2. Phnom Penh street view

The architecture of the houses left me in awe. The streets of this enchanting capital city boasted a well-planned layout, offering ample space for movement.

Whether basking in the day’s sunlight or the city’s twinkling night lights, the panoramic views from rooftop cafés and restaurants were truly invigorating.

Noteworthy concrete monuments graced city junctions and highways, adding to the urban landscape. My admiration grew for the intricate craftsmanship displayed in traditional houses and temples, a testament to the Cambodian people’s deep religious devotion.

3. Learn Cambodian history at the UN Khmer Rouge Tribunal

Cambodia has undergone a remarkable transformation since the harrowing genocide perpetrated by Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge regime between 1975 and 1979. The tragic loss of more than 3 million Cambodian lives continues to cast a shadow, leaving a poignant memory for countless individuals.

While the wounds and grief remain, a resilient spirit has emerged, propelling the nation towards positive renewal and reconstruction.

As I walked down the hallway into several offices at the Extraordinary Chambers in the Courts of Cambodia, I was shocked to see our big the establishment is. The depths of human cruelty left me utterly shocked. Amidst my brief work visit, officials from the centre divulged the grim past of Cambodia, shedding light on the reasons behind the establishment of the tribunal.

Learning about the profound repercussions of the genocide left me disheartened.

Conversely, stories of healing and the imprisonment of some of the perpetrators offered a glimmer of hope. Nevertheless, comprehending the enduring grief still borne by some families proved a poignant challenge.

The court is not open for everyone in the public on random tours. I think you have to book an appointment. I suggest inquiring from the security at the gate. If international law is your major, or you just want to understand the history of Cambodia, this is a must-see place. My notes came to live and I understood genocide in another way.

I applaud the Cambodian people for rising up from the ashes.

4. Visit the glittering Royal Palace

Nestled within the heart of Phnom Penh, an enchanting sight awaited me: the resplendent Royal Palace, adorned with its captivating radiance.

The palace’s strategic placement beside the road took me by surprise, a glittering gem easily accessible to all. Astonishingly, the King himself resides there, a fact that prohibited tourism within the premises.

Nonetheless, the allure of its architectural marvel and lush gardens remained, even from a distance. Witnessing the palace’s ethereal nighttime glow left me with a profound sense of satisfaction.

5. Shop at the vibrant market

A journey to a new country is incomplete without a visit to its bustling markets. While some gravitate toward malls, I find immense joy in exploring local markets. For me, it’s more than just shopping – it’s a means to connect with the local culture. The vibrant array of artistic crafts and colorful items captivated me, showcasing the creative essence of the people. Notably, the image of the royal palace emerged as a renowned motif for numerous souvenirs.

Amidst the treasures, I encountered a delightful challenge: choosing what to bring home. Remarkably, the markets catered to every taste, whether it was clothing or home decor. The markets became a haven of options, ensuring that every traveller found something meaningful to take back as a cherished memory.

6. Use local transportation modes around Phnom Penh city

As is common in most capital cities, rush hours in the city were marked by bustling traffic jams. Despite this, certain areas still maintained a degree of mobility. A fascinating sight unfolded as numerous bike riders skilfully navigated alongside cars, each adorned with protective helmets.

The proficiency with which everyone manoeuvred their bikes was remarkable. A truly astonishing scene awaited me at the university car park – over a hundred motorbikes stood in rows.

Evidently, it was customary for students to commute to and from campus on their bikes, showcasing the incredible convenience of this mode of transportation.

On the other hand, if you don’t like the sound of the bikes, you could use a tuk-tuk. This is an auto-rickshaw. The distinctive three-wheeled, open-air vehicles known as tuk-tuks have become a noteworthy and increasingly popular mode of transportation. What caught my attention was the variety among them – some tuk-tuks were adorned with fabric coverings, providing shade from the sun’s rays.

I observed that several were equipped with blinds, creating a cozy and secure environment inside, safeguarding passengers from potential pickpockets. Additionally, the artistic allure of tuk-tuks shone through in their vibrant paintwork.

Moreover, these vehicles proved to be a cost-effective alternative to taxis, offering a unique and accessible way to navigate the city.

7. Have lunch at the Le Seoul Korean restaurant

Embarking on a culinary journey, I had the pleasure of dining at “Le Seoul Korean Restaurant” in Phnom Penh. This establishment seamlessly melds Korean cuisine with the Cambodian dining scene, creating a unique and unforgettable gastronomic experience.

As I indulged in a delightful experience, I savored a fusion of flavors by enjoying both fruits and food at a Korean restaurant in Cambodia. This culinary exploration offered a delightful blend of cultures, enhancing my dining adventure in this captivating city.

The design on the fruits, especially the guavas, was appetizing.

I visited this place in 2018, so, I suggest you google search their website before going there. There are hundreds of reviews about them.

Law and Development Conferences

Apart from touring the city, the main reason for my trip with my Law and Development Law School schoolmates was to participate in conferences. Under the patronage of some of Handong International Law School‘s refined Law Professors, I learned about the Cambodian legal system. Our first conference was at the National University of Management.

Engaging with the vibrant Cambodian student community was a highlight as they warmly welcomed and interacted with us. Their curiosity about studying in Korea sparked insightful conversations, where some shared their career aspirations and academic experiences.

Another distinctive event was the Cambodian Lawyer’s Forum, hosted at the Legal Documentation Center. While comprehending Khmer and the intricacies of their legal systems posed a challenge, I found immense value in gaining insights into their legal framework.

Phnom Penh’s array of activities offers something for everyone, and you’re sure to stumble upon more exciting experiences. Feel free to share your own adventures and discoveries in the comments below. I eagerly look forward to returning to this enchanting Kingdom in the future.

If you like travelling like me, you could check out some activities I did in other countries below.

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